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Toronto Star, CJC in homophobic gay panic

bento
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So, Bernie Farber shows up to Pride in his straight, over-middle-aged splendour to march with supposed queer Jewish student contingent Kulanu, and he's wearing a t-shirt that says "Nobody knows I'm gay". But when Antonia Zerbisias ironically says, in a comment to a blog post of hers, that she didn't know he was gay and hadn't seen him at Pride before, apparently, this is cause for GREAT CONCERN in the halls of the CJC, where it is discussed at an executive meeting. Heaven forbid anyone should mistakenly think Farber, a straight man who recently lectured queers on the meaning of Pride, might be gay, not that there's any problem with that! Issue a media statement, call up the Public Editor at the Toronto Star! Lo and behold, a few days later, Kathy English pumps out a fine piece of pandering in which she calls the ironic statement that Farber was gay "distasteful". Yes, it's distasteful to be called gay. 

You know what's distasteful? Homophobic pandering and selling out your journalists. 

Not to mention that Kathy and Bernie just don't seem to have their heads wrapped around this whole blog thing yet. 

Gay Panic at the CJC and the Toronto Star

 

 


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hysperia
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Insanity.  It just doesn't take much to see this tempest for exactly what it is.  Why was it beyond the capacity of English and Cruikshank? 


M. Spector
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remind
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Have written a letter of objection to the Star, at the link contained in the linked article above.


bento
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The Star and Farber are so ridiculous on this that everyone can see it. Even right-wingers like Mark Steyn.

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I'm not gay, I just falsely claim to be, and then complain about being taken at my word...

Despite the fact that Mr Farber was the first to misidentify himself as gay, the newspaper's ombudswoman devotes an entire column to a characteristically pompous media-ethics snoozefest denouncing the offending columnist for being "tasteless" and getting the paper's apparently brain-dead publisher (my old boss at The Chicago Sun-Times) to do a lot of plonking pro-forma huffing about how the item "fell short of the Star's standards of accuracy, fairness and civility", and reassuring readers that in future systems will be put in place to ensure that the paper is even more unreadable ...whoops, sorry, I mean, systems will be put in place to ensure that non-gays claiming to be gay are not taken at their word without having their gay status confirmed by gay-accredited orientation-checkers. Whatever.

Queer Tee for the Straight Jew

 

 


hysperia
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Holy crap, Mark Steyn wrote something I agree with.  And it's funny too!


Maysie
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How about for next year's Pride fest Bernie simply wears a rainbow t-shirt that says "Nobody Knows I'm Stupid"?

I agree with Mark Steyn too. I have to go lie down now....


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I'm rooting for a "Nobody knows I'm a self-hating Palestinian" T-shirt, worn at a Zionist meeting - these folks don't have to march, they give marching orders to the likes of Iggy.


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Canadian Dimension: Bernie Farber is not gay; he is just in an open relationship with the truth

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The Toronto Star owes apologies for two things out of this column. One, the homophobic suggestion that it was distasteful, almost too distasteful to reprint, to ironically suggest that Farber was gay. And two, the obvious injustice to Zerbisias. Farber is a public figure who misidentified himself as gay at Pride for political reasons, and it’s fair comment to take that on. Zerbisias was just doing her job. And the Star owes her an apology.


Michelle
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Maysie wrote:

How about for next year's Pride fest Bernie simply wears a rainbow t-shirt that says "Nobody Knows I'm Stupid"?

Hahaha!


spatrioter
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On Canadian media, the CJC and defending the Zerb

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Kathy English, who left journalism to work in the ivory tower of academia at about the same time DOS was still the standard OS, who has no (known) blogs or experience with digital publishing, and whose Twitter account has five updates and 46 followers, does not come off well deriding the one of the most competent and engaging social media users at the Star.


Cueball
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There is nothing more heartwarming than when a prejudice is overcome with an even deeper prejudice.


Michelle
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I think it's hilarious.  He wears a shirt that says, "Nobody knows I'm gay" and then freaks out because someone jokes that they didn't know he was gay.  Uh, dude, if you didn't want people to joke about what your sexual orientation is, then maybe you shouldn't joke about it yourself!

What's sad, though, is that an excellent opinion columnist like Antonia gets trashed for it by her own editor.  That really sucks.  Way to stand by your writers, Toronto Star!


Star Spangled C...
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Way to go, Bernie! You've managed to alienate the left and the right with a single stupid action! Mazel tov!!


