Rich, White Football star pleads guilty to sexual assualt and gets...no punishment
January 5, 2010 - 7:23pm
That's right. Not even a record!
http://www.cbc.ca/canada/saskatchewan/story/2010/01/05/sk-tillman-senten...
Oh, he took a double dose of sleeping pills and has no memory of committing the crime.
I know, I know. Ugh. But donchaknow the Riders are gawds hereabouts? *cue banjo music and chewing tobacco*
To quibble, he's not a star, he's brass.
The Riders have broad based community support, IOW the fix was always in.
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reminds me of a certain '''black''' football player who was rich and got 'no punishment'....
If you're talking about OJ, he didn't plead guilty. Are you seriously going to derail another thread with your obsession?
i just happened to notice the parallels and how it doesn't have to do with colour.... perhaps that upsets you?
What fucking paralells? You live in a paralell fantasy universe? Love it when they pull out the OJ card. It only reveals further power and class privileges. How much more of this privileged twit do we need to put up with?
sometimes questions reveal built it assumptions or worse.... it is always informative seeing how others respond to others....
Does anyone seriously believe that had dude been anyone but a straight, white, rich, man in sports, would there have been any chance in hell that a judge would give a complete and total discharge to someone who plead guilty to sexually assaulting the 15 year old woman (while high on drugs) who was babysitting his kids?
It's fucking disgusting.
Is this guy any relation to the Tillman that Bill Maher idolized? That guy was also rich, white and a football player.
Anyway, I wouldn't want to comment until I had read the trial transcripts.
There was no trial G, he plead guilty.
And no, it wasn't Pat Tillman, the NFL player who gave up football to serve in Iraq and died.
sometimes questions reveal built it assumptions or worse....
Indeed.
well, there is something we appear to agree on rp... something to be positive about!
Thanks. Didn't read the story. Obviously.
Yes, I realize they weren't the same person. :)
My question was: Are they related?
If I actually thought you believed we agreed and weren't being disingenuous, perhaps. Anyway I guess it's a hobby horse of yours. Umm, so about that rich, white guy pleading guilty and getting an absolute discharge. Oh, and maybe this:
People convicted of sex offences are often required to submit a DNA sample to a national database.
However, because Tillman's privacy and security concerns outweigh the public interest in having such a sample, there will be no such order, Hinds said.
Emphasis mine.???
I trust your post is not directed to the one before it. I can't piss off two babblers in the same day. I just can't.
lol g muffin... you are very bright and funny!
btw, i liked your novel idea from yesterday on another thread where you came back and said it was the stupidest thing you had ever thought.. i thought it was a great idea...
Sorry G, cross posted, meant for sandgnome.
Sandstone, there is a parallel to be drawn here: OJ was a rich, black man who walked and Tillman is a rich, white man who walked. Are you a racist? Am I a racist? And who is qualified to say?
using the word 'sandgnome' looks a bit disingenuous to me... regardless, my comment was as stated and i do enjoy finding connections in common with others...
rp quote "If I actually thought you believed we agreed and weren't being disingenuous, perhaps."
http://www.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/1091810233680_87219433/?hub=TopStories
"The conditional discharge means Robinson receives no jail time and no criminal record." Another rich white guy evades justice.Holy fuck, you guys reach more than plastic-man. You don't want to know the fine details I'm sure.
2004 Ktown, really? HA!
What fine details are you speaking of, and when did you decide this website has a statute of limitations regarding crimes?
further to my previous posts, I am of the opinion that Tillman should be sentenced in accordance to his crime. It was someone else who brought up rich and white.
How about you find me some non-white person pleading guilty and getting an absolute discharge for a sex crime. EH?
Well, your posts aren't here Ktown and do you think he was sentenced properly in accordance with his crime?
And your posts in this thread had nothing to do with that.
I think Tillman should have had his own ass handed to him. But, I assume that the prosecutor realized that if this was not plea bargained Tillman would have been found not guilty, so the Judge, Defence and prosecutor did a fucked up job of finding him guilty without responsibility. Do you really want me to look for an example of some non-white person pleading guilty and getting an absolute discharge for an equally appalling sex crime?
I think you'd have a hard time but could likely find something if that's your balliwick...
No it is not. Just making a point.
It's interesting that we are able to get 30 posts along with people passing judgement on either side and we have yet to see any discussion of the specific facts of this case.
