Before anyone jumps on me, I say this as a woman who has been harassed in the workplace. You just can't make yourself credible by publishing professionally lit glamour shots when you make this kind of complaint.
No, I didn't say she did anything untoward in her workplace at all. I'm not blaming the victim. If she was harrassed, the harrassers should be punished.
It's difficult, however, not to note the professionally shot and made up photos peppering the article and wonder why she would want to mix the message. Were they right to be so distracted? Of course not, but the photos almost ask that for you. Muddy waters aren't going to help your case.
Hmm, how much control do you think she had over those photos? I assume if she wanted the article published she had to put up with the publisher.
At what point? In makeup? Choosing wardrobe? Getting dressed? Posing? Signing off on the proofs? Signing the release for the publisher? That she had no idea that the shots of the off the shoulder mini-dress might be construed as sexy? Come on. She's 33 years old, to say that she's had no control over any of that article or the photos is utterly infantilizing.
I agree about the mixed-messages, Timebandit. I don't blame the woman, of course; on the contrary, it shows what women are up against when it comes to fashion and sexuality in the work place. From Jezebel:
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If Lorenzana's account is accurate, then it seems like a clear case of discrimination. It's also a reminder that holding women responsible for the way men react to their bodies is just as common in the West as it is in the Middle East. But the Voice's coverage of the story reveals another disturbing angle: the way women critique and police each other's looks. Lorenzana herself responded to her harassment by criticizing other women's attire: "If you want to talk about inappropriate clothes, go downstairs and look at some of the tellers!" In a letter to HR, she explicitly compared herself to her female coworkers, saying they "were able to wear such clothing because they were short, overweight, and they didn't draw much attention, but since I was five-foot-six, 125 pounds, with a figure, it wasn't 'appropriate.'" And describing the cultural underpinnings of her personal style, she says, "Where I'm from, women dress up — like put on makeup and do their nails — to go to the supermarket. And I'm not talking trashy, you know, like in the Heights."
It makes sense that Lorenzana would want to show she wasn't dressing less "appropriately" than other women, and since she was under attack, it's perhaps not surprising that she didn't do so in the most gracious manner. But more strange is the Voice's salacious take on the whole thing. In her opener, Dwoskin writes:
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Everything about Debrahlee Lorenzana is hot. Even her name sizzles. At five-foot-six and 125 pounds, with soft eyes and flawless bronze skin, she is J.Lo curves meets Jessica Simpson rack meets Audrey Hepburn elegance-a head-turning beauty. [...] But when she got fired last summer from her job as a banker at a Citibank branch in Midtown-her bosses cited her work performance-she got even hotter.
Dwoskin closes in a similar vein, speculating that the case's arbitrator might "be too distracted by Lorenzana to focus on the evidence." Clearly she's trying to be light-hearted, but ogling Lorenzana in print the way her coworkers apparently did in life does a disservice to the seriousness of her discrimination claims.
Actually, I also found it weird that the article was accompanied by so many glamour shots of her. I didn't really understand what was up with that, or why the glamour shots were relevant in the least to the article.
There was one shot of her in a business suit. That was the one I thought was relevant. But then, the whole article had a somewhat salacious, objectifying tone to it, even though it was sympathetic to her.
P.S. Ha! I swear, I didn't read Catchfire's quote before writing my post above. I'm glad I'm not the only one who found the tone of the article to be "salacious"!
Of course there are mixed messages. The editors at the Voice saw an opportunity to run both sides of the street at the same time. As in "Hey, guys, we can write an article about discriminating against women and put up pictures of a hot babe to illustrate it. WOOT!"
She gets the choice of going with that flow or not having the article published.
That might have been a tough call. But it is not infantilizing to say that was the choice.
I'm getting the impression some think she shouldn't dress like this? I don't get the criticism of Lorenzana. Perhaps she felt or was even counselled this is the best way for her to get a fair settlement. Isn't that her perogative and why is it worthy of criticism if it was?
I'm pretty sure that the off the shoulder mini dress was not work wear. If it was, then yeah, HR should have told her to tone it down. Some places have different standards for management and other staff, or different departments, too. So maybe she was pushing the limit a bit at some point.
However, that's not the impression I get of this woman. It sounds like she's a bright, savvy person. What puzzles me is that she would have even given the Voice the glam photos.
It also bothers me that there is an assumption that she has been duped, twice victimizing her. Maybe she was given poor advice, maybe she didn't think about it, we don't really know. But I don't want to make the assumption that the poor pretty little thing was just not clever enough to make her own decision.
she is not giving mixed messages at all, full stop!
How so?
There's no mixed message. You have no idea why those photos are out there. You seem 100% that she's controlling the message. Maybe they were bought from a modelling agency she worked for in the past. Anything wrong with that?
Dudette's been fired, perhaps she needs money and agreed to a National Enquirer-esque story to pay her bills? You going to fault her for that to fight this?
Or maybe she just enjoys her sexuality, is that not um-kay?
My thought is the real reason she was fired is because she wouldn't fuck the bosses.
Why would you think that, RevolutionPlease? She's saying that the reason she was fired was because her male bosses told her that her looks were distracting them, even though she was wearing normal business attire. If she was fired because she wouldn't fuck the bosses, I'm sure she'd have said so in her lawsuit and the article.
