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Feminist viewpoints on prostitution and sex work

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susan davis
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also, we were funded by vancity, we weren't"bragging about it" its nice when you make me seem pathetic though, as if all i can do brag....we did it, we incorporated....we were funded by vancity....

really, i take exception to being diminished and belittled in this way. i work my ass off, we get funding...just like the occupational health and safety training is done and was funded by the health authority. apparenty we are not as uncredible or pathetic as you would have people believe.

is it so hard for you to believe we have support for our plan and it is going forward? or do you just enjoy upsetting me.

i question the credibility of anyone who is willing to harm a sex worker to "save" a sex worker.


susan davis
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again,lee.... i would like to ask that people do not refer to the men who kill us by name.

we refer to it as the trial in the case of the missing women and it the other case, we could refer to as the trial in case of the torture of women in the DTES.....as explained it is our assertion that fame is a contributing factor in these crimes and so we respectfully request people do not use those persons names.


susan davis
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http://members.shaw.ca/pdg/donald_michel_bakker.html

 

a link to a story about the trial in the case of the man who tortured women in the DTES.


remind
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susan davis wrote:
3 asian massage parlour workers have been killed this year.

indoors is no safer than out of doors then, contrary to some findings otherwise?

 

Externalities to the situation are not killing and torturing women, men are killing and torturing women.

 

Indeed, in my thinking about the  statistics posted that show an alleged  increase in deaths, (I say alleged only because there was no link given) which  were stated to  be from lack of indoor facilties, it would seem to me, that what they  really show is, that the more focus society puts upon male's ejaculatory responses, the higher the death rates for women involved in prostitution have climbed, over the years.


jacki-mo
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remind said: " the more focus society puts upon male's ejaculatory responses,

the higher the death rates for women involved in prostitution have climbed, over the years."

 

1. why would increased "focus" cause a higher death rate? I don't see a connection between focus and death rate.

2. how do we know death rates have increased?

 

 

 


remind
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Susan  posted either in this thread or in the other one,  a non-linked table showing increases in prostitute death statistics going back to the 60's.

It shows quite clearly that since the advent into society of  a  focus on men's  penus pleasure, women have been objectified more, the more objectification  and marginalization occuring the less humanity is felt towards the target group, and the more disposable people become.

History has shown this to be true.

It is also backed up by sociological studies

 

Fair question  though I suppose, but one should ask; why should the closing of show lounges for example increase prostitute deaths?

 

 


rework
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Perhaps we should mount a campaign against Viagra, and all the media that promote it. We should tell the men (and their wives) when the willy stops working, "to live with it".


p-sto
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Susan posted a link a while back that indicated an increase in the number of sex worker deaths and correlated the increase to more restrictive legislation regarding sex work.  As some one that works in statistics I consider it a bit problematic to draw any conclusions from the numbers she posted for a variety of reasons.  Part of me wouldn't mind seeing the link again to get a better sense of the numbers since I only gave them a cursory view last time.

On the other hand, I'm getting rather tired of seeing both sides trot out statistics that are going to be at least some what inaccurate since the entity they're examining is by it's nature difficult to pin down.

At their best statisics tend to offer a vague idea of the scope and shape of a situation.  They're often much less informative than people assume them to be because reporting can often be inaccurate and apparent relationships are almost always conflated with factors not considered in the analysis.  A dogmatic following of the numbers can be very misleading.

Statistics can inform us to a degree in this issue but a definitive answer as to the right approach isn't going to from them.  Personally I'd like to see less numbers in the discussion and better effort of both sides to address each others concerns.


Stargazer
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There are lies, and then there are statistics...

 

P-sto - I was thinking of starting a thread about the common grounds covered by both sides. Maybe you can?


remind
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susan davis wrote:
http://members.shaw.ca/pdg/donald_michel_bakker.html

a link to a story about the trial in the case of the man who tortured women in the DTES.

Thanks for the link.

Do not think a brothel or a co-op would have stopped these actions, he was right up front about what he was going to do apparently....and indeed the following indicates that it was just accepted as so, so what if it was indoors,  in room they rented, the same thing would have occured to these women.

 

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The black-haired woman with the white cross dangling from her neck remembers the man she agreed to let hurt her. He was balding, "but not completely," wore glasses, and had a baby seat in the back of his car. He paid to inflict pain on her and she agreed.

"I needed the money," the young woman said, recounting the "date" last fall with a man who she said took her to a waterfront Vancouver park and videotaped a sadistic assault.

"It messed me up for a couple of days," the woman said, standing in the grey drizzle on Vancouver's seedy Hastings Street yesterday.

As she spoke, she stared into her Styrofoam coffee cup and described in graphic detail the man and the crime, without once looking up.

Asked why she didn't report the attack, the woman shrugged. "I don't know."

This woman's story took on broader significance yesterday with the news that Vancouver police are investigating the case of an alleged sadistic predator who they say tortured and videotaped up to 60 women over a period of several years.

Police say the man told the women up front that he wanted to inflict pain, but the acts escalated into violent assaults that involved "extreme pain" and degradation.

The suspect is also being investigated in the videotaped rapes of prepubescent girls as young as 10 in a Southeast Asian country.

Police say the tapes are disturbing to watch and have shaken even the most hardened officers. Police have identified about one-third of the women on the tapes and talked to many, but noted that not one had reported the alleged crimes.

The victims said the man paid to have sex with them and warned that he intended to inflict pain.

Police have charged Donald Michael Bakker, 40, with six counts of sexual assault and one count of unlawful confinement. They say up to 27 more charges may be laid today. (monday).

The alleged crimes are captured on videotape, which police discovered in the suspect's car and home.

Vancouver Police spokeswoman Sarah Bloor said the fact that women agreed to be hurt in exchange for money might explain their silence. Other agencies that assist women in the Downtown Eastside were surprised to hear that another predator was stalking women in the skid-row neighbourhood.

There was no mention of Mr. Bakker's name or physical description on any so-called "bad-date" list, which is circulated in the neighbourhood and warns of men who have assaulted or refused to pay prostitutes.

Mary Wreglesworth, chairwoman of the WISH Drop-in Centre Society, said sex workers are already burdened by defeat and shame.

"They went to the streets as abused children," Ms. Wreglesworth said. "Something like this brings up an incredible amount of turmoil." And if the women agreed up front to be hurt, they may feel they don't have the right to complain, even if the situation spun out of control.



Michelle
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Long thread.


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