The right to die with dignity

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Jake
The right to die with dignity

 

Jake
clersal

Your link didn't work: [url=http://www.thechronicleherald.ca/Editorial/851075.html]Here it is[/url]

Jake

Thanks Clersal for your other link. The one I posted from the Daily news does work on my computer.

Jake

clersal

Strange, now your link is working. Thanks.
I think definitely that one should be able to die in dignity and be able to choose when. Who knows better than the person who is ill.

Summer

I agree that ppl should have the right to choose when to end their own lives. I think that this issue will become more important as our population ages.

clersal

I'm old so it is extremely important to me. I have a nice doctor so I am not too worried in spite of doctors being very noncomittal.

I suspect that a lot of doctors are very well aware and do their best so their patients do die with dignity.

Steppenwolf Allende

clersal wrote:

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I'm old so it is extremely important to me.

Your age has obviously not dampened your spirit. You are an inspiration. [img]biggrin.gif" border="0[/img]

As to the topic, I do fully support the right to die with dignity.

However, there clearly needs to be very clear and stringent standards on applying this right.

First, obviously, the choice must rest exclusively with the person in question.

Second, the person needs to be medically of sound mind when the decision is made.

Third, the person makes a commitment to die with dignity before actually before being incapacitated by getting sick or injured, this must be written in legal form, like in a will, and registered with a legal public agency.

Fourth, the person obviously should have the right to specify under what conditions their life should be terminated provided these conditions match those of a degenerative chronic or terminal disorder.

Fifth, the person, and only the person, should have the exclusive right to change those conditions or revoke the decision--not subject to any transfer of power to attorney. It must be that person and that person alone.

This should protect people from any shenanigans.

Steppenwolf Allende

clersal wrote:

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I'm old so it is extremely important to me.

Your age has obviously not dampened your spirit. You are an inspiration. [img]biggrin.gif" border="0[/img]

As to the topic, I do fully support the right to die with dignity.

However, there clearly needs to be very clear and stringent standards on applying this right.

First, obviously, the choice must rest exclusively with the person in question.

Second, the person needs to be medically of sound mind when the decision is made.

Third, the person makes a commitment to die with dignity before actually before being incapacitated by getting sick or injured, this must be written in legal form, like in a will, and registered with a legal public agency.

Fourth, the person obviously should have the right to specify under what conditions their life should be terminated provided these conditions match those of a degenerative chronic or terminal disorder.

Fifth, the person, and only the person, should have the exclusive right to change those conditions or revoke the decision--not subject to any transfer of power to attorney. It must be that person and that person alone.

This should protect people from any shenanigans.

clersal

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Originally posted by Steppenwolf Allende:
[b]clersal wrote:

However, there clearly needs to be very clear and stringent standards on applying this right.

First, obviously, the choice must rest exclusively with the person in question.

Second, the person needs to be medically of sound mind when the decision is made.

Third, the person makes a commitment to die with dignity before actually before being incapacitated by getting sick or injured, this must be written in legal form, like in a will, and registered with a legal public agency.

Fourth, the person obviously should have the right to specify under what conditions their life should be terminated provided these conditions match those of a degenerative chronic or terminal disorder.

Fifth, the person, and only the person, should have the exclusive right to change those conditions or revoke the decision--not subject to any transfer of power to attorney. It must be that person and that person alone.

This should protect people from any shenanigans.[/b]


Sounds good but very complicated. If someone in the family finds a loophole and for some misguided reason wants the person to go on 'in case' they find a cure......life will not be much fun for the dying.

There are all kinds of 'chronic' disorders that are not necessarily painful nor is the person in danger of imminent death. Their quality of life is shit.

Of course there should be certain guidlines however I doubt that there would be many 'shenanigans' with familes bumping off old Ma and Pa because they are tired of looking after them.

We can't avoid everything as the felon will find some way of removing the thorn in their side by looking up untraceable poisons on the internet or reading lots of Agatha Christie books. [img]biggrin.gif" border="0[/img]

Michelle

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Originally posted by Steppenwolf Allende:
[b]First, obviously, the choice must rest exclusively with the person in question.[/b]

Yeah. For instance, no murdering your disabled kids. I can't for the life of me figure out why Latimer gets such a free ride from the public on what he did to his daughter.

clersal

Latimer's daughter was unable to make her wishes known, if she had even the knowledge of life and death.

I think what she did seem to know was a lot of pain. I'm not even sure whether the quality of her life was even relevent at least on how I see the quality of life.

