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bagkitty bagkitty's picture

The references above to RAGE bring, to my mind at least, a simple truth that animal husbandry teaches us - steers are less aggressive than bulls, and geldings less aggressive than stallions.

And before the faux outrage wagon picks up too much momentum, could someone please clarify if we are supposed to be outraged only by the Western, Jewish and Muslim practice of circumcizing (male) infants, or should it extend to those indigenous cultures on multiple continents who practice (male) circumcision as a right of passage into adulthood? Does (or should) outrage over circumcision trump outrage over colonialist paternalism?

It is not like I haven't heard this discussion before, but there was a lot more alcohol involved, and a great deal more levity and good natured teasing -- in both camps. Perhaps that was the better venue for the discussion, over a pitcher of beer at a student pub.

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bagkitty bagkitty's picture

Misfit wrote:
... Rhubarb is also FN, and circumcision is a white foreign imposition on her people. So Unionist, I think religious and cultural respect is a two way street.

Are you quite certain of this Misfit... if you go back into the threads that Rhubarb has posted in (within the aboriginal issues and culture forum), you will find that she has quite consistently employed the pronoun "they" when referring to FN people, and "we" when referring to settlers.

 

Misfit Misfit's picture

Get real, you people. I clarified the issue in North America for non religious practices. Terminating the procedure by doctors in North America today has nothing to do with forcing a position on any religion. Again, I feel the discussion warrants merit. And bag kitty, if you read what she wrote, she did not equate it with FGM at all.

Sineed

Rhubarb deleted all her posts in this thread. Anybody get screen shots?

Unionist

bagkitty wrote:

Misfit wrote:
... Rhubarb is also FN, and circumcision is a white foreign imposition on her people. So Unionist, I think religious and cultural respect is a two way street.

Are you quite certain of this Misfit... if you go back into the threads that Rhubarb has posted in (within the aboriginal issues and culture forum), you will find that she has quite consistently employed the pronoun "they" when referring to FN people, and "we" when referring to settlers.

 

Exactly correct. Not that it makes the least difference to the crap in this thread.

Misfit Misfit's picture

Unionist, I consider the Jewish Holocaust to be the most abhorrent and reprehensible crime against humanity ever committed. It is a very dark reality of our history which disturbs me deeply. Having said that, circumcision IS foreign to First Nations people and I do concede that a small percentage of men are adversely affected by the procedure and makes for life due to botching. On a micro level, I do feel that the subject warrants discussion as performed for non religious purposes here in North America. And again, I will reiterate that it is a foreign procedure imposed on First Nations people.

Unionist

Misfit, please check your PM's. And why you introduced the issue of FN in this thread is beyond my comprehension. Read what bagkitty said please.

Sineed

misfit wrote:
And bag kitty, if you read what she wrote, she did not equate it with FGM at all.

The very existence of this thread and its title, Male Genital Mutilation, came about one day after an old thread on female genital mutilation was bumped to the front page.

And the OP of this thread has deleted her posts.

There may well be issues to be discussed, but this is not the place. This is nothing more than a trolling thread and should be closed.

rhubarb

Yes, I deleted all my posts other than the opening one and the request for a thread title change.  If anyone has screen shots feel free to post them again, I did not delete them because I do not stand by them, I deleted them because my intention has been twisted and my words have been consistently warped to conform to the biases of those who cannot address this issue. I see my words as energy, I take them back to take my energy back.

To those of you open to discussing this issue, thank you, I am grateful for your words.Smile

onlinediscountanvils

rhubarb wrote:

Yes, I deleted all my posts other than the opening one and the request for a thread title change.  If anyone has screen shots feel free to post them again, I did not delete them because I do not stand by them, I deleted them because my intention has been twisted and my words have been consistently warped to conform to the biases of those who cannot address this issue. I see my words as energy, I take them back to take my energy back.

I understand completely. I'm disgusted by the way you've been attacked here.

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And not just in this thread.

inkameep

Sineed wrote:

Female genital mutilation is equivalent to cutting off the entire glans, or head of the penis. There is no comparison.

FGM encompasses a wide range of practices. In Singapore, FGM consists of a symbolic 1cm incision performed by female physicians:

http://www.courtchallenge.com/news/torstar1.html  

 

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onlinediscountanvils wrote:

rhubarb wrote:

Yes, I deleted all my posts other than the opening one and the request for a thread title change.  If anyone has screen shots feel free to post them again, I did not delete them because I do not stand by them, I deleted them because my intention has been twisted and my words have been consistently warped to conform to the biases of those who cannot address this issue. I see my words as energy, I take them back to take my energy back.

I understand completely. I'm disgusted by the way you've been attacked here.

Thank you oda. Smile

MegB

Thread title changed upon request.

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Slumberjack

onlinediscountanvils wrote:
 I'm disgusted by the way you've been attacked here.

As am I.  It was uncalled for.  It's clear that some people (Lagatta) derive a certain sense of glee in attacking discussion that doesn't conform to their list of approved topics.

Slumberjack

Unionist wrote:
Some previous babble conversations: ..... and many others.

It doesn't matter how many related conversations have come and gone.  We've had multiple polling threads over the years with no end in sight.

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I was circumcized as a baby on the advice of the hospital. They claimed it as more 'hygenic'

I have no animosity towards the doctors or my parents for making that decision.

Whether I had foreskin and ultimately I don't,it makes very little difference or importance in my life.