You've made no point. In fact you've tried to deflect the blame from Eric Tillman's behaviour.
It's interesting that we are able to get 30 posts along with people passing judgement on either side and we have yet to see any discussion of the specific facts of this case.
I've seen plenty of facts, including his kids witnessed this. Perhaps read before responding. I'm ready to flounce this place.
From the oriignal link, if you read it:
When the girl bent over to feed one of the children, Tillman grabbed her by the hips from behind and used her belt loops to pull her toward him, Crown prosecutor Bill Burge said.
Fox said Tillman had taken a double dose of sleeping pills and muscle relaxants, which caused him to have no memory of the incident.
Tillman took full responsibility and apologized to the girl, both in person and again Monday in court.
Sorry to have to post the facts. Read people before you make comments. This shit hurts people.
Unfortunately, Pogo, to many progressives, the "specific facts of this case" are that it involves a rich, white male.
Thanks for posting that, RP. I didn't have the facts. I was under the impression he walked away from a jury trial. So, thank you. I'm getting less outraged as the night wears on.
Why, RP? Why must the parallel fail? Why are you holding out for a darker version of the very same crime? That's too high a standard! The OJ thing works. Sandstone, and now Ktown, have rubbed you the wrong way. If Unionist or somebody said it, you'd respond differently.
Hopefully, i'll walk away less outraged too, have a great one G. Muffin, I'm tired.
Why, RP? Why must the parallel fail? Why are you holding out for a darker version of the very same crime? That's too high a standard! The OJ thing works. Sandstone, and now Ktown, have rubbed you the wrong way. If Unionist or somebody said it, you'd respond differently.
Well G, Unionist has a track record to me of Usain Bolt verus, say me, in a 100m race compared to your examples. Getting it yet?
Not with that analogy, no.
But good night, RP. Have a good sleep. And see you here tomorrow.
Perhaps, I've misread your appeal for the unprivileged G.
Quite possibly so. Weren't you off to bed?
Important things keep me awake. You have no solutions do you? Laiissez-faire?
Are you under the impression I'm a Randian? 'cause I ain't.
Me too. But I slept all day so I can go all night.
On the contrary. I can turn the woo-woo on and off at will. I can translate for you.
Clearly not.
Well, there's still the matter of the privileged, evryone;s carefully sidestepping.
It's really important G.
If it's so important, RP, then why don't you clearly state what offends you?
It's not so easy G. but you're apologies for captilism are a good place to start.
Perfect example, RP. So ... what are these apologies for capitalism to which you refer?
You thiink OJ works, enough said in comparison to details.
Play...play...play.
Translate that...
Perfect example, RP. So ... what are these apologies for capitalism to which you refer?
Sandstone's white privilege and your abusing important voices.
What makes you think that Sandstone is white? And whose important voice am I abusing? And what does any of this have to do with economics? And the OJ analogy does work once you realize that the issue isn't colour.
what is important to one person is not necessarily as important to someone else....
issues around 'privilege' are popular here at rabble in the limited time i've been here.... i have said nothing on the subject one way or the other, but apparently one must ''goose step with the lingo'' or it becomes open season on the person who opts to not goose step immediately...
i have been called numerous things since coming to rabble... no need for examples either as they abound...
g muffins last question in the january 5th 9:50pm post is "And who is qualified to say?" regarding racism... it seems some folks here think they are more then qualified... not only do they think they're qualified, but they can fill in the blanks on others they know nothing about... lets hope they do better dealing with others of different colour then they do with others who might have different views as if that is any indication the signs aren't great....
holding hostility towards others here would be much harder if one was blind...if one didn't know whether they were addressing someone black, white, red or yellow the opportunity to look beyond colour might be possible...
g muffin you are quite bright and thoughtful and i wish you well in whatever you do...
i make this post, as the moderators seem to have a habit of closing the threads when i have shown up, although i can't claim responsibiliity for this and perhaps it is just a coincidence... what gets considered on or off topic seems to be held in the eye of the moderators here from what i can tell... this will be my last post on this thread.. consider my posts a small station identification break from the topic at hand which incidentally might be a topic that keeps on reappearing here at rabble in different guises, if you know what i mean...
what is important to one person is not necessarily as important to someone else....
issues around 'privilege' are popular here at rabble in the limited time i've been here.... i have said nothing on the subject one way or the other, but apparently one must ''goose step with the lingo'' or it becomes open season on the person who opts to not goose step immediately...