Lots of people enjoy their sexuality. That's not the point. The point is, glamour shots of her in revealing clothing don't have anything to do with the story, which is that her bosses found her BUSINESS WEAR too revealing.
Therefore, the story IS putting forth a mixed message. The story is about a woman who was fired because her male bosses thought she looked too beautiful or "hot" in proper business attire. Then they run the story with a bunch of glamour shots of her wearing skin-tight, cleavage busting evening wear.
Is the reader intended to think that these pictures are examples of what she wore to the office? If not, then there are mixed messages being put forth to the reader.
I am also thinking that she likely wasn't the one who gave them the photos of her. The writer of the article claims that her lawyer took a bunch of photos of her wearing business clothes, but then they ran only one of those photos with the article (stating explicitly that, "This photo, unlike the others, was arranged by her lawyer for her suit").
So my question is, why would the publication do that? I'm not convinced that she was in on it.
Michelle, the fucking the bosses comment was a bit flippant but it can be very subversive.
I was concerned with Catchfire giving credit to Timebandit's commentary when Timebandit was directly blaming the victim while I think Catchfire was trying to catch the nuance. They're leaving the impression that it is the victim giving mixed messages not the media.
Um, Timebandit was NOT "directly blaming the victim". She's saying that running the glam photos with the article isn't helping her case. That's certainly not the same thing as "blaming the victim" for being sexually harassed. It's saying that there are mixed messages being sent to the readers of the article. Not to the bosses.
People are just so ready to jump down each other's throats and assume the very worst about whatever people write. It's so tiresome.
I'm emailing the mods and asking them to close this disgusting, venomous, sexist, misogynistic, voyeuristic, cheap, sensationalist, typical U.S. subhuman culture thread.
I think I've covered all the sentiments expressed here and in the linked article, but if I've missed any, I welcome input and feedback.
I'm emailing the mods and asking them to close this disgusting, venomous, sexist, misogynistic, voyeuristic, cheap, sensationalist, typical U.S. subhuman culture thread.
I think I've covered all the sentiments expressed here and in the linked article, but if I've missed any, I welcome input and feedback.
I was kind of shocked by some of the responses here at babble but like the descriptors you used, I realize that was the intended reaction to the "story".
Why would you think that, RevolutionPlease? She's saying that the reason she was fired was because her male bosses told her that her looks were distracting them, even though she was wearing normal business attire. If she was fired because she wouldn't fuck the bosses, I'm sure she'd have said so in her lawsuit and the article.
Lots of people enjoy their sexuality. That's not the point. The point is, glamour shots of her in revealing clothing don't have anything to do with the story, which is that her bosses found her BUSINESS WEAR too revealing.
Therefore, the story IS putting forth a mixed message. The story is about a woman who was fired because her male bosses thought she looked too beautiful or "hot" in proper business attire. Then they run the story with a bunch of glamour shots of her wearing skin-tight, cleavage busting evening wear.
Is the reader intended to think that these pictures are examples of what she wore to the office? If not, then there are mixed messages being put forth to the reader.
I am also thinking that she likely wasn't the one who gave them the photos of her. The writer of the article claims that her lawyer took a bunch of photos of her wearing business clothes, but then they ran only one of those photos with the article (stating explicitly that, "This photo, unlike the others, was arranged by her lawyer for her suit").
So my question is, why would the publication do that? I'm not convinced that she was in on it.
Okay, so I was curious what the provenance of the photos was and how other publications were spinning the story (the Voice most definitely had a doozy of a spin...) and looked further. It would appear that the photos of Lorenzana in business attire - and yes, they're somewhat sexy business outfits, but nothing I wouldn't have worn in my late 20s and early 30s in an office environment) were taken by Saswat Pattanayak. Here's a link to a story with those photos featured in a gallery you can click to at the bottom of the page:
The glam photos are credited to Carrie Schechter -- I thought I had a link that said "for the Village Voice", but at any rate, if you look on Schechter's website, the Voice is listed as one of her clients.
So it would appear that the glam shots were done specifically for the story. Was it coercion? Could be, but we really don't know. She probably could have said, no, too racy, dial it back a notch. Obviously, the whole set up was to tittilate on the Voice's side. I think it's probable she gave them the business attire photos and the Voice only used one.
We also don't know if her side of the claim is 100% accurate, either, since we don't have anything to go by but her interview and complaint. Assuming that there was harrassment, the Village Voice is not on this woman's side.
I predict she'll have a playboy spread in short order.
Good for her if she had to put up with that shit. Do you have a problem with that?
Oh dear god. Not the "nudie spread for jerkoff mag is empowering to women" trope... Because, you know, it's so much better to make your money on your back. I think I'm going to puke. Listen, hon, only little boys believe that fairy tale. Grow up.
Of course this would be a problem in the US. But once again we can thank our lucky stars for our boringly conservative banks where executives wear thornproof tweed skirts, munitions-grade woollen twinsets, and waterproof sensible shoes suitable for stamping out small brushfires. And don't get me going about what the women wear.
The presentation was sensationalist but I hardly think it's a worthless story. It nicely illustrates a double-standard for men and women in the workplace and shows how sexism can affect the workplace beyond the usually mentioned incidents of sexual harassment or discrimination in hiring/promotion. As for how it affects her case, that doesn't much matter. Her case is just about a lost cause in any court of law anyway because it's not going to a court but to a company-appointed arbitrator. In the court of public opinion, however....
