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Not too surprised, though. She's in my riding - my MPP - and she's a tough woman. My husband was at a community meeting a couple of years ago where somebody asked a vaguely critical question, and Cheri put him down with a snide remark. She's not the most approachable person.
Sounds like she's stressed - she comments at one point about "not sleeping in days." She really, really needed to stay away from the keyboard.
And I just want to point out that this has been nowhere in the media. If a politician was saying such things on their facebook about another issue would we have heard about this from the MSM by now? What if she was attacking pro-Apartheid people in the same manner?
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Sounds like she's stressed - she comments at one point about "not sleeping in days." She really, really needed to stay away from the keyboard.
Yeah. I kind of feel sorry for her but then I think of all the people who probably had trouble sleeping in Gaza when IDF was bombing the shit out them or Palestinian kids who can't sleep because they witnessed IDF soldiers break into their house and kidnap their family members.
I sent Di Novo an email when she first voted for the Apartheid-supporting bill (she's my MPP, too). She invited me to come see her in her office, which I was going to do until I read that Facebook wall. I don't think that I want to go and get a scolding by the angry preacher posing as my "representative".
I think of all the people who probably had trouble sleeping in Gaza when IDF was bombing the shit out them or Palestinian kids who can't sleep because they witnessed IDF soldiers break into their house and kidnap their family members.
Should we ask whether Cheri DiNovo, who is nevertheless wrong on this question, is taking a disproportionate amount of stick for her pro-Israel views as a queer woman and former street kid? Maybe she is a more attractive target than the far more criminal Jason Kenney?
Eta: omg, Le T just asked the same thing. Le T? Le <3.
Should we ask whether Cheri DiNovo, who is nevertheless wrong on this question, is taking a disproportionate amount of stick for her pro-Israel views as a queer woman and former street kid?
I didn't realize that she is a queer woman and former street kid. Now that you mention that, maybe it makes her betrayal even more ironic. If you read her dirty little speech again, it harps on "peace". That's what she's preaching to the anti-apartheid activists that she is condemning. That's what she is preaching to the Palestinian people. She adds "justice" as an afterthought, but it's the "peace" goal which makes "inflammatory" language unacceptable to her.
Those who preach "peace" and "love" to the marginalized and the underclasses are not our allies. It may be a lesson she forgot as she climbed the social ladder to acceptability. Her aggressive tone with friendly critics and her deletion of comments she can't or won't answer bespeaks the same forgetfulness. But rather than speculate about her motives, I'm content to just see her dismissed with contempt wherever she shows her face - unless, and until, she does the right thing, recants, and asks forgiveness.
I knew some of the background, but I'm shocked. Sure, stressed-out people can say some things they later regret, but they don't say anything they truly don't think, the opposite of what they think.
No progressives "championed" Zahra Kazemi (whose name she even gets wrong, although that could be a stress typo)? We all sold out Kazemi so that we could focus on Arar? We can't walk and chew gum at the same time? Where the hell has she been? On babble alone and now at BnR, there are a number of threads about Kazemi, have been since the beginning. Every online feminist I know has followed Kazemi's story all the way through and still wants to see justice done. We just don't think we honour Kazemi by cheering Israel on as it plots to drop bombs on the heads of other Iranians, including women and children.
What the hell, though, is she implying about Arar? She's in favour of torture? She's in favour of punishing an innocent man? She doesn't care whether Canada has a corrupt spy agency that has repeatedly been shown to be complicit in war crimes? And all that because ... Arar is Muslim?
I know I'm saying the obvious, but I am shocked and angry m'self now.
Someone on that Facebook page mentions wanting to meet with her. I hope someone does this.
Take away the pressure of the phone calls and whatever thats about, and its clear shes a Zionist and has that potent anti-Muslim rationalization. But there's nothing to be gained in just standing back and watching her morph into an active enemy.
No progressives "championed" Zahra Kazemi (whose name she even gets wrong, although that could be a stress typo)? We all sold out Kazemi so that we could focus on Arar? We can't walk and chew gum at the same time?
The ones that caused this travesty and murder do not act as functionaries on behalf of people we elect to office. The list of atrocities that cry out for justice is quite long, they all deserve attention. Voices that are raised in objection only carry so far, and even here protest against what is wrought on our behalf is like talking to the wall on the best of days. Focusing effort where it stands the best chance of influencing the situation isn't entirely a matter of being selective with outrage.