I think the Latimer gets a 'free ride' as you put it Michelle because he really loved his daughter. There seemed to be no doubt on that side.

Right or wrong......I know my sympathies are with him in spite of it being against the law.

Jake

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Yeah. For instance, no murdering your disabled kids. I can't for the life of me figure out why Latimer gets such a free ride from the public on what he did to his daughter.

Michelle
I don't often disagree with you but I can't let this remark pass. In my opinion what Robert Latimer did was an act of love and mercy. Read up a bit on the background of the 12 or so years preceeding this and how much help the system and or the comunity provided and ask yourself if you would have done better.

He did not get a free ride . He got 10 years in the can; if this had been tried in Quebec I believe he would have been acquited.

The supreme court are an elite bunch who don't have to live in the real world with the rest of us. Sad.

Jake

Michelle

I didn't mean by the court, thank goodness - I meant he got a free ride by the public.

Sorry, but we're not going to agree on this. Unless someone has made the decision for themselves, or unless they're braindead, no one should be allowed to murder someone in the name of mercy.

[ 29 June 2007: Message edited by: Michelle ]

pookie

In fact, he did get somewhat of a free ride in that according to his own testimony his actions were completely pre-meditated. He was clearly guilty of first-degree murder but was convicted only of second-degree.

Also, I find it amazing that more people don't condemn the fact that he killed Tracy without even discussing it with his wife. Talk about exercising patriarchal control!

Michelle

Holy crap. I didn't even know that part. He didn't even consult his WIFE? Unbelievable. Of course, maybe he didn't want to make her an accessory, and was protecting her. But still. I'd find that pretty unforgivable.

clersal

[url=http://www.cbc.ca/news/background/latimer/]Interesting[/url]

Tracy was a 40-pound quadriplegic, a 12-year-old who functioned at the level of a three-month-old. She had been repeatedly operated on and at the time of her murder was due for more surgery, this time to remove a thigh bone. She could not walk, talk or feed herself, though she responded to affection and occasionally smiled. Tracy was in constant, excruciating pain yet, for reasons not entirely clear, could not be treated with a pain-killer stronger than Tylenol.
This is the part I find important. Functioning at a three month level is pretty close to brain dead especially with all the pain the child was going through and other operations she was supposed to have.

About not telling his wife....I think Michelle is probably correct and he wanted to protect his wife. Not necessarily patriarchal but common sense. He would have probably done the same thing if his partner had been a man.

[ 29 June 2007: Message edited by: clersal ]

pookie

Perhaps he wanted to protect her, or perhaps he didn't want to face objections. Really, why assume one way or the other?

What has bugged me all along about this case is Latimer's outright defiance at having to face legal consequences. His statements give the impression of someone operating under absolutely moral certainty. That level of certainty, when deciding whether to end a life, doesn't sit well with me.

clersal

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Originally posted by pookie:
[b]
His statements give the impression of someone operating under absolutely moral certainty. That level of certainty, when deciding whether to end a life, doesn't sit well with me.[/b]

Even if it was his own life?

pookie

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Originally posted by clersal:
[b]

Even if it was his own life?[/b]


No.

RP.

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Originally posted by clersal:
[b] Functioning at a three month level is pretty close to brain dead [/b]

1. No it's not.
2. It's also illegal to murder three-month-olds.

clersal

I would say that when you are 12 years old and your brain is functioning at a three month level and never going to improve, it is pretty close to brain dead.

I realize it is illegal to murder a three month old child however remember the thread, 'Dying with dignity.'

It is illegal to commit suicide too if you are not successful!

Jake

It is remarkable how other peoples problems are so simple to cope with. I had a friend who had spent several sesions in the assylum in Quebec city back in the 40's and 50's
He once told me that when a new patient arrived he and others would wonder what his problem was and when they found out they would each think - wow if that was all that was troubling me I'd be out of here tomorrrrow.

Jake

Summer

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Originally posted by clersal:
[b]

It is illegal to commit suicide too if you are not successful![/b]


Source?

I'm pretty sure this is not true.

the grey

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Originally posted by clersal:
[b]It is illegal to commit suicide too if you are not successful![/b]

No it isn't. Suicide was removed from the [i]Criminal Code[/i] a long time ago.

500_Apples

Suicide is immoral

Bible says so.

Failed attempts should face capital punishment.

Boom Boom Boom Boom's picture

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Originally posted by 500_Apples:
Failed attempts should face capital punishment.