i have been called numerous things since coming to rabble... no need for examples either as they abound...
g muffins last question in the january 5th 9:50pm post is "And who is qualified to say?" regarding racism... it seems some folks here think they are more then qualified... not only do they think they're qualified, but they can fill in the blanks on others they know nothing about... lets hope they do better dealing with others of different colour then they do with others who might have different views as if that is any indication the signs aren't great....
holding hostility towards others here would be much harder if one was blind...if one didn't know whether they were addressing someone black, white, red or yellow the opportunity to look beyond colour might be possible...
g muffin you are quite bright and thoughtful and i wish you well in whatever you do...
No. These types of ststements are what gets you in trouble. The problem isn't babble. It is you.
A mod has shown up. Clear the decks!
A kind gentle reminder that when a thread goes wonky in the wee hours of the morning (yes, most mods are based in the Bastion of Central Canada known as Toronto) there is very little chance a mod will happen upon the thread. In general, given our limits as, you know, humans, we are not likely to see wonky threads at all unless we happen upon them, which is why emailing us or flagging the post as offensive are recommended.
Not that I'm calling this thread wonky. Just sayin.
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Okay, now to the delightful thread topic.
First, if the OP has a link, and it's a news item: Read The Link Please!! There are limited "facts" available to us, but we need to at least know the MSM's version of what's out there to have even a vaguely coherent discussion about it.
Having read the thread now a few times, it was sandstone who, at post #5 who brought in the comparison to OJ.
One could argue Le T brought in race from the very beginning, by calling Tillman "white" in the OP and the thread title. One would be wrong however if one were to argue that.
Why? Because Le T is doing a classic, smart (and effective) anti-racist technique. Naming a person's whiteness makes visible the fact that when folks are white, from the media's presentation, their race is not named which reiterates the racist premise of whiteness as the norm, whiteness as "not mattering". Making it visible, (by naming Tillman's whiteness) especially when connected to criminal behaviour, does a small part to smash the assumption that most violent crimes are committed by men of colour.
Doing this irks some folks, though.
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From a legal perspective there are few comparisons. OJ pleaded not guilty and was found not guilty after a lengthy public criminal trial. He was then found guilty at a civil trial.
Tillman pleaded guilty, thus there was no trial. This alone is a huge difference. OJ also killed two people, another huge difference.
That's the extent of my ability to speak to the legal differences.
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The one parallel that nobody has made yet is that both crimes involve violence against women.
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If one cares to, anyone who thinks there are viable parallels to make about race and racism here, I strongly suggest you look up the statistics on crime for both the US and Canada. The sentencing and other history can be very clearly seen, because of systemic racism, that Black folks/ folks of colour/Aboriginal folks get harsher, longer and more frequent sentences and punishment than do white folks for similar crimes. This is not the ravings of an anti-racist activist, this is known by most in the justice sector, including those of us who interact with that sector. The facts are out there. If one chooses to not access facts that will elucidate the situation, there's not much I can do about that. GIYF. Google Is Your Friend.
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So, can we return to the thread topic? Or shall we continue to the back and forth?
Oh, and just for fun, here's the babble policy again:
Thanks for that, Maysie. I just finished reading through the thread and was wondering what the heck I was going to say to all this. Then you said it better than I could. :D
As usual, Maysie, I'll defer on issues of racism. I base that on the quality of your posts, not the colour of our skin.
However, the Pie has a few specialties and one of them is the law. IANAL but I understand legal concepts and how they are applied. As the daughter of a philosopher, I also understand the nature of arguments. As the daughter of teachers, I understand how important analogies are and why we use them.
OJ/Tillman stands. You are wrong. The trial/lack of trial, found not guilty/pleaded guilty distinctions are irrelevant.
Loved your point on the thread title. Why isn't it "Rich, White Man pleads guilty ...." Only two of those descriptors help in framing this debate. As evidenced by OJ Simpson.
Stargazer, we are disagreeing on this point. Sandstone is the underdog in this thread. He (I think) took that battle on. My knee jerk reaction is to support the underdog. But with the benefit of time, I actually support what he is saying not just his status here. babble is a good place but not a great place. Not yet.
Drift....
While I understand this sentiment, those who espouse and support more mainstream views have kajillion other places to go on the internet. A Harper supporter would be "the underdog" here on babble and rabble. So would a supporter of market capitalism and free trade. These are hardly issues that are "underdog" in any way. Nor are these kinds of views appropriate in a progressive space.