Should we ask whether Cheri DiNovo, who is nevertheless wrong on this question, is taking a disproportionate amount of stick for her pro-Israel views as a queer woman and former street kid? Maybe she is a more attractive target than the far more criminal Jason Kenney?
Eta: omg, Le T just asked the same thing. Le T? Le <3.
She is taking a disproportionate amount of stick because she is a dipper. If she wants to live through pure hell, character assissination, and persecution, she should be an academic at a US University who opposes Zionism. Angry lefties in Toronto have nothing on professional fuckheads like Daniel Pipes and his Zionist brown shirt shock troops.
In any case, her logic is informed by the twisted sickness of Zionism. Following through with her Zionist logic, the poverty, crime, ANC/Zulu violence, should have ensured the continuation of White South Africa where gay men and women where more accepted in the cafes of Johannesburg than the townships of Soweto. Would our good reverend agree with such a contention? Why not? it is her's ...
Rabble ran a fantastic article that counters the twisted racist Zionist logic espoused by DiNovo, here:
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I now turn to the final, crucial step in Zionist logic: queers worldwide must support gay positive Israel, not homophobic Palestine. Intuitively we know this is wrong. It is offensive that they think that as queers we define our solidarity based on their narrow definition of gay rights and that they think we would forgive racism because they grant some gay rights. Yet somehow this argument is proving effective. To untangle this one fully though, we need to talk about what is really going on here. It comes down to this -- Israel, like most western imperial powers, has managed to co-opt the language of feminist and queer rights.
Maybe DiNovo should speak to other actual gay and lesbian people rather than the Zionist fascists supported by politicians who would lke nothing more than to roll back gay and lesbian progress beginning with the right to walk freely.
wow, my take on this is, though I am in disagreement with Cheri's actions, reading that was like observing a teen age gang swarming of her and I really need to go have a shower.
On re-reading that Facebook page, it really looks like another case of drinking and typing - I would read this as more a reflection of stress on top of frustration combined with bad judgement rather than she's been a secret zionist all along.
I see somebody tried to advise her as I would have done if I'd been there:
Andrew Brett wrote:
Hands off the keyboard. Slowly step away from the computer
I saw the whole thing go down in real time last night on FB and I was shocked too.
To answer a question earlier in the thread - yes, I think the reaction to what DiNovo did in the Legislature would be the same no matter which NDP politician did it. No, it's not the same for Iggy because we expect no better of him. We know he stands on the side of torture and imperialism, and most of us don't vote Liberal, so it doesn't feel like a betrayal when he denounces activists.
That said...
I think what happened last night was sad, more than anything. When I first saw it going down, it was a fascinating train wreck and I couldn't stop watching. I was totally amazed and shocked that she was losing control like that. At first, my reaction was of a rubber-necking bystander, the main emotion being, "Holy crap, LOOK what she's SAYING! Unbelievable!" Especially when she called Andrew an idiot - definitely a low point.
But as time went on, and I watched whoever it was (her? her handlers?) who scrambled to delete all the posts and then take her Facebook wall offline, I was feeling more and more uneasy and sad about the whole thing. People have speculated that she might have been drunk when she said all of this. Well, maybe she was. I mean, certainly something was affecting her judgement. She also claims to not have slept for a week due to the phone calls she's been getting. She also claims to have been threatened.
There was a whole lot wrong with what she wrote. Personally, I think her calling Andrew an "idiot" was probably the easiest to excuse - who hasn't gotten into an online flame war at some point if they use online social media tools a lot (she asks, blushing)? Obviously, it was the comments about how "the Left can't disagree peacefully" (maligning her entire base of support), and quoting Tarek Fatah calling the people who disagreed with her IAW motion support "fascists", and accusing "Left women" of not having said anything when Kazemi was killed in Iran and not supporting GLBT rights against fundamentalists that were most damaging, and are probably going to be the hardest for her to take back or live down.
And I was extremely unhappy and offended over her actions that sparked this whole thing, in the Legislature, standing in solidarity with the Conservatives as they called us antisemites and accused us of hate speech.
But after the initial rubbernecking "thrill" of reading something like this as it happened in real time, I started having growing feelings of unease and sympathy for her. There is no glee for me in seeing Cheri DiNovo flame out like that, even if she did start it, and even if she did attack activists in her rambling speech in the Legislature, and even if she did "defriend" and delete the posts of a bunch of people on FB a few days ago. (Some of whom, by the way, she has "friended" again.)