You forgot the smiley! [img]biggrin.gif" border="0[/img]

pookie

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Originally posted by clersal:
[b]
It is illegal to commit suicide too if you are not successful![/b]

No it is not. Maybe you need to better inform yourself before engaging in this debate.

Criminal Law Amendment Act, 1972, S.C. 1972, c. 13, s. 16.

[ 30 June 2007: Message edited by: pookie ]

clersal

My abject apologies it used to be a crime.

The debate is about dying with dignity and not suicide.

Michelle

Just curious - do we think it's somehow UNdignified to simply die of a disease instead of committing suicide beforehand?

I mean, I really don't like this whole "dying with dignity" phrase, because it implies that those who die by letting nature take its course are not "dignified".

clersal

I don't feel that it is undignified at all if nature takes it's course. Some people hold on and even if offered refuse to hurry death along.

I believe we should have a choice. Not necessarily because of pain as there are some pretty strong pain killers available but simply if one thinks that the quality of their life will never return and want it over with.

Jake

Hi M

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by letting nature take its course

This is often not a very pretty or "dignified" way to go I have outlived most of my friends and family and have sat with many of them in their last days.
I have had some personal experience in this area of life; 2 major cancer operations, a stroke and more recently heart bypass surgery. My partner of 57 years has Parkinsons. Google that to check out the "natural course of events" Letting nature take its course sounds nice, particularly when we are young (under 75)
I'll check back with you in about 2050.
ETA by which time we should be able to take our Iphones with us when we choose to go.

Jake

[ 30 June 2007: Message edited by: Jake ]

Jake

I think that I probably choked off further discussion on this with my last post, and I am sorry for that because it is a subject that needs to be out in the open.

quote:

I really don't like this whole "dying with dignity" phrase,

Would "humain self chosen death" be more acceptable, sort of like the right to choose to have an abortion or not.

Jake

Makwa Makwa's picture

As unpopular as my stance may be, I disagree with the concept of enabling suicide and or euthenasia. This is ironic because I have attempted suicide a number of times, but no longer believe in it, whatever the situation. I have come to believe in the traditional Cree understanding that suicide seperates the spirit from the natural course of the human cycle, and would then be lost and unable to move to the spirit world without particular intervention from healers. I now believe that pain and suffering in our final days brings us closer to understanding and that to seperate us from that final test is a loss to the spirit which is eternal.

Unionist

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Originally posted by Makwa:
[b]As unpopular as my stance may be, I disagree with the concept of enabling suicide and or euthenasia. [/b]

I respect your belief, but is it for yourself, or would you impose it on others?

Sineed

And what if you die of something that has robbed you of your cognition long beforehand, like Alzheimer's disease?

Dunno if you would call it euthanasia, but in health care, sometimes people at the end of their lives are quietly given medication that relieves their suffering and hastens their end. I would be in favour of this practice being legal and out in the open so that people can openly discuss what they prefer (if they are able). And people with beliefs like Makwa's would see their beliefs respected.

Jake

A whole new private for profit industry has evolved around the need to warehouse older people who can no longer care completely for themselves. It is organized on many levels depending on one’s degree of impairment, going from “self sufficient” through “needs (X, Xx or XXXX) care” and eventually “physically alive but mind dead” and /or out of money.at which point one gets handed over to the govt run warehouses.
The first stages of this process are very costly and and the cost goes up as the stages progress. For some the prospect of running out of momey while still in the mid range can be pretty scary.

If the story is correct that among the Inuit in days gone bye when one realized that one had become of no further benefit to the comunity one would get onto an icefloe and drift off andd let nature take its course, I think they had it right.

I hope that we can develop a legal and more easily available option. In my opinion Switzerland has the most reasonable laws in this area.

Jake

[ 04 July 2007: Message edited by: Jake ]

Dead_Letter

quote:


Originally posted by Makwa:
[b]As unpopular as my stance may be, I disagree with the concept of enabling suicide and or euthenasia. This is ironic because I have attempted suicide a number of times, but no longer believe in it, whatever the situation. I have come to believe in the traditional Cree understanding that suicide seperates the spirit from the natural course of the human cycle, and would then be lost and unable to move to the spirit world without particular intervention from healers. I now believe that pain and suffering in our final days brings us closer to understanding and that to seperate us from that final test is a loss to the spirit which is eternal.[/b]

The question for me is why you would believe, and that is the operative word, any of that? It's completely magical thinking. Of course, we're all entitled to our self-delusions, but that crosses a dangerous barrier when it informs your political stances. Same as if Adam and Eve and Noah and Jesus guided your life and led you to certain moral (immoral?) positions.

