Tommy_Paine
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I agree more attention should be focused on those who use prostitutes.  Education campaigns are over due, and it's high time men themselves start to shift male attitudes concerning prostitution.  However, criminalizing Johns is problematic for several reasons.  Primarily, because this approach doesn't seem to work in any other facet of what we call "vice".  And, it brings police in closer contact with the world of vice, which is good for no one.

Another problem where this focus could go very wrong is if it becomes seen as a panacea.  There are many factors that lead to prostitution, some more significant than others.  But all need attention.

The age gap between my eldest and youngest is 16 years.  In those 16 years, I've seen the "Barbie Doll" transformed into "Bratz Dolls".  While there used to be controversy around the emphasis on sexuality the now pedestrian "Barbie" portrayed,  we now have a no holds barred doll that attempts to idealize modes of appearance that we'd usually associate with prostitutes.

And, if we take away the dolls,  our kids can catch "Toddlers and Tiaras" on the missnomed "Learning Channel".  When they aren't watching music videos of fetishly attired preformers whose musical talents are, in some cases, non existant. How many "Pussy Cat Dolls" actually sing? One, maybe?  But it doesn't matter, as long as you can sell yourself sexually, you are a success!

This is what we are teaching our young women, and our young men about women.

When one takes a walk through the as yet politically unorganized neighborhoods to where the police have rousted prostitution,  take your eyes off the ladies and the johns, and look around you.  Check out the pay day loan places, the pawn shops, the tow trucks waiting for a call... for a tow?... in nieghborhoods where if one has a car, one fixes it yourself?  One cannot have an industry without a supporting cast.

And we arrive at the part that substance abuse has in all this. And, it's nice to blame our Latin American friends for cocaine, or the nefarious biker gangs for crystal meth.  But increasingly, you can thank big, untouchable pharma for niceties like Oxycontin, and our good friends at Health Canada that doesn't see that as a problem.

Yes, lets take a look at the whole neighbourhood.

 

 

 

 

 


One in nine men hire prostitutes - Want to talk about it? By: martin dufresne (103 replies) April 13, 2009 - 10:00pm
  • martin dufresne wrote: If By: Doug (Apr 15 2009 - 10:48pm)
  • Much like any other By: Doug (Apr 15 2009 - 10:32pm)
  • CMOT Dibbler wrote: One in By: Doug (Apr 15 2009 - 10:24pm)
  • martin: do you think By: Ghislaine (Apr 15 2009 - 2:47pm)
  • No, he could have paid By: martin dufresne (Apr 15 2009 - 2:45pm)
  • Snert wrote: Quote:On top of By: Michelle (Apr 15 2009 - 2:35pm)
  • Quote:We should be fighting By: Snert (Apr 15 2009 - 2:11pm)
  • What's there to talk By: josh (Apr 15 2009 - 2:04pm)
  • sorry!   By: CMOT Dibbler (Apr 15 2009 - 2:03pm)
  • Snert wrote: Quote:On top of By: CMOT Dibbler (Apr 15 2009 - 2:00pm)
  • If you are going to get into By: martin dufresne (Apr 15 2009 - 1:54pm)
  • Quote:On top of all the By: Snert (Apr 15 2009 - 1:31pm)
  • I am currently taking a law By: Ghislaine (Apr 15 2009 - 1:24pm)
  • Tommy_Paine wrote:Is it that By: remind (Apr 15 2009 - 12:05pm)
  • remind wrote: Michelle By: Fidel (Apr 15 2009 - 11:38am)
  • Quote:How many "Pussy Cat By: al-Qa'bong (Apr 14 2009 - 10:16pm)
  • Is it that I am just getting By: Tommy_Paine (Apr 14 2009 - 9:24pm)
  • I did catch an episode of By: Michelle (Apr 14 2009 - 8:59pm)
  •   I agree more attention By: Tommy_Paine (Apr 14 2009 - 8:02pm)
  • CMOT Dibbler wrote: One in By: al-Qa'bong (Apr 14 2009 - 7:17pm)
  • I heard John Moore By: Skinny Dipper (Apr 14 2009 - 6:53pm)
  • One in nine men hire By: CMOT Dibbler (Apr 14 2009 - 8:03pm)
  • Michelle wrote:If you start By: remind (Apr 14 2009 - 1:17pm)
  • There is a film that is By: martin dufresne (Apr 14 2009 - 12:03pm)
  • Martin, have any studies By: Maysie (Apr 14 2009 - 9:58am)
  • I don't have anything to add By: Snert (Apr 14 2009 - 9:10am)
  • Good point Not just hoping, By: martin dufresne (Apr 14 2009 - 8:56am)
  • If you start including the By: Michelle (Apr 14 2009 - 6:40am)
  • A considerable proportion of By: martin dufresne (Apr 19 2009 - 9:03pm)
  • I'd really like to see how By: Papal Bull (Apr 13 2009 - 10:38pm)
  • One out of nine?    Maybe By: radiorahim (Apr 13 2009 - 10:25pm)
  • It was to be in body and By: martin dufresne (Apr 13 2009 - 9:59pm)
  • One in nine men FREQUENT By: Michelle (Apr 13 2009 - 9:58pm)
  • martin, where did you intend By: Maysie (Apr 13 2009 - 9:36pm)
  • Heh. You've not been able to By: Stephen Gordon (Apr 13 2009 - 9:25pm)