Because what we saw last night looked to me like a meltdown or a breakdown of some kind. It didn't sound like a person in control of herself. She says she hasn't slept in a week and has had threatening phone calls. (Now, I have no idea whether she is just interpreting angry calls over what she said as "threatening" or whether she really has been threatened, but the point is, her state of mind was that she felt threatened by them.) She has been under a great deal of pressure and stress.
On the surface, I agree with skdadl that people generally don't say the polar opposite to their real opinion in times of personal stress. But then again, when I think about some of the stuff I've said in the heat of the argument (whether in real life or on babble), I know that I've rethought what I said later and realized, okay, I was probably wrong about that. And hmm, I was probably wrong about that too. DiNovo might be having that moment right now, waking up to the light of a new day and feeling sick over what happened the night before, and who knows, maybe wishing she could take it back. Or, maybe she's still angry, but just unhappy with herself that she flew off the handle and called people "fascists" and "idiots". Who knows.
There is so much problematic with the stuff she wrote, particularly about supporting Israel because women are oppressed by Islamic fundamentalism. One of the other posters in that thread, Jason Kunin, took care of that argument nicely, so I won't get into that here.
But after the initial thrill, my reaction to this is ultimately compassion. She's a flawed human like the rest of us, and she freaked out. She did what many of us do, but no politician is ever supposed to do - she had a human moment online and engaged in a flame war (and a pretty lightweight one too, at least by babble standards! :D ). And she's going to pay for it in embarrassment and probably take a bit of a hit to her reputation, at least for a while.
And I suppose that is probably just. I don't blame Andrew at all for posting her meltdown publicly after she deleted it - it was news, and she insulted him, and politicians need to know that you can't get away with doing that sort of thing to their allies and supporters (and I would be shocked if Andrew and many others who have been protesting her IAW action weren't supporters before that).
But my personal hope is that after sleeping on it, and after this little scandal dies down, and once this is less of a "standoff" between DiNovo and Palestinian rights activists, she will be able to understand why her allies - and we are her allies - use the terms we do to describe Israel, and why we were so unhappy with her statement. And I hope she will think twice before standing in solidarity with Conservatives to attack Palestinian rights activists, and come to realize that Tarek Fatah is not her "ally" simply because he is comforting her by calling the people she's upset with right now "fascists". We all talk trash privately when we're upset with people, and that can be comforting in the moment, but often we realize once we cool down that we've gone over the top, and our trash talk is just that - a time of venting that doesn't really reflect our true feelings once the anger has subsided.
I also hope that we, the people who have been unhappy with her, can be satisfied with knowing that, even if she never agrees with us on the IAW issue, we have made our point and she has heard it loud and clear. I hope that we can resist the urge to demonize her and completely write her off as a politician and a human being as a result of a (serious, I realize) political dispute and an angry exchange on Facebook.
And then, after all that, I hope she continues on with her otherwise excellent work as an MPP who is a real champion on domestic issues of poverty, homelessness, and labour.
I'd think that an MPP getting threatening phone calls is more a matter for the OPP than facebook.
Exactly what I thought when I read that.
We have workplace situations where (typically) the employer disciplines or fires a worker for having made "threats" against someone (often a supervisor or manager). Our response as union reps is: "Did you call the police?" When the answer is "no", we nod our heads, knowing that no one really took the threat seriously - and knowing that if management doesn't back off, we'll have a good chance of winning the grievance down the road.
I'm more interested in what the authorities said about the so-called "threats" that terrified Ms. DiNovo than what Ms. DiNovo said about them on Facebook.
In any event, I don't see anything fanatically Zionistic about what she said in public. She must be awfully shocked about what happened - all she did was ask the Palestinians to show some peace and love, and everyone not to use such terrible words as "apartheid" about Israel - and everyone got all upset and called her names! Combined with her pathetic whining on FB and her bizarre statements about Muslims and Jewish liturgy in her speech, one should not entirely write off the possibility that she is simply: (1) full of herself, and (2) not especially bright. A devastating combination.
ETA: Michelle, your analysis of the FB incident is based on a far closer knowledge of DiNovo than I could possibly have, but it doesn't take into account the days of denial, deletion of comments, etc. which make this appear more than a momentary meltdown. She is very angry, and at the wrong people.