Maysie
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Okay, now a contest: T-shirt captions that Bernie should have worn.

I'll start.

"I'm not gay but my wife is"

"Am I FABULOUS or is it just me?"

"Straight but not narrow"

"You say I'm straight like it's a bad thing"

"I like straight people as long as they act gay in public"

(Oh wait, it's that kind of behaviour that got him into this mess.)


spatrioter
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Is Bernie going to Caribana?

What not to wear: "Nobody knows I'm Black"


hysperia
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hahahaha


martin dufresne
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Another T-shirt suggestion for Farber: "I got Zionist settlers 1,000 square miles of Palestinian land, and all I got back was this lousy T-shirt!"


Cueball
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spatrioter wrote:

Is Bernie going to Caribana?

What not to wear: "Nobody knows I'm Black"

Not as funny as you think. I have known a number of white Jewish Zionists who claim that because they are Jewish they are "essentially" black and no one knows it. Someone said this to me as recently as a month ago. This was in the context of people of colour not properly seeing their kinship with white Jewish people, and "wrongly" perceiving them to be part of the dominant white society, instead of an opressed minority. I would not be at all suprised if Farber's thinking moved along these lines in his most recent intellectual embarassment, he has often voiced the kinship he feels with the black "civil rights" movement along these lines in the past, and equating "blackness" and "Jewishness" in this manner is thematic in some Zionist tropes.


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Not unlike the men who try to shoehorn themselves into women's resources, e.g. batterers who claim to be "men in distress" and therefore entitled to crash women's DV shelters, get half of any funds alloted to women, derail realistic public service announcements, etc. Guilting political minorities and scuttling their resources seems to be becoming the flavour of the year.


bento
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Where's Winnifred?


spatrioter
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It doesn't look like Toronto Star public editor Kathy English or publisher John Cruickshank have many friends in the blogosphere.

Bastard Logic:

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Perhaps the saddest thing about this chilling, over the top attack on journalistic autonomy and free expression is the fact that Zerbisias has been spanked–publicly–for violating an as-yet unwritten policy.

Canadian Cynic:

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Sadly, though, Kathy, you were played for a sucker and you played your part beautifully. I'm guessing that, the next time Bernie Farber comes calling, it will be just that much easier to give him whatever he wants. I'm betting he's counting on it.

The Galloping Beaver:

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English and Cruickshank have just allowed themselves to be had by Farber. He clearly didn't like what Zerb had written in her post, and was looking for a way in. He found it; he trolled it; and English and Cruickshank took the bait.

POGGE:

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This is not a story about homophobia or anti-semitism (although that implied charge is the second level down). It is a story about brute power, the future Orwell warned us about: "If you want a vision of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face -- forever." And its coming is always facilitated by amoral little note-takers like the public editor of the Toronto Star.

Unrepentant Old Hippie:

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Only an idiot (and in my opinion, a homophobe) would interpret her comment as an insult — either that or Farber didn’t like some of the other things Zerb had to say, and saw the comment as an opportunity to stop her from saying them.  Pick one, there’s no “neither of the above” option.  That’s called “censorship”, so maybe Zerb should be thanking Farber for making her point.

Dawg's Blog:

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And then a Star editor and the publisher go into full damage-control mode--except that I can't, as noted, discern any damage. Not, in any case, unless Farber, despite his protestations, thinks that the "gay" label is a stigma, and the Star brass agrees with him. Blogs by Star journalists, says English, "may not put the Star in a negative light." An ironic comment about someone being gay does that?

A Creative Revolution:

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I guess when you wear a T shirt in a gay pride parade that says  "Nobody knows I am Gay"it means the opposite. Better mentally file that away! Who knew?

Mirabile Dictu:

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In one way, it’s about a tempest in a teapot, as Dawg says.  That is, if it’s really about whether Antonia Zerbisias called Bernie Farber “gay”.  On the other hand, it’s not, because it’s about trying to intimidate a journalist (believe me, it won’t work!) and access to media – that is, Bernie Farber’s got it and I don’t.

Stageleft:

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If this article at Rabble about this article in the Toronto Star that was further blogged about here is correct then I believe it can be safely said that someone is trying to shut someone up about discussing activities designed to shut people up.

We Move to Canada:

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Right now Zerbisias is under attack by her employer, because she had the nerve to speak her mind about Bernie Farber and the Canadian Jewish Congress.