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I think what we're coming to, babblers, is a slow and painful realization that I'm not "progressive" and that I don't consider that word an accolade anyway. Gordon Campell is a Liberal in this topsy-turvy world we live in.
Why should I continue to participate when I have the email addies of most of my favourite babblers, banned or otherwise? What's in it for me, Maysie?
ETA: I can be reached at goodbyepie (at) yahoo (dot) ca
and this is as good a time as any to say goodbye.
With best wishes,
The Pie
issues around 'privilege' are popular here at rabble in the limited time i've been here.... i have said nothing on the subject one way or the other, but apparently one must ''goose step with the lingo'' or it becomes open season on the person who opts to not goose step immediately...
i have been called numerous things since coming to rabble... no need for examples either as they abound...
You are a fucking asshat, and you think you can walk away from comments like this in bold by saying you won't post in this thread again. Well ya can't and i do not know why the moderators let you go with this fucking bullshit descriptor of calling us babblers fucking Nazis.
If this stands, in a thread of this nature, RP will not be the only one flouncing.
The reality is, a girl now has to live for the rest of her life, with the memory of the sexual assault and lack of personal safety trust foisted upon her by a privileged white man who feels, even if subconsciously, that he has the right to shove his dick all over anyone female's body, and in front of his children even.
And BTW, the asshat lawyer in Regina who said the judge gives lighter sentences for public figures because they have to endure more public humilation can fuck right off too.
What this does is give men, and not just rich white men, the tacit approval for their sexual assaulting actions and tells them that nothing will result from it.
I missed that gem from sandstone.
sandstone, using language comparing babble and babblers to Nazis has earned you a week off.
remind, you know not to call babblers "fucking asshats". Stop it.
And yes, the larger message from this story is that violence against women doesn't really matter, especially if you're a public figure. And the truth is, there are so few convictions from sexual assault charges anyways, that this story is particularly horrific.
yes. you can now get no record for sexually assualting a minor, who works for you, if you say sorry and don't get caught doing it again. totally horrific.
I missed that gem from sandstone.
sandstone, using language comparing babble and babblers to Nazis has earned you a week off.
Umm, is this an across the board standard?
I've seen people here comparing others to Nazi's or making off handed reference and no one seemed to care. I get the feeling it's more of a sometimes enforced thing depending on who is making the comment.
What a horrific story though! I can't understand how people fucking get away with this shit. Sleeping pills and didn't know what he was doing?
So if I drink too much and technically pass out at the wheel and wipe out a family then I'm not really in control of my actions?
I know far too many women who have had their lives shattered by assholes like this. It's such a life altering crime it makes me physically sick to think about it.
sandstone, using language comparing babble and babblers to Nazis has earned you a week off.
remind, you know not to call babblers "fucking asshats". Stop it.
Oh yes....I most definitely do, as you yourself indicated, and I never do it, as you well know also, so I see your "chastizing" words to me as a cover up of your actions, seeing as how I believe both you and michelle overlooked his comments, as you both stated you read the thread carefully.
But now you state, you missed it.
What can I say otherwise in response to what I believe is your unwarranted chastizement, other than:
... in the apparent abscence of moderator will to tackle such an act of verbal violence and silencing, I thought I would take the strong exception to it that was needed, as you both had already "not" addressed it.
At this level of poltical discourse, on a supposed "progressive" forum, comments such as that, which were allowed to stand by moderators, who have said they read this thread carefully, are IMV an assault upon ALL VAW workers and women who have been victims of sexual violence, as it silences their/our efforts to have sexual crimes against girls and women taken seriously. If we make a comment decrying judicial prejudice against women in favour of men, especially rich white men, we obviously are "feminazis"....that rabble appeared to be going to allow it it to stand as normal commentary babble, really was not an option. As a woman and a babbler, I believe I have the right to take exception to it, if the moderators are not.
Ban, or further needlessly chastize, me if you want, as opposed to apologizing for missing such a further act of violence against women, not just babblers, by sandstone, than what was just done by the judge and the sexual assaulter Tillman.
...and we wonder why attacks against girls/women still go unchallenged and are still being undertaken.....