Great post Michelle. Unfortunately, I have never been able to separate in my own mind my own domestic comforts and privilege from the very real and constant suffering of others. I can't make that disconnection. I appreciate many have never made the connection. I appreciate many on the left never recognize the blood that goes into providing us with a daily orgy of cheap. But I still expect, however, our political allies to never stand and sing from the same hymn book of those who not only make the connection but advocate in the defence and promotion of it. There is a simple rule politicians can use to guide their decisions on such controversial and explosive issues: the people with bloody hands building on the broken lives of others are always wrong.
I'm more interested in what the authorities said about the so-called "threats" that terrified Ms. DiNovo than what Ms. DiNovo said about them on Facebook.
I'm more interested in just getting it behind us.
You might have noticed over the years I don't often get into threads on middle east issues, precisely for this reason. I mean, I'm not a carte blanche supporter of Israel, and I believe I can in fact take issue, if I had a mind, with the zoning decision of the Tel Aviv city council and not necessarily be an anti semite.
Too often, the debate becomes bitter because one isn't on someone else's side enough, or doesn't use the exactly precise word to describe this or that. Then the accusations fly.
I don't live that far from the Beth Tefilah synagogue and the Or Shalom congregation, and there's times I've seen the Israeli flag and a protest march supporting Israel. I don't doubt there's fanatical supporters of Israel that would indeed consider me anti semetic for not aggreeing with a zoning variation by a Tel Aviv city council. And yes, that bugs me.
I can focus on that. Or, I can focus on the fact that the Jewish and Islamic communities in London also work together for understanding, and charity domestic and foreign.
Stuff like that is probably much more common than the attention it gets would indicate.
I know. I'm struggling with that too, FM. I want purity, dammit! (I'm not mocking here - I really do want purity, and those of you who have seen me post on babble for the past 9 years know that I regularly get pissed at the NDP when I don't get it.) I also make the connections and it really ticks me off when others don't make the same connections when they should know better.
I guess I just feel like I can't keep writing off people who maybe aren't "there yet" on certain issues (like Israel/Palestine) because eventually I'll be standing alone.
radiorahim and I were talking the other day about what union activism has taught us (well, mostly what it's taught him since he's been involved for decades and I'm a relative newbie). And one thing is, trying to bridge gaps across ideological divides. You get people of all political stripes in unions, and if you can't build solidarity across that, then you're screwed once it's time to go to the bargaining table for the stuff you do agree on.
I'm starting to learn this, and trying to be more forgiving of purity lapses. Doesn't mean she shouldn't be taken to task for what she did in the Legislature. That was a breach of solidarity in my opinion because she didn't just disagree - she stood with Conservatives and attacked us. But I also think that healing needs to take place. We've camped out into "sides" on it now, with so much anger, that neither of us is hearing the other. So if we're all divided and angry at each other, what happens the next time it's time to start advocating for a minimum wage increase? How effective will we be if we're estranged from our strongest champion in the Legislature on that issue?
I'm still angry that she sold us out to the Conservatives that day. And I used the term "self-destruct" to describe Cheri's meltdown last night too. But I still hope her career doesn't "destruct" over this.
radiorahim and I were talking the other day about what union activism has taught us (well, mostly what it's taught him since he's been involved for decades and I'm a relative newbie). And one thing is, trying to bridge gaps across ideological divides. You get people of all political stripes in unions, and if you can't build solidarity across that, then you're screwed once it's time to go to the bargaining table for the stuff you do agree on.
Radiorahim is very wise. For me, I look to my name's sake and the founding fathers of the U.S. What is often forgotten is all the extremely significant--very extremely significant-- differences that the 13 colonies had with each other, and what had to be put aside in order for the common goal of independance to be realized. The French couldn't do that in their revolution.
And, don't think we here are not chalk full of little Robesspiere's wanting to see the heads of their alllies more than their enemies.
More broadly, too, you realize that if we really are going to challenge the power structure, fight the patriarchy or whatever, we're going to have to actually build bridges, and for a time work along side people who hold some very different views than our own.
The fact that we are unable to do so is why we really haven't challenged any power yet.
Too often, the debate becomes bitter because one isn't on someone else's side enough, or doesn't use the exactly precise word to describe this or that. Then the accusations fly.
That's true for so many debates around here, not just about the middle east. People (including me) get accused of not being progressive enough because they don't use the right lingo, or one single word becomes a "clue" that the poster is harbouring a secret right-wing agenda.
I bring this up here because I wonder if the left has more of a tendency to eat its own than the right. It seems you can be somebody like Vic Toews, caught cheating on his wife while publicly espousing a "pro-family" anti-gay agenda, and nobody blinks.