Women making the news because of what we do and don't look like is part of what Bitch magazine calls a SMS, Sexist Media Stunt. Their analysis is that as the medium of print nosedives, SMS's are easy and quick ways to generate fake bullshit "controversies" and readership.
Obsessing over what women wear, what women do when we wear what we wear, and our effect (or not) on men who are helpless to control themselves in the face of such gorgeousness, is nothing new.
Cripes, this is Feminist Critique of Pop Culture 101, people!
Yawn.
And apparently, it's working. And eliciting sexist comments like alan smithee's at post #21.
Timebandit wrote:
Assuming that there was harrassment, the Village Voice is not on this woman's side.
I assume there was harassment, and I agree, the VV is absolutely not on this woman's side. They want to sell papers and/or advertising, and women considered "sexy and hot" by society's standards do that for print. No matter what the content of the story.
And there are double standards everywhere.
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Everything about Debrahlee Lorenzana is hot. Even her name sizzles.
Interesting that nobody has pointed out the obvious racist exoticization aspect of the sexism. The breathless prose about her racial background, and her own use of the word "spic" to describe herself, as well as describing how women in her "culture" do their nails to go to the corner store, all serve to reinforce racist/sexist tropes about women of colour in general, and Latina women specifically.
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Fotheringay-Phipps wrote:
But once again we can thank our lucky stars for our boringly conservative banks where executives wear thornproof tweed skirts, munitions-grade woollen twinsets, and waterproof sensible shoes suitable for stamping out small brushfires. And don't get me going about what the women wear.
Well, I should hope so. I mean, otherwise, it's tweeds and sensible shoes at dawn, and you know what that can lead to. ;)
When I were a tad, tweeds and sensible shoes could be very Julie Christie. I recognize that that is a superficial observation, but, um, are we being profound here?
This is a serious issue, for this woman and for the larger number of women out there who deal with the same problem. However, the article doesn't attempt to be serious - it's written as a fantasy soft-core pornography piece.
Everything about Debrahlee Lorenzana is hot. Even her name sizzles. At five-foot-six and 125 pounds, with soft eyes and flawless bronze skin, she is J.Lo curves meets Jessica Simpson rack meets Audrey Hepburn elegance-a head-turning beauty.
Where did the New York Times find this writer? Was he laid off by the erotic fiction publishing industry? I noticed that at right at the start of the article they have links to more pictures of the woman!
I am finding it very annoying, in general, as a man, to get this kind of patronizing media treatment. The idea is that by plastering pictures of beautiful women all over the text, you can get more male leaders, like putting cheese on a mousetrap. How about trying to get male readers by writing some well-written stories? This is also an issue in mainstream television. A lot of shows I watch, even when they have talented writers as can be seen from the broader storylines, bring on "special guest stars" every third episode and contrive storylines to have them walk around in their underwear. Another one that's bad is the Huffington Post, soft-core porn all over that website.
The other aspect is the background description of the men in the story as having no free will and being solipsists. Yes, beautiful women are distracting... deal with it. The truth is most men do. I think in these minds of these banking managers there have to be two kinds of women in the world, unattractive (to them) women who work for them and women they have sex with. I'm thinking at some point Lorenzana turned one of them down for sex, that's when she became "distracting".
500, if we could leave all speculating as to who among her bosses may or may not have sexually harassed Ms.Lorenzana around having sex with him/them (a criminal offense) that would be marvy. Her accusations are clear, and that's all we know of.
This kind of speculation (which rarely happens when the woman is not considered attractive by society's standards) feeds right into the SMS aspect of this whole stinkin mess.
This was not printed in the NYT as far as I know.
And I believe the VV did a classic CYA move and had a woman author the piece.
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More proof that this is an excuse to write a story and trash Ms. Lorenzana, and be racist too:
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On June 25, at 3:30 p.m., she sent a long-winded e-mail to two regional vice presidents whom she had never met, bypassing Morgan Putman at Human Resources. It was the kind of e-mail that could have used a proofreader, one a lawyer might advise a client not to send without some serious editing. (English is not her first language.) But she summed up her experiences with Fisher and Claibourne well and talked about "the cruelty of a hostile work environment," where she was harassed "on a daily basis." She ended by writing that "Mr. Fisher stated he is good friends with lots of people in the organization giving me . . . reason to believe that nothing will happen to correct the situation going on at branch 357. I have requested for the second time a transfer. . . . I came to Citibank with high expectations. Please I just want to work in a fair work environment where everyone is equal. Thank you in advance for your attention in this matter."
I wear a tweed cap most days in the autumn and I carry a tweed shoulder bag almost every day. When I can afford a tweed jacket that will stand up to my decadent tastes, that day will be one of the happiest of my life. Anyone else who would like to disresepect tweed will have to answer to me.
If you think the topic sucks then you shld engage in condescending and annoying thread diversions rather than use your powers as moderators to close the thread.
Women making the news because of what we do and don't look like is part of what Bitch magazine calls a SMS, Sexist Media Stunt. Their analysis is that as the medium of print nosedives, SMS's are easy and quick ways to generate fake bullshit "controversies" and readership.