Blamblog:

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There's even a PHOTO! Then I went and read the full comment thread on Antonia's post (go see for yourself) and found that instead of failing to "abide by the professional and journalistic standards the Star has long strived to uphold", Antonia was there in the thick of her comments section moderating a really tough thread. She was actually doing her job and was smacked down for it

YayaCanada:

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Farber had his say. That could have been the end of it had the Star's Public Editor not felt called upon to publicly kiss Farber's hiney at the expense of one of her own colleagues. In doing so, she has made laughing stocks of both the Star and the CJC.

Canadian Dimension:

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Nothing in Antonia Zerbisias’ blog or comments breached any journalistic ethics. The only column that requires a retraction and apology from the Star is English’s. English catered to an oversensitive, high-profile individual — Farber — at the expense of the paper’s journalists and its reputation.

Creekside:

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Good lord, Star editor and your pompous publisher Cruikshank too, who previously trashed Heather Mallick at CBC for her piece on Sarah Palin, how stupid do you want to look? Get a fucking grip. You think this is about teh gay, or in this case, teh obvious-to-everyone-else not gay? It's about what she wrote in her original post. You got pwned and blindsided by the CJC and you panicked and threw your columist under a gay bus to prove it. Shame on you.

Feminist Christian Socialist:

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There are so many problems with all of this, not the least of which is why an apology was needed at all. Suppose for a second that Zerbisias wasn't talking tongue-in-cheek. Suppose she really was saying she didn't know he was gay. Why would that require an apology? He was at a Pride parade wearing a shirt that said he was gay! He was photographed wearing it. She wasn't outting someone who wanted to keep his homosexuality a secret. Farber's complaint that she was misrepresenting him as gay is clearly bullshit. Clearly.


hysperia
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Thanks for putting this all together spatrioter. Here's some US coverage:  http://nlgjareact.wordpress.com/2009/07/13/oh-canada/


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Quote:
Quote:If this article at Rabble about this article in the Toronto Star that was further blogged about here is correct then I believe it can be safely said that someone is trying to shut someone up about discussing activities designed to shut people up.

 

Something's wrong with post #11.


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I have no opinion on whether the Star should have written their editorial but I do wonder about the fuss made regarding the "Nobody Knows I'm gay" t-shirt. These t-shyirts have been around for a number of years. I first saw them in San Fransisco where a group of straight men and women wore them in the Pride parade. Google has loads of explanations on the shirt traditionally worn at Pride parades by straight people as a sign of solidarity with gays and lesbians. Its a political message not a sexual one.


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Gus Williams wrote:

I have no opinion on whether the Star should have written their editorial but I do wonder about the fuss made regarding the "Nobody Knows I'm gay" t-shirt.

Zerbisias made an ironic crack about it, and your buddy Farber freaks out, raises it at a CJC executive committee meeting, and launches a crusade against her. The root of the whole thing, of course, is Farber's terror that Israeli apartheid is being exposed in one more venue - the Pride parade. So you should tell the thug-like humourless champions of Israel at the CJC (your friends) not to make such a "fuss", because no one else did. The current fuss is in response to Farber donning, not a T-shirt, but his favourite duds: the robes of Torquemada.

 


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Xtra:

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You could march in a gay pride parade but then get really mad when a journalist comments on it and demand an apology from the paper's spineless editor who reprimands said journalist in an embarrassing display for the entire profession in Canada.  Nah, that's too ridiculous to ever really happen.


Caissa
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T-shirt for Bernie

 

"Zionist Orientation"


johnpauljones
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If i was a person who believed in conspiracies i would say that the star and antonia collaborated on this very blog post and "retraction"  look at how much time is being spent talking about the star.

 

You see the star has accomplished 2 very important things. 1 the blog post in question -- and remember it was a post in a blog catered to the anti-cjc crowd.

 

the retraction catered to the pro-cjc crowd

 

why do that unless you want to keep the story alive.

 

The star is one of the few papers that never apologizes for anything. they like to try to piss everyone off at all times.

So I am just asking what the alterior motive could be...


M. Spector
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The Star always bends over backwards to avoid pissing off the Zionists. They do it again this time and you wonder what their motive is? Get a grip.


martin dufresne
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If i was a person who believed in conspiracies i would say that the star and antonia collaborated on this very blog post and "retraction"

I am a person who believes in conspiracies and one of the worst is that whenever a woman is badly mistreated, someone manages to blame her for it, to suggest that it's a ruse and that she has a vested interest in the matter...

 


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