Appartently, even in a space that is supposed to be better than main stream society, such silencing of criticism acts are overlooked, or not seen, and those who correctly take exception to the attempts to silence, any criticism of pure patriarchy and classism, are attacked for doing so.
Does anyone have any thoughts on what would be an appropriate prison term for this guy?
Just another example of how rich/wealthy/famous people have a different set of laws/punishment. Disgusting.
Why don't you take first stab at it Sven?
yes. you can now get no record for sexually assualting a minor, who works for you, if you say sorry and don't get caught doing it again. totally horrific.
I am a very new member here and just a layman , nothing like the intellectuals here. I am also apparently a troublemaker (always saying the wrong things and getting the threads closed) as I am still trying to figure out how to be diplomatic and not violate the rules and regulations...but I just can't believe that he can go free like that even if he apologizes. I mean is that the law? I mean if a person commits a crime and then says sorry then that's it?
http://www.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/1091810233680_87219433/?hub=TopStories
"The conditional discharge means Robinson receives no jail time and no criminal record." Another rich white guy evades justice.Actually Svend received a CONDITIONAL discharge and a probation term and not an ABSOLUTE discharge. But then there is no comparing the severity of the crime of stealing property compared to merely traumatizing a young woman for years.
So gay white man gets far more punsihment for "inadvertently" stealing a ring and Tillman gets NADA for sexually assaulting a young woman in his home who was hired to care for his children.
Why don't you take first stab at it Sven?
In other words you don't have a good answer so you want Sven to. Then you can turn around and just criticize his answer?
And, at the risk of being to radical for the new babble, i would offer that his race and sexual orientation helped him walk away from this one. I cannot believe that a Saskatchewan court would have let a Native man or gay man walk away from pleading guilty to sexually assualting a teenager. And I say this not to take away from the sexism that guides legal proceedings around men assualting women.
It was the judge's sentencing decision. Even though this asshole plead guilty to sexually assualting his 15 year old employee infront of his kids while high on drugs he gets a walk. He will not even have a criminal record. Someone who is caught with less than a 1/4 of weed would get a harsher sentence, easily. It is really a horrible example of the double standards that exist in order to make our (no)justice system operate for certain groups of people at the expense of others.
Only if you sexually attack a woman/girl.....
No, I have a good answer but I want to make sure Sven is being genuine not baiting dudone. What's your take?
...Because I am a girl, men can assualt me and face no threat of punishment from the Canadian legal system...
Only if you sexually attack a woman/girl.....
Poignant, remind and Le T. So sad.
SparkyOne you haven't even been part of this thread, jumping in with that is just provocation. Sven and RP can fight their own battles thank you. To paraphrase Thumper's mother, if you don't have anything to say, don't say it.
Why don't you take first stab at it Sven?
In other words you don't have a good answer so you want Sven to.
If a person thinks a wrong-doer should be punished for an act (whether it's this guy's act or any other act), I think it's a fair question for someone to ask: What punishment would that person like to see imposed on the wrong-doer?
ETA: Whoops!! Cross-posted with oldgoat and about five other people!!
Your right oldgoat sorry.
I don't have an answer. I want to say for the rest of his life, but that's a lot of my tax dollars spent.
Sven, just as a layman, even a conditional discharge would have been much more appropriate. Why not make sure the guy behaves for a year or two? Then there's the matter mentioned above of how a pot smoker likely faces more serious consequences than a white, male predator. Can you see the problem?
Lots of pot smokers are white males.
But most are also not sexual predators, so I don't know what you're trying to deflect? It's cool that pot smoking is treated more harshly than sex crimes? Think about it.
And the white dudes generally don't get caught.
Sven, just as a layman, even a conditional discharge would have been much more appropriate. Why not make sure the guy behaves for a year or two?
That is all I was asking for: People's opinions on what might have been a just punishment.
Does anyone think that a "conditional discharge" would be too light?
Think about it.
You go first.
I wish if people really want to discuss things like an appropriate sentence they would give their own views. So Sven do you think he deserves punishment and what punishment if any do YOU suggest?
I think that a 2 year probation term and a requirement to take some training on violence against women in our society would be appropriate. And 600 hours of community service picking up garbage on the sides of a highway with a sign on his back (like a sports jersey) saying his name and "I sexually assaulted a young woman."
Sven, I think it's hiighly inappropriate and cherry picking to discuss sentencing issues in an isolated example like this. Perhaps in a different thread. I'm not a fan of incarceration before other avenues are exhausted. Social programming also comes into play.