Of course. And she appears to be a willing participant. Hence my remarks. (I'm not blaming her. She seems to be a fairly typical product of the society she lives in. But neither do I think it's "her choice", as that expression is popularly used.)
Interesting how, generally speaking, it's the men in this thread who are the most outraged. For women, this sort of thing is business as usual.
Do Doc Martens count as sensible shoes? If you're in Toronto and you see a woman in Docs, poo-brown corduroy pants, and a baggy batik print shirt, be sure and say hi
And technically, Fotheringay-Phipps started the tweed drift. I just ran with it. And added an unexpected salacious aspect to it, in tune with the tone of the OP.
I actually feel there are some good things being discussed, beyond the drift.
And yo, Caissa and Catchfire, whatchoo guys doing, a bi-coastal coordinated effort to bring mental images of tweed fetishes into my head that I'd prefer not to be there?
Yeah, 500--actually, I realy enjoyed your post, I was going to suggest you could write for Jezebel! You had a similar reactio to the piece I quoted upthread.
Obviously, if what she says is true, she has grounds for wrongful dismissal and should be compensated.
As for the glamour shots, I think there is another angle. Someone being fired for being 'too hot' is a juicy article for the media, and there is little doubt that she will be approached for various talk shows etc, and in this age of celebrity, may even be able to catapault herself into a new career as a result.
Nothing wrong with that. She is just being shrewd and making the best of a bad situation.
Keystone, I know you mean well, but this kind of comment really gets under my skin. It's a sort of tacit acceptance that, well, she's been objectified, therefore she should continue the objectification, perhaps even further it, to her own benefit.
The essential problem here is objectification. Furthering it is a short term solution. In the long run, it does none of us any favours. By saying, "Objectification is bad and the objectifiers should be punished, but it's a good thing for her to further the objectification, magnify it to an audience, commercialize it - after all, it's the best she can hope for," all you're doing is accepting the status quo. You accept her role as permanent victim, and then one has to ask if any of us women deserve any better.
Years ago, I was moving some product around in an outside storage shed with a lift truck. The top pallets were near the maximum extention of the mast. The pallets were heavier than I was used to handling. And, the way they were arranged in the shed to maximize storage space, they had a habit of catching on each other, and I couldn't put the backstop of the forks all the way into the pallet which isn't necessary, but I prefer.
So, I got my co-workers out of the way and went about my business very very carefully-- all part of my not dying or killing anyone policy I maintain in the workplace-- when in this moment of intense consentration another co-worker silently crept into the storage shed and announced himself with a well timed, sudden and loud yell.
You know what happened? Nothing. I ain't an idjit, you know.
And (warning too much information) at 51, my libido is still not just functioning, but functioning rather well. Ms. Lorenzana body type is a classic body type that they threw at my generation as sex symbols and I'd be a liar if I said that this didn't leave an imprint on me.
And, I have a thing for business attire, akin to a fetish. Pencil skirts, pumps. I mean, it just works for me.
But if I worked beside her in a bank she would not be a distraction. I'm there to make money for the bank as I'm paid to do. Heck, she could be naked for all the difference it would make.
The bank managers were admitting incompetence on a business level just for starters. And if I was their boss, they'd have been so gone before the conversation ever even got around to sexism.
Sounds like the current employer hasn't asked her to drop her suit, just to stop the media push. It could be that it's affecting her job performance.
I'm willing to believe that she was harrassed in the first place, but going on about a "lifetime of abuse" because of her looks... Honestly, I don't buy that. She should try being fat for a month and see how that goes. There are moments when being attractive gets in the way or brings unwanted attention, but there are also times where being good-looking is an immense advantage. And I say this as a woman who is (as Lorenzana describes herself), and has been, 5'6" tall and 120-ish lbs most of my adult life - there have been times when I haven't been taken as seriously as others because of my physicality, and times where it has opened doors. It's certainly never been something to bitch about.
If Lorenzana has been persecuted her whole life, it's probably not her looks that are the issue.
And, I have a thing for business attire, akin to a fetish. Pencil skirts, pumps. I mean, it just works for me.
I used to work with an electician who told me about a time he was doing some wiring in a mall, when a woman propositioned him, saying she'd like to have sex with him...as long as he wore his tool belt while doing it.
Young women who go job-hunting for retail jobs have to be "pretty". They know that. They're told that. Many accept that. In Canada, in 2010.
That's what I find scandalous and infuriating. Not this U.S. story of media exhibitionism, lawsuits, and pretexts for male snickering.
Also, it was nearly impossible as an 17-20 year old to get a service sector job, be it movie theatres, retail, fast food, etc. What they want are young attractive women. One time a friend and I checked into a movie theatre looking for work, the only man in the place was the janitor. Everybody selling tickets or popcorn (90% of the jobs) was female.
I just read that whole article, and I'm livid. I hope she wins her arbitration! Her managers are dirt.
I don't think the photos are helping her any...
Before anyone jumps on me, I say this as a woman who has been harassed in the workplace. You just can't make yourself credible by publishing professionally lit glamour shots when you make this kind of complaint.
??? Blame the victim much.
No, I didn't say she did anything untoward in her workplace at all. I'm not blaming the victim. If she was harrassed, the harrassers should be punished.
