ryanw, I see what you are saying, but Halq'emeylem targeted Rebecca's child with his comment which had none of your pleas for understanding in it. I can think of fewer attacks which are less nasty than responding to someone's personal story about a daughter with such cruelty. I would appreciate it, if a new thread opens up on this subject, that you drop that topic of discussion, partly because it's acrimonious but also because it's just off-topic.
Closing for length.