Is the right more tolerant of hypocrisy than the left? If so, it's another good reason to be on the left, but maybe on the left people get beat up for human failings rather than any real failures of ideology or the ability to take the right kinds of action.
boom!
All I can say is wow: http://sites.google.com/site/ricktelfer/eia/dinovo-rage
She has gone over the deep end riding, as one poster put it, "the Zionist playbook".
Weird, i got locked out and couldn't edit my post or reply to this thread, or view my inbox. Anyway, yeah I was going to post this link:
http://img19.imageshack.us/img19/3417/dinovofreedomofspeechbl.jpg
But I think it's the same as Frustrated Mess's.
Holy crap. She really did self-destruct.
Will she quit before the next election? I don't think i've ever seen a politician so publicly attack their base support before.
Wow.
Not too surprised, though. She's in my riding - my MPP - and she's a tough woman. My husband was at a community meeting a couple of years ago where somebody asked a vaguely critical question, and Cheri put him down with a snide remark. She's not the most approachable person.
Sounds like she's stressed - she comments at one point about "not sleeping in days." She really, really needed to stay away from the keyboard.
Yes, it is the same. Glad that issue cleared up.
And I just want to point out that this has been nowhere in the media. If a politician was saying such things on their facebook about another issue would we have heard about this from the MSM by now? What if she was attacking pro-Apartheid people in the same manner?
Yeah. I kind of feel sorry for her but then I think of all the people who probably had trouble sleeping in Gaza when IDF was bombing the shit out them or Palestinian kids who can't sleep because they witnessed IDF soldiers break into their house and kidnap their family members.
I sent Di Novo an email when she first voted for the Apartheid-supporting bill (she's my MPP, too). She invited me to come see her in her office, which I was going to do until I read that Facebook wall. I don't think that I want to go and get a scolding by the angry preacher posing as my "representative".
Michael Ignatieff doesn't lose any sleep over it.
Did she fire any more staff tonight?
I wonder if other politicians who supported this bill, or the sentiment expressed in the bill, have faced the same backlash?
Should we ask whether Cheri DiNovo, who is nevertheless wrong on this question, is taking a disproportionate amount of stick for her pro-Israel views as a queer woman and former street kid? Maybe she is a more attractive target than the far more criminal Jason Kenney?
Eta: omg, Le T just asked the same thing. Le T? Le <3.
wow...i am not a fan of her anymore.
Before + after
I didn't realize that she is a queer woman and former street kid. Now that you mention that, maybe it makes her betrayal even more ironic. If you read her dirty little speech again, it harps on "peace". That's what she's preaching to the anti-apartheid activists that she is condemning. That's what she is preaching to the Palestinian people. She adds "justice" as an afterthought, but it's the "peace" goal which makes "inflammatory" language unacceptable to her.
Those who preach "peace" and "love" to the marginalized and the underclasses are not our allies. It may be a lesson she forgot as she climbed the social ladder to acceptability. Her aggressive tone with friendly critics and her deletion of comments she can't or won't answer bespeaks the same forgetfulness. But rather than speculate about her motives, I'm content to just see her dismissed with contempt wherever she shows her face - unless, and until, she does the right thing, recants, and asks forgiveness.
I knew some of the background, but I'm shocked. Sure, stressed-out people can say some things they later regret, but they don't say anything they truly don't think, the opposite of what they think.
No progressives "championed" Zahra Kazemi (whose name she even gets wrong, although that could be a stress typo)? We all sold out Kazemi so that we could focus on Arar? We can't walk and chew gum at the same time? Where the hell has she been? On babble alone and now at BnR, there are a number of threads about Kazemi, have been since the beginning. Every online feminist I know has followed Kazemi's story all the way through and still wants to see justice done. We just don't think we honour Kazemi by cheering Israel on as it plots to drop bombs on the heads of other Iranians, including women and children.
What the hell, though, is she implying about Arar? She's in favour of torture? She's in favour of punishing an innocent man? She doesn't care whether Canada has a corrupt spy agency that has repeatedly been shown to be complicit in war crimes? And all that because ... Arar is Muslim?
I know I'm saying the obvious, but I am shocked and angry m'self now.
Someone on that Facebook page mentions wanting to meet with her. I hope someone does this.
Take away the pressure of the phone calls and whatever thats about, and its clear shes a Zionist and has that potent anti-Muslim rationalization. But there's nothing to be gained in just standing back and watching her morph into an active enemy.