It's difficult, however, not to note the professionally shot and made up photos peppering the article and wonder why she would want to mix the message. Were they right to be so distracted? Of course not, but the photos almost ask that for you. Muddy waters aren't going to help your case.
Not a smart thing to do, that's all.
:rolleyes:
Hmm, how much control do you think she had over those photos? I assume if she wanted the article published she had to put up with the publisher.
What a stupid story. And what is babble - National Inquirer?
U.S. B.S.
Hmm, how much control do you think she had over those photos? I assume if she wanted the article published she had to put up with the publisher.
At what point? In makeup? Choosing wardrobe? Getting dressed? Posing? Signing off on the proofs? Signing the release for the publisher? That she had no idea that the shots of the off the shoulder mini-dress might be construed as sexy? Come on. She's 33 years old, to say that she's had no control over any of that article or the photos is utterly infantilizing.
I agree about the mixed-messages, Timebandit. I don't blame the woman, of course; on the contrary, it shows what women are up against when it comes to fashion and sexuality in the work place. From Jezebel:
It makes sense that Lorenzana would want to show she wasn't dressing less "appropriately" than other women, and since she was under attack, it's perhaps not surprising that she didn't do so in the most gracious manner. But more strange is the Voice's salacious take on the whole thing. In her opener, Dwoskin writes:
Dwoskin closes in a similar vein, speculating that the case's arbitrator might "be too distracted by Lorenzana to focus on the evidence." Clearly she's trying to be light-hearted, but ogling Lorenzana in print the way her coworkers apparently did in life does a disservice to the seriousness of her discrimination claims.
Actually, I also found it weird that the article was accompanied by so many glamour shots of her. I didn't really understand what was up with that, or why the glamour shots were relevant in the least to the article.
There was one shot of her in a business suit. That was the one I thought was relevant. But then, the whole article had a somewhat salacious, objectifying tone to it, even though it was sympathetic to her.
P.S. Ha! I swear, I didn't read Catchfire's quote before writing my post above. I'm glad I'm not the only one who found the tone of the article to be "salacious"!
"Salacious"? Geez, Michelle. This is an informal discussion board.
"mixed messages"?
unfuckingbelievable....
Of course there are mixed messages. The editors at the Voice saw an opportunity to run both sides of the street at the same time. As in "Hey, guys, we can write an article about discriminating against women and put up pictures of a hot babe to illustrate it. WOOT!"
She gets the choice of going with that flow or not having the article published.
That might have been a tough call. But it is not infantilizing to say that was the choice.
A pox on all their houses.
I'm getting the impression some think she shouldn't dress like this? I don't get the criticism of Lorenzana. Perhaps she felt or was even counselled this is the best way for her to get a fair settlement. Isn't that her perogative and why is it worthy of criticism if it was?
she is not giving mixed messages at all, full stop!
I'm pretty sure that the off the shoulder mini dress was not work wear. If it was, then yeah, HR should have told her to tone it down. Some places have different standards for management and other staff, or different departments, too. So maybe she was pushing the limit a bit at some point.
However, that's not the impression I get of this woman. It sounds like she's a bright, savvy person. What puzzles me is that she would have even given the Voice the glam photos.
It also bothers me that there is an assumption that she has been duped, twice victimizing her. Maybe she was given poor advice, maybe she didn't think about it, we don't really know. But I don't want to make the assumption that the poor pretty little thing was just not clever enough to make her own decision.
she is not giving mixed messages at all, full stop!
How so?
she is not giving mixed messages at all, full stop!
How so?
There's no mixed message. You have no idea why those photos are out there. You seem 100% that she's controlling the message. Maybe they were bought from a modelling agency she worked for in the past. Anything wrong with that?
Dudette's been fired, perhaps she needs money and agreed to a National Enquirer-esque story to pay her bills? You going to fault her for that to fight this?
Or maybe she just enjoys her sexuality, is that not um-kay?
My thought is the real reason she was fired is because she wouldn't fuck the bosses.
Wow...That woman is hot.
And with that,her bosses and co-workers should move on...Maybe the bank in question would prefer her to wear a niqab or a burqa.
She should sue and take them for all they got...Mind you,the bank will have an easy time proving their case.
Why would you think that, RevolutionPlease? She's saying that the reason she was fired was because her male bosses told her that her looks were distracting them, even though she was wearing normal business attire. If she was fired because she wouldn't fuck the bosses, I'm sure she'd have said so in her lawsuit and the article.
Lots of people enjoy their sexuality. That's not the point. The point is, glamour shots of her in revealing clothing don't have anything to do with the story, which is that her bosses found her BUSINESS WEAR too revealing.
Therefore, the story IS putting forth a mixed message. The story is about a woman who was fired because her male bosses thought she looked too beautiful or "hot" in proper business attire. Then they run the story with a bunch of glamour shots of her wearing skin-tight, cleavage busting evening wear.
Is the reader intended to think that these pictures are examples of what she wore to the office? If not, then there are mixed messages being put forth to the reader.
I am also thinking that she likely wasn't the one who gave them the photos of her. The writer of the article claims that her lawyer took a bunch of photos of her wearing business clothes, but then they ran only one of those photos with the article (stating explicitly that, "This photo, unlike the others, was arranged by her lawyer for her suit").
So my question is, why would the publication do that? I'm not convinced that she was in on it.
