It's really dumb that this sort of thing should even be a debate anymore, but apparently it is in the world of comics where there's a dispute over whether or not the supervillain Chameleon committed rape by seducing Peter Parker's (Spiderman's) roommate while disguised as Peter Parker. One might think that the writer could resolve this, but he claims that it wasn't rape too.
http://io9.com/5358396/spider+mans-villains-not-rapists-says-creator