Enquiring minds want to know.
The use of force IS outrageous. I don't think that question would be asked about all forms of violence. To pass it off as nothing but white male fascination with war isn't really telling the whole story.
Besides, if we are talking about Ukraine, that thread has been pretty active since January; the war only started in May. That is to say, the government of Ukraine only started fighting back around that time. Before that it was shootings, kidnappings, torture and murder.
As for those conflicts, it's not as if there aren't attempts at a political solution on the table at the same time. The sad thing is when those settlements or offers are viewed as nothing but knuckling under to power. In that sense, I agree with yout point.
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@ Paladin
But ISIS has been beheading people for quite awhile; they just haven't been white Americans. For that matter, our allies in Saudi Arabia chop people's heads off all the time - 70 in the last year.