I predict she'll have a playboy spread in short order.
Michelle, the fucking the bosses comment was a bit flippant but it can be very subversive.
I was concerned with Catchfire giving credit to Timebandit's commentary when Timebandit was directly blaming the victim while I think Catchfire was trying to catch the nuance. They're leaving the impression that it is the victim giving mixed messages not the media.
I predict she'll have a playboy spread in short order.
Good for her if she had to put up with that shit. Do you have a problem with that?
Um, Timebandit was NOT "directly blaming the victim". She's saying that running the glam photos with the article isn't helping her case. That's certainly not the same thing as "blaming the victim" for being sexually harassed. It's saying that there are mixed messages being sent to the readers of the article. Not to the bosses.
People are just so ready to jump down each other's throats and assume the very worst about whatever people write. It's so tiresome.
Wow...That woman is hot.
And with that,her bosses and co-workers should move on...Maybe the bank in question would prefer her to wear a niqab or a burqa.
She should sue and take them for all they got...Mind you,the bank will have an easy time proving their case.
Pretty much...She's a hot chic...er ...I mean woman.
My wife is also able to pull of wearing attire like that in an equally sexy fashion...
The glamour shots are problematic to any case she may have...
Do you have a problem with that?
Do you have a problem with women in this thread voicing their opinions about this article?
I'm emailing the mods and asking them to close this disgusting, venomous, sexist, misogynistic, voyeuristic, cheap, sensationalist, typical U.S. subhuman culture thread.
I think I've covered all the sentiments expressed here and in the linked article, but if I've missed any, I welcome input and feedback.
Do you have a problem with that?
Do you have a problem with women in this thread voicing their opinions about this article?
I'm sorry Michelle but I'm confused. Timebandit directly implied that Lorenzana is controlling the story. I'll shut up now.
I'm emailing the mods and asking them to close this disgusting, venomous, sexist, misogynistic, voyeuristic, cheap, sensationalist, typical U.S. subhuman culture thread.
I think I've covered all the sentiments expressed here and in the linked article, but if I've missed any, I welcome input and feedback.
I was kind of shocked by some of the responses here at babble but like the descriptors you used, I realize that was the intended reaction to the "story".
Sucked in again.
Why would you think that, RevolutionPlease? She's saying that the reason she was fired was because her male bosses told her that her looks were distracting them, even though she was wearing normal business attire. If she was fired because she wouldn't fuck the bosses, I'm sure she'd have said so in her lawsuit and the article.
Lots of people enjoy their sexuality. That's not the point. The point is, glamour shots of her in revealing clothing don't have anything to do with the story, which is that her bosses found her BUSINESS WEAR too revealing.
Therefore, the story IS putting forth a mixed message. The story is about a woman who was fired because her male bosses thought she looked too beautiful or "hot" in proper business attire. Then they run the story with a bunch of glamour shots of her wearing skin-tight, cleavage busting evening wear.
Is the reader intended to think that these pictures are examples of what she wore to the office? If not, then there are mixed messages being put forth to the reader.
I am also thinking that she likely wasn't the one who gave them the photos of her. The writer of the article claims that her lawyer took a bunch of photos of her wearing business clothes, but then they ran only one of those photos with the article (stating explicitly that, "This photo, unlike the others, was arranged by her lawyer for her suit").
So my question is, why would the publication do that? I'm not convinced that she was in on it.
Okay, so I was curious what the provenance of the photos was and how other publications were spinning the story (the Voice most definitely had a doozy of a spin...) and looked further. It would appear that the photos of Lorenzana in business attire - and yes, they're somewhat sexy business outfits, but nothing I wouldn't have worn in my late 20s and early 30s in an office environment) were taken by Saswat Pattanayak. Here's a link to a story with those photos featured in a gallery you can click to at the bottom of the page:
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-20006646-504083.html
The glam photos are credited to Carrie Schechter -- I thought I had a link that said "for the Village Voice", but at any rate, if you look on Schechter's website, the Voice is listed as one of her clients.
So it would appear that the glam shots were done specifically for the story. Was it coercion? Could be, but we really don't know. She probably could have said, no, too racy, dial it back a notch. Obviously, the whole set up was to tittilate on the Voice's side. I think it's probable she gave them the business attire photos and the Voice only used one.
We also don't know if her side of the claim is 100% accurate, either, since we don't have anything to go by but her interview and complaint. Assuming that there was harrassment, the Village Voice is not on this woman's side.
I predict she'll have a playboy spread in short order.
Good for her if she had to put up with that shit. Do you have a problem with that?
Oh dear god. Not the "nudie spread for jerkoff mag is empowering to women" trope... Because, you know, it's so much better to make your money on your back. I think I'm going to puke. Listen, hon, only little boys believe that fairy tale. Grow up.
Of course this would be a problem in the US. But once again we can thank our lucky stars for our boringly conservative banks where executives wear thornproof tweed skirts, munitions-grade woollen twinsets, and waterproof sensible shoes suitable for stamping out small brushfires. And don't get me going about what the women wear.
The presentation was sensationalist but I hardly think it's a worthless story. It nicely illustrates a double-standard for men and women in the workplace and shows how sexism can affect the workplace beyond the usually mentioned incidents of sexual harassment or discrimination in hiring/promotion. As for how it affects her case, that doesn't much matter. Her case is just about a lost cause in any court of law anyway because it's not going to a court but to a company-appointed arbitrator. In the court of public opinion, however....