I'd think that an MPP getting threatening phone calls is more a matter for the OPP than facebook.
The ones that caused this travesty and murder do not act as functionaries on behalf of people we elect to office. The list of atrocities that cry out for justice is quite long, they all deserve attention. Voices that are raised in objection only carry so far, and even here protest against what is wrought on our behalf is like talking to the wall on the best of days. Focusing effort where it stands the best chance of influencing the situation isn't entirely a matter of being selective with outrage.
She is taking a disproportionate amount of stick because she is a dipper. If she wants to live through pure hell, character assissination, and persecution, she should be an academic at a US University who opposes Zionism. Angry lefties in Toronto have nothing on professional fuckheads like Daniel Pipes and his Zionist brown shirt shock troops.
In any case, her logic is informed by the twisted sickness of Zionism. Following through with her Zionist logic, the poverty, crime, ANC/Zulu violence, should have ensured the continuation of White South Africa where gay men and women where more accepted in the cafes of Johannesburg than the townships of Soweto. Would our good reverend agree with such a contention? Why not? it is her's ...
Rabble ran a fantastic article that counters the twisted racist Zionist logic espoused by DiNovo, here:
http://www.rabble.ca/news/2010/03/coming-out-against-israeli-apartheid-c...
Maybe DiNovo should speak to other actual gay and lesbian people rather than the Zionist fascists supported by politicians who would lke nothing more than to roll back gay and lesbian progress beginning with the right to walk freely.
wow, my take on this is, though I am in disagreement with Cheri's actions, reading that was like observing a teen age gang swarming of her and I really need to go have a shower.
Good to see Jerry West's name though, I miss him.
On re-reading that Facebook page, it really looks like another case of drinking and typing - I would read this as more a reflection of stress on top of frustration combined with bad judgement rather than she's been a secret zionist all along.
I see somebody tried to advise her as I would have done if I'd been there:
I saw the whole thing go down in real time last night on FB and I was shocked too.
To answer a question earlier in the thread - yes, I think the reaction to what DiNovo did in the Legislature would be the same no matter which NDP politician did it. No, it's not the same for Iggy because we expect no better of him. We know he stands on the side of torture and imperialism, and most of us don't vote Liberal, so it doesn't feel like a betrayal when he denounces activists.
That said...
I think what happened last night was sad, more than anything. When I first saw it going down, it was a fascinating train wreck and I couldn't stop watching. I was totally amazed and shocked that she was losing control like that. At first, my reaction was of a rubber-necking bystander, the main emotion being, "Holy crap, LOOK what she's SAYING! Unbelievable!" Especially when she called Andrew an idiot - definitely a low point.
But as time went on, and I watched whoever it was (her? her handlers?) who scrambled to delete all the posts and then take her Facebook wall offline, I was feeling more and more uneasy and sad about the whole thing. People have speculated that she might have been drunk when she said all of this. Well, maybe she was. I mean, certainly something was affecting her judgement. She also claims to not have slept for a week due to the phone calls she's been getting. She also claims to have been threatened.
There was a whole lot wrong with what she wrote. Personally, I think her calling Andrew an "idiot" was probably the easiest to excuse - who hasn't gotten into an online flame war at some point if they use online social media tools a lot (she asks, blushing)? Obviously, it was the comments about how "the Left can't disagree peacefully" (maligning her entire base of support), and quoting Tarek Fatah calling the people who disagreed with her IAW motion support "fascists", and accusing "Left women" of not having said anything when Kazemi was killed in Iran and not supporting GLBT rights against fundamentalists that were most damaging, and are probably going to be the hardest for her to take back or live down.
And I was extremely unhappy and offended over her actions that sparked this whole thing, in the Legislature, standing in solidarity with the Conservatives as they called us antisemites and accused us of hate speech.
But after the initial rubbernecking "thrill" of reading something like this as it happened in real time, I started having growing feelings of unease and sympathy for her. There is no glee for me in seeing Cheri DiNovo flame out like that, even if she did start it, and even if she did attack activists in her rambling speech in the Legislature, and even if she did "defriend" and delete the posts of a bunch of people on FB a few days ago. (Some of whom, by the way, she has "friended" again.)