But, it seems at least, perhaps, you agree this guy got off easy?
Think about it.
You go first.
Obviously, I have been but have your fun at womens' expense. Fuck.
It's not an accurate comparison. Everyone knows that you should not drink alcohol and then drive. Further, presuming you've had a drink before, you know how alcohol will affect you and it's your responsibility to take precautions and control yourself. With prescription drugs, we often do not know in advance how they will affect your system. This is especially true when you are taking a combination of different drugs that may interact with each other.
Why the fuck was he taking sleeping pills anyway? I take sleeping pills sometimes, find it works better to take them when you are planning to go to sleep?
I wish if people really want to discuss things like an appropriate sentence they would give their own views. So Sven do you think he deserves punishment and what punishment if any do YOU suggest?
Person A says, "The government isn't doing enough to fix environmental problem X!!"
Person B asks, "Well, what should the govenrment be doing to fix environmental problem X?"
Person A, indignantly, fires back, "Hey, don't YOU think X is an environmental problem?!?! What would YOU do to fix it?!?"
I think that a 2 year probation term and a requirement to take some training on violence against women in our society would be appropriate. And 600 hours of community service picking up garbage on the sides of a highway with a sign on his back (like a sports jersey) saying his name and "I sexually assaulted a young woman."
Now, that's the spirit!!
But, it seems at least, perhaps, you agree this guy got off easy?
Yes, getting zero punishment doesn't seem right. But, I have no idea what degree of punishment would be just -- hence, my question.
Why the fuck was he taking sleeping pills anyway? I take sleeping pills sometimes, find it works better to take them when you are planning to go to sleep?
I can't answer that. But I know that muscle relaxants and various pain medications (which he, apparently, took) can really make a person behave in a way that they otherwise wouldnt.
It's not an accurate comparison. Everyone knows that you should not drink alcohol and then drive. Further, presuming you've had a drink before, you know how alcohol will affect you and it's your responsibility to take precautions and control yourself. With prescription drugs, we often do not know in advance how they will affect your system. This is especially true when you are taking a combination of different drugs that may interact with each other.
The devil made him do it. All medication have warnings as well, so if you fall asleep at the wheel from taking the drugs that he did which almost certainly had drowsiness warnings should he be let off?
He didn't pass out he was awake when he assaulted that young woman. I don't fucking believe for a minute that it impaired his reasoning enough to legally come under the defence of not criminally responsible or he would have plead that instead of pleading guilty. The judge gave him the gold star treatment apparently without any medical evidence of whether he was actually effected by the drugs enough to not be held criminally responsible. IMO they likely run in the same circles and I his lawyer had a wink and a nod about the outcome prior to the guilty plea.
You mean like how alcohol can make me think I have suddenly become irresistably handsome, witty and urbane?
I agree Krop! It was like a throwback to the good old boy days of "well no one was really hurt so why ruin this upstanding citizens life?"
Really?
How do you quantify that?
Are you taking into considerations the long term societal costs of girls and women being sexually assaulted? The damage that occurs gets transfered generationally, with costs beyond the societal costs of ill health, both mental and physical, which can range from addictions to foster care for children after their mother commiits suicide, or cannot look after them because their PTSD is not stable enough for them to live in society and look after children, or anything in between.
Why the fuck was he taking sleeping pills anyway? I take sleeping pills sometimes, find it works better to take them when you are planning to go to sleep?
I can't answer that. But I know that muscle relaxants and various pain medications (which he, apparently, took) can really make a person behave in a way that they otherwise wouldnt.
Yes, I know. And the fact that he was behaving "in a way that he otherwise wouldn't" is what got him off. So my question becomes why would any reasonable person take sleeping pills so early in the day, before attending a meeting and then going (driving??) home to his children. Sleeping pills?? I can see the muscle relaxants, or pain pills, but we are supposed to believe that he popped a double dose of sleeping pills at such a strange time of day. Seems like bullshit to me, but I think if you look into side effects of the various drugs he had to choose from, the sleeping pills are the ones that would give him the best excuse.
This thread should have been moved to the feminist forum, as we agreed long ago now that women's sexual assualt threads should always be.
Then ask a mod instead of pretending you are one
Okay closing for length, please continue the conversation if you like, and ack what's with the weird formatting?
Fixed the formatting, and reclosing - it's those darn quote tags!