What Catchfire said.
And also, ick.
Women making the news because of what we do and don't look like is part of what Bitch magazine calls a SMS, Sexist Media Stunt. Their analysis is that as the medium of print nosedives, SMS's are easy and quick ways to generate fake bullshit "controversies" and readership.
Obsessing over what women wear, what women do when we wear what we wear, and our effect (or not) on men who are helpless to control themselves in the face of such gorgeousness, is nothing new.
Cripes, this is Feminist Critique of Pop Culture 101, people!
Yawn.
And apparently, it's working. And eliciting sexist comments like alan smithee's at post #21.
I assume there was harassment, and I agree, the VV is absolutely not on this woman's side. They want to sell papers and/or advertising, and women considered "sexy and hot" by society's standards do that for print. No matter what the content of the story.
And there are double standards everywhere.
Interesting that nobody has pointed out the obvious racist exoticization aspect of the sexism. The breathless prose about her racial background, and her own use of the word "spic" to describe herself, as well as describing how women in her "culture" do their nails to go to the corner store, all serve to reinforce racist/sexist tropes about women of colour in general, and Latina women specifically.
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Oh baby.
Somebody's makin' fun of my tweeds and my sensible shoes? Them's fightin' words, y'know.
And if I wasn't joking, skdadl?
Are you saying the thread's been salvaged?
Well, I should hope so. I mean, otherwise, it's tweeds and sensible shoes at dawn, and you know what that can lead to. ;)
When I were a tad, tweeds and sensible shoes could be very Julie Christie. I recognize that that is a superficial observation, but, um, are we being profound here?
This article... just wtf.
This is a serious issue, for this woman and for the larger number of women out there who deal with the same problem. However, the article doesn't attempt to be serious - it's written as a fantasy soft-core pornography piece.
Everything about Debrahlee Lorenzana is hot. Even her name sizzles. At five-foot-six and 125 pounds, with soft eyes and flawless bronze skin, she is J.Lo curves meets Jessica Simpson rack meets Audrey Hepburn elegance-a head-turning beauty.
Where did the New York Times find this writer? Was he laid off by the erotic fiction publishing industry? I noticed that at right at the start of the article they have links to more pictures of the woman!
I am finding it very annoying, in general, as a man, to get this kind of patronizing media treatment. The idea is that by plastering pictures of beautiful women all over the text, you can get more male leaders, like putting cheese on a mousetrap. How about trying to get male readers by writing some well-written stories? This is also an issue in mainstream television. A lot of shows I watch, even when they have talented writers as can be seen from the broader storylines, bring on "special guest stars" every third episode and contrive storylines to have them walk around in their underwear. Another one that's bad is the Huffington Post, soft-core porn all over that website.
The other aspect is the background description of the men in the story as having no free will and being solipsists. Yes, beautiful women are distracting... deal with it. The truth is most men do. I think in these minds of these banking managers there have to be two kinds of women in the world, unattractive (to them) women who work for them and women they have sex with. I'm thinking at some point Lorenzana turned one of them down for sex, that's when she became "distracting".
Ok, so the tweed drift didn't take. Damn.
500, if we could leave all speculating as to who among her bosses may or may not have sexually harassed Ms.Lorenzana around having sex with him/them (a criminal offense) that would be marvy. Her accusations are clear, and that's all we know of.
This kind of speculation (which rarely happens when the woman is not considered attractive by society's standards) feeds right into the SMS aspect of this whole stinkin mess.
This was not printed in the NYT as far as I know.
And I believe the VV did a classic CYA move and had a woman author the piece.
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More proof that this is an excuse to write a story and trash Ms. Lorenzana, and be racist too:
I'm wearing a tweed jacket today Maysie and sensible shoes.
I wear a tweed cap most days in the autumn and I carry a tweed shoulder bag almost every day. When I can afford a tweed jacket that will stand up to my decadent tastes, that day will be one of the happiest of my life. Anyone else who would like to disresepect tweed will have to answer to me.
Sensible shoes I could take or leave.
If you think the topic sucks then you shld engage in condescending and annoying thread diversions rather than use your powers as moderators to close the thread.
I have several tweed hats Catchfire but I am wearing a cloth hat today.
The issue of tweed is germane to the topic 500.
What I object to in this thread 500 are the attacks on Timebandit.
Women making the news because of what we do and don't look like is part of what Bitch magazine calls a SMS, Sexist Media Stunt. Their analysis is that as the medium of print nosedives, SMS's are easy and quick ways to generate fake bullshit "controversies" and readership.
Of course. And she appears to be a willing participant. Hence my remarks. (I'm not blaming her. She seems to be a fairly typical product of the society she lives in. But neither do I think it's "her choice", as that expression is popularly used.)
Interesting how, generally speaking, it's the men in this thread who are the most outraged. For women, this sort of thing is business as usual.
Do Doc Martens count as sensible shoes? If you're in Toronto and you see a woman in Docs, poo-brown corduroy pants, and a baggy batik print shirt, be sure and say hi
Hey 500, I was being silly.