Unionist

[url=http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2015/01/20/dying-with-dignity-charitable-ta... With Dignity Canada Stripped Of Charitable Tax Status[/url]

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Canada's registered charities are not permitted to exercise moral pressure or promote "an attitude of mind" that might influence legislation, the federal taxman has ruled in stripping Dying with Dignity Canada of its charitable tax status.

The organization, a registered charity since 1982, was informed this month by the Canada Revenue Agency that it never should have received favourable tax treatment in the first place and that its status was being annulled, effective mid-February.

Personally, I respect Stephen Harper's principled opposition to dying with dignity.

 

6079_Smith_W

Just saw this. I suppose it is too much to expect there won't be an audit and request for repayment coming.

As well as follow up letters to all the donors.

Good thing men's rights are still afforded charitable status though.

lagatta

Unionist, were you being serious or facetious (aka just talking about Harper's own fate)?

It is utterly disgusting for anyone for force people to live in either pain or non-being (Alzheimer's). One of the worst aspects of the latter is that sometimes the victims have brief spells of lucidity, realizing how hideous their condition had become.

 

laine lowe laine lowe's picture

This is so unfair. Why should hate-mongering, religiously affiliated organizations maintain their charitable status while a group so proven to provide beneficial help to those they serve be denied? Fletcher, the only Harper Con who is on board with right to die legislation and put forward a private member's bill, was quoted as not being disturbed by this. He is confident that those who need Right to Die services will pony up the $$$ regardless of a tax receipt. Perhaps we should use the same logic for all religious and right wing charitable organizations and demand that their status be revoked.

Unionist

lagatta wrote:

Unionist, were you being serious or facetious (aka just talking about Harper's own fate)?

I respect Harper's right to die a natural death.

Geez, irony loses something when you have to explain it.

 

lagatta

No, I thought that was what you meant, but really, it wasn't clear.

takeitslowly

After seeing and being with my mother, who passed away at the age of 56 due to lung cancer (and never smoked), it is my strong belief that unless everybody who is opposed to the dying with dignity legislation is willing to stay with a terminally ill patient in hospice or pallative care 24.7, they dont have a right to oppose someone choosing to not die in pain.

It doesn't matter that there is strong morphine, sometimes pain medicine doesn't work as effectively, and nurses are not avaliable to monitor each patient closely with care and grace. I am not saying there are not good nurses but the resources and the care are just not adequate. And each second and each moment could be too unbearable and cruel for someone who is dying and bed ridden.

lagatta

My father also died youngish from lung cancer, but he was a very heavy smoker. He had two heart attacks, phlebitis and incipient emphysema before the cancer finally did him in.

When he was a young man, long ago, cigarette smoking was the norm. And earlier still in the 20th century, producers played patriot to get young men hooked during the First World War, and I'm sure that crap still went on in the Second, as cigs became an important trading item.

Timebandit Timebandit's picture

I've always supported the idea that we should be allowed to choose our deaths in the case of a terminal illness. 

A year and a half ago, my closest friend died of lymphoma.  I can tell you that morphine wasn't enough to take care of the pain.  At the end, she was in a chemically induced coma, more or less.  Surfacing was agony.  She lasted 11 days - essentially being starved to death - while her husband and I sat with her.  She would have hated that and she was so angry that she couldn't choose to die before it came to that. 

The way we handle death in our culture is barbaric.

I am so angry at the decision about Dying With Dignity that I can hardly speak.

sherpa-finn

My understanding is that Dying with Dignity plans to continue their good work, but without the benefit of charitable status.  This means that they will rely on the generosity of those supporters who believe in the cause, and do not require a tax deductible receipt to express that support. Hopefully that support will be broad enough and deep enough to maintain operations.

lagatta

Yes, but still we have to raise this with all the opposition parties, even the Bloc, although it is errr... dying, because Francine Lalonde was such an important advocate on this issue.

MegB

Another victory for Harper's bible-thumping Conservative base. It's astonishing how many lives can be affected by the narrow and rigid views of a small minority. How dare they presume to know what is best for others. Assholes.

Bacchus

MegB wrote:

 How dare they presume to know what is best for others. Assholes.

 

I find this endemic among all political parties. Tho Harper seems to have the lock on the religious right aspect of it (tho not the holier than thou attitude which they all have)

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