Because what we saw last night looked to me like a meltdown or a breakdown of some kind. It didn't sound like a person in control of herself. She says she hasn't slept in a week and has had threatening phone calls. (Now, I have no idea whether she is just interpreting angry calls over what she said as "threatening" or whether she really has been threatened, but the point is, her state of mind was that she felt threatened by them.) She has been under a great deal of pressure and stress.
On the surface, I agree with skdadl that people generally don't say the polar opposite to their real opinion in times of personal stress. But then again, when I think about some of the stuff I've said in the heat of the argument (whether in real life or on babble), I know that I've rethought what I said later and realized, okay, I was probably wrong about that. And hmm, I was probably wrong about that too. DiNovo might be having that moment right now, waking up to the light of a new day and feeling sick over what happened the night before, and who knows, maybe wishing she could take it back. Or, maybe she's still angry, but just unhappy with herself that she flew off the handle and called people "fascists" and "idiots". Who knows.
There is so much problematic with the stuff she wrote, particularly about supporting Israel because women are oppressed by Islamic fundamentalism. One of the other posters in that thread, Jason Kunin, took care of that argument nicely, so I won't get into that here.
But after the initial thrill, my reaction to this is ultimately compassion. She's a flawed human like the rest of us, and she freaked out. She did what many of us do, but no politician is ever supposed to do - she had a human moment online and engaged in a flame war (and a pretty lightweight one too, at least by babble standards! :D ). And she's going to pay for it in embarrassment and probably take a bit of a hit to her reputation, at least for a while.
And I suppose that is probably just. I don't blame Andrew at all for posting her meltdown publicly after she deleted it - it was news, and she insulted him, and politicians need to know that you can't get away with doing that sort of thing to their allies and supporters (and I would be shocked if Andrew and many others who have been protesting her IAW action weren't supporters before that).
But my personal hope is that after sleeping on it, and after this little scandal dies down, and once this is less of a "standoff" between DiNovo and Palestinian rights activists, she will be able to understand why her allies - and we are her allies - use the terms we do to describe Israel, and why we were so unhappy with her statement. And I hope she will think twice before standing in solidarity with Conservatives to attack Palestinian rights activists, and come to realize that Tarek Fatah is not her "ally" simply because he is comforting her by calling the people she's upset with right now "fascists". We all talk trash privately when we're upset with people, and that can be comforting in the moment, but often we realize once we cool down that we've gone over the top, and our trash talk is just that - a time of venting that doesn't really reflect our true feelings once the anger has subsided.
I also hope that we, the people who have been unhappy with her, can be satisfied with knowing that, even if she never agrees with us on the IAW issue, we have made our point and she has heard it loud and clear. I hope that we can resist the urge to demonize her and completely write her off as a politician and a human being as a result of a (serious, I realize) political dispute and an angry exchange on Facebook.
And then, after all that, I hope she continues on with her otherwise excellent work as an MPP who is a real champion on domestic issues of poverty, homelessness, and labour.
And you know, as meltdowns go, it wasn't that bad. It's not like she got into an arguement with a cyclist, and killed him.
Exactly what I thought when I read that.
We have workplace situations where (typically) the employer disciplines or fires a worker for having made "threats" against someone (often a supervisor or manager). Our response as union reps is: "Did you call the police?" When the answer is "no", we nod our heads, knowing that no one really took the threat seriously - and knowing that if management doesn't back off, we'll have a good chance of winning the grievance down the road.
I'm more interested in what the authorities said about the so-called "threats" that terrified Ms. DiNovo than what Ms. DiNovo said about them on Facebook.
In any event, I don't see anything fanatically Zionistic about what she said in public. She must be awfully shocked about what happened - all she did was ask the Palestinians to show some peace and love, and everyone not to use such terrible words as "apartheid" about Israel - and everyone got all upset and called her names! Combined with her pathetic whining on FB and her bizarre statements about Muslims and Jewish liturgy in her speech, one should not entirely write off the possibility that she is simply: (1) full of herself, and (2) not especially bright. A devastating combination.
ETA: Michelle, your analysis of the FB incident is based on a far closer knowledge of DiNovo than I could possibly have, but it doesn't take into account the days of denial, deletion of comments, etc. which make this appear more than a momentary meltdown. She is very angry, and at the wrong people.
Great post Michelle. Unfortunately, I have never been able to separate in my own mind my own domestic comforts and privilege from the very real and constant suffering of others. I can't make that disconnection. I appreciate many have never made the connection. I appreciate many on the left never recognize the blood that goes into providing us with a daily orgy of cheap. But I still expect, however, our political allies to never stand and sing from the same hymn book of those who not only make the connection but advocate in the defence and promotion of it. There is a simple rule politicians can use to guide their decisions on such controversial and explosive issues: the people with bloody hands building on the broken lives of others are always wrong.