And technically, Fotheringay-Phipps started the tweed drift. I just ran with it. And added an unexpected salacious aspect to it, in tune with the tone of the OP.
I actually feel there are some good things being discussed, beyond the drift.
And yo, Caissa and Catchfire, whatchoo guys doing, a bi-coastal coordinated effort to bring mental images of tweed fetishes into my head that I'd prefer not to be there?
Where the hell's bagkitty?
Just two Scottish football loving lads discussion fashion, Maysie. Would you rather we discussed kilts?
Yeah, 500--actually, I realy enjoyed your post, I was going to suggest you could write for Jezebel! You had a similar reactio to the piece I quoted upthread.
story reaches Europe via Yahoo:
Trop sexy pour Citibank?
http://fr.biz.yahoo.com/04062010/395/trop-sexy-pour-citibank.html
Obviously, if what she says is true, she has grounds for wrongful dismissal and should be compensated.
As for the glamour shots, I think there is another angle.
Someone being fired for being 'too hot' is a juicy article for the media, and there is little doubt that she will be approached for various talk shows etc, and in this age of celebrity, may even be able to catapault herself into a new career as a result.
Nothing wrong with that. She is just being shrewd and making the best of a bad situation.
Keystone, I know you mean well, but this kind of comment really gets under my skin. It's a sort of tacit acceptance that, well, she's been objectified, therefore she should continue the objectification, perhaps even further it, to her own benefit.
The essential problem here is objectification. Furthering it is a short term solution. In the long run, it does none of us any favours. By saying, "Objectification is bad and the objectifiers should be punished, but it's a good thing for her to further the objectification, magnify it to an audience, commercialize it - after all, it's the best she can hope for," all you're doing is accepting the status quo. You accept her role as permanent victim, and then one has to ask if any of us women deserve any better.
Sorry, that's just not good enough.
I thought the thread should be closed, but I must thank Timebandit for finding some gold in the midst of the dross. Well said, TB.
Years ago, I was moving some product around in an outside storage shed with a lift truck. The top pallets were near the maximum extention of the mast. The pallets were heavier than I was used to handling. And, the way they were arranged in the shed to maximize storage space, they had a habit of catching on each other, and I couldn't put the backstop of the forks all the way into the pallet which isn't necessary, but I prefer.
So, I got my co-workers out of the way and went about my business very very carefully-- all part of my not dying or killing anyone policy I maintain in the workplace-- when in this moment of intense consentration another co-worker silently crept into the storage shed and announced himself with a well timed, sudden and loud yell.
You know what happened? Nothing. I ain't an idjit, you know.
And (warning too much information) at 51, my libido is still not just functioning, but functioning rather well. Ms. Lorenzana body type is a classic body type that they threw at my generation as sex symbols and I'd be a liar if I said that this didn't leave an imprint on me.
And, I have a thing for business attire, akin to a fetish. Pencil skirts, pumps. I mean, it just works for me.
But if I worked beside her in a bank she would not be a distraction. I'm there to make money for the bank as I'm paid to do. Heck, she could be naked for all the difference it would make.
The bank managers were admitting incompetence on a business level just for starters. And if I was their boss, they'd have been so gone before the conversation ever even got around to sexism.
I'd hire her.
Woman Who Says She Was Fired For Being Too Good-Looking May Be Fired Again
Sounds like the current employer hasn't asked her to drop her suit, just to stop the media push. It could be that it's affecting her job performance.
I'm willing to believe that she was harrassed in the first place, but going on about a "lifetime of abuse" because of her looks... Honestly, I don't buy that. She should try being fat for a month and see how that goes. There are moments when being attractive gets in the way or brings unwanted attention, but there are also times where being good-looking is an immense advantage. And I say this as a woman who is (as Lorenzana describes herself), and has been, 5'6" tall and 120-ish lbs most of my adult life - there have been times when I haven't been taken as seriously as others because of my physicality, and times where it has opened doors. It's certainly never been something to bitch about.
If Lorenzana has been persecuted her whole life, it's probably not her looks that are the issue.
I find this story offensive on many levels.
Young women who go job-hunting for retail jobs have to be "pretty". They know that. They're told that. Many accept that. In Canada, in 2010.
That's what I find scandalous and infuriating. Not this U.S. story of media exhibitionism, lawsuits, and pretexts for male snickering.
The essential problem here is objectification. Furthering it is a short term solution. In the long run, it does none of us any favours.
Precisely. Thanks for taking the time to "spell it out".
And, I have a thing for business attire, akin to a fetish. Pencil skirts, pumps. I mean, it just works for me.
I used to work with an electician who told me about a time he was doing some wiring in a mall, when a woman propositioned him, saying she'd like to have sex with him...as long as he wore his tool belt while doing it.
He agreed.
I find this story offensive on many levels.
Young women who go job-hunting for retail jobs have to be "pretty". They know that. They're told that. Many accept that. In Canada, in 2010.
That's what I find scandalous and infuriating. Not this U.S. story of media exhibitionism, lawsuits, and pretexts for male snickering.
Also, it was nearly impossible as an 17-20 year old to get a service sector job, be it movie theatres, retail, fast food, etc. What they want are young attractive women. One time a friend and I checked into a movie theatre looking for work, the only man in the place was the janitor. Everybody selling tickets or popcorn (90% of the jobs) was female.