I'm more interested in what the authorities said about the so-called "threats" that terrified Ms. DiNovo than what Ms. DiNovo said about them on Facebook.
I'm more interested in just getting it behind us.
You might have noticed over the years I don't often get into threads on middle east issues, precisely for this reason. I mean, I'm not a carte blanche supporter of Israel, and I believe I can in fact take issue, if I had a mind, with the zoning decision of the Tel Aviv city council and not necessarily be an anti semite.
Too often, the debate becomes bitter because one isn't on someone else's side enough, or doesn't use the exactly precise word to describe this or that. Then the accusations fly.
I don't live that far from the Beth Tefilah synagogue and the Or Shalom congregation, and there's times I've seen the Israeli flag and a protest march supporting Israel. I don't doubt there's fanatical supporters of Israel that would indeed consider me anti semetic for not aggreeing with a zoning variation by a Tel Aviv city council. And yes, that bugs me.
I can focus on that. Or, I can focus on the fact that the Jewish and Islamic communities in London also work together for understanding, and charity domestic and foreign.
Stuff like that is probably much more common than the attention it gets would indicate.
And, that's where the only hope lies.
I know. I'm struggling with that too, FM. I want purity, dammit! (I'm not mocking here - I really do want purity, and those of you who have seen me post on babble for the past 9 years know that I regularly get pissed at the NDP when I don't get it.) I also make the connections and it really ticks me off when others don't make the same connections when they should know better.
I guess I just feel like I can't keep writing off people who maybe aren't "there yet" on certain issues (like Israel/Palestine) because eventually I'll be standing alone.
radiorahim and I were talking the other day about what union activism has taught us (well, mostly what it's taught him since he's been involved for decades and I'm a relative newbie). And one thing is, trying to bridge gaps across ideological divides. You get people of all political stripes in unions, and if you can't build solidarity across that, then you're screwed once it's time to go to the bargaining table for the stuff you do agree on.
I'm starting to learn this, and trying to be more forgiving of purity lapses. Doesn't mean she shouldn't be taken to task for what she did in the Legislature. That was a breach of solidarity in my opinion because she didn't just disagree - she stood with Conservatives and attacked us. But I also think that healing needs to take place. We've camped out into "sides" on it now, with so much anger, that neither of us is hearing the other. So if we're all divided and angry at each other, what happens the next time it's time to start advocating for a minimum wage increase? How effective will we be if we're estranged from our strongest champion in the Legislature on that issue?
I'm still angry that she sold us out to the Conservatives that day. And I used the term "self-destruct" to describe Cheri's meltdown last night too. But I still hope her career doesn't "destruct" over this.
radiorahim and I were talking the other day about what union activism has taught us (well, mostly what it's taught him since he's been involved for decades and I'm a relative newbie). And one thing is, trying to bridge gaps across ideological divides. You get people of all political stripes in unions, and if you can't build solidarity across that, then you're screwed once it's time to go to the bargaining table for the stuff you do agree on.
Radiorahim is very wise. For me, I look to my name's sake and the founding fathers of the U.S. What is often forgotten is all the extremely significant--very extremely significant-- differences that the 13 colonies had with each other, and what had to be put aside in order for the common goal of independance to be realized. The French couldn't do that in their revolution.
And, don't think we here are not chalk full of little Robesspiere's wanting to see the heads of their alllies more than their enemies.
More broadly, too, you realize that if we really are going to challenge the power structure, fight the patriarchy or whatever, we're going to have to actually build bridges, and for a time work along side people who hold some very different views than our own.
The fact that we are unable to do so is why we really haven't challenged any power yet.
That's true for so many debates around here, not just about the middle east. People (including me) get accused of not being progressive enough because they don't use the right lingo, or one single word becomes a "clue" that the poster is harbouring a secret right-wing agenda.
I bring this up here because I wonder if the left has more of a tendency to eat its own than the right. It seems you can be somebody like Vic Toews, caught cheating on his wife while publicly espousing a "pro-family" anti-gay agenda, and nobody blinks.
Is the right more tolerant of hypocrisy than the left? If so, it's another good reason to be on the left, but maybe on the left people get beat up for human failings rather than any real failures of ideology or the ability to take the right kinds of action.