IMHO,female circumcision is barbaric. Male circumcision,not so much.

Slumberjack

alan smithee wrote:
IMHO,female circumcision is barbaric. Male circumcision,not so much.

I don't recall that olympic style scoring comparisons were being made between the two distinct practices.  It was brought to the discussion, whereupon the discussion became consumed by it.

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onlinediscountanvils wrote:
I'm disgusted by the way you've been attacked here.

Well, you should try harder to distinguish between someone's uninformed offensive opinion on a subject being attacked, vs. the person being attacked. Rhubarb brought significant contributions to the discussion about indigenous medicine. She brought nothing but truther-style second-hand offensive nonsense to this conversation. You can call an opinion by its proper name without being accused of "attacking" someone. Or you should be able to.

onlinediscountanvils

Unionist wrote:

onlinediscountanvils wrote:
I'm disgusted by the way you've been attacked here.

Well, you should try harder to distinguish between someone's uninformed offensive opinion on a subject being attacked, vs. the person being attacked. Rhubarb brought significant contributions to the discussion about indigenous medicine. She brought nothing but truther-style second-hand offensive nonsense to this conversation. You can call an opinion by its proper name without being accused of "attacking" someone. Or you should be able to.

I'm quite able to, thank you. I have no problem with people attacking each other's opinions. You may recall I wasn't the one calling for this thread to be shut down.  I was referring to the petty smears made against her as a person. Maybe you should try harder to express disagreement without being nasty.

Bacchus

Slumberjack wrote:

alan smithee wrote:
IMHO,female circumcision is barbaric. Male circumcision,not so much.

I don't recall that olympic style scoring comparisons were being made between the two distinct practices.  It was brought to the discussion, whereupon the discussion became consumed by it.

 

Half of all circumcisions go wrong. Two methids 1-knife (negative issues tend to be infections) and 2- a device that looks like a date stamp from the post office (negative issues tend to be more removal than necessary)

Not comparable to FGM but definitely not a bag of fun either

rhubarb

I used the word mutilation as it applied to male circumcision, I think that is the line I crossed and whatever else is said about the thread, that is the root of the hostility directed toward me.

Reflecting upon that word, I see that some experience it as an  assault upon their person and this has led me to change my views about using it as it applies to men and to women, in that sense, it was a worthwhile learning experience.

To say you have respect and then to attack with sarcasm and hostility, is not respect.  Respect would be a straightforward comment about what you find disturbing.  To demand to have the thread shut down, is not respect.  It is possible to simply not read a thread if you don't like what the discussion is, that would be respectful.

I didn't have an opinion, I had questions, my questions were not answered but truths were revealed. Smile

 

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rhubarb wrote:

To say you have respect and then to attack with sarcasm and hostility, is not respect.  Respect would be a straightforward comment about what you find disturbing. 

I use sarcasm and hostility toward ignorant, offensive and uninformed comments. I have zero respect for such comments. Just the opposite of the great respect I have for the views and information you put forward in the threads about Aboriginal medicine. It's about what you say. Not who you are.

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To demand to have the thread shut down, is not respect.  It is possible to simply not read a thread if you don't like what the discussion is, that would be respectful.

That's never going to happen. When I see memes of men's rights, anti-Semitism, and Islamophobia (whether you intended it or not - and I'm absolutely certain that you didn't intend that), I will read them, and then demand that they be stopped. I will never be "respectful" to such falsehoods.

 

lagatta

#84 flagged as a fairly obvious personal attack.

rhubarb, I'm not at all opposed to discussion of this topic - though it is one of those issues that tend to attract more heat than light - it was just that I have been involved in conferences where women were discussing the harm they and others experienced in FGM, and I thought the comparison belittled the horror of their experiences, including fistula. I never said I favoured circumcision; actually, I'd prefer that faith groups could find a way to replace it with a far more symbolic gesture (as many Jewish groups do with adult converts). But as with Indigenous nations, it can't simply be imposed from outside.

As with FGM, simply banning a practice is not enough to eradicate it. Feminists and public health activists in the countries where FGM is common have to work with women, and their communities, to bring about a change in mentalities. Often maternal and child health are a better argument than anything sexual. I think the same applies to cultural or religious circumcision. Here in Québec, non-religious/cultural circumcision has declined so much (except among Muslims and Jews, obviously) that it has really become the exception among newborn boys.

And I was serious about thinking "circumcism" was a term used by "inactivist" groups, because in perusing their literature, I've seen they are very fond of neologisms and portmanteau words. It wasn't a spelling flame (I'd simply have said, "psst, circumcision").

Slumberjack

lagatta wrote:
#84 flagged as a fairly obvious personal attack.

Not surprising.  You're well known for resorting to childishness like that.  The fact of the matter is that this topic started out as a conversation about male circumcision, not about FGM.  It is a distinct topic of its own.  If you don't like the subject, why don't you butt out and allow the discussion to move beyond whatever it was that you wanted to make it into.  But no, you want to turn it into something that it is not.  Whatever the follow on explanations and excuses for your unwelcomed intervention into this thread with the unrelated introduction of FGM, as if people were making light of it, the fact of the matter is that you initially sowed what this thread became.  You.  Must every topic of conversation require your stamp of approval before it is allowed to take shape?  If people want to talk about circumcision and describe it as mutilation, which it is, what business is it of yours?

Timebandit Timebandit's picture

SJ, you're accusing lagatta of being childish in a thread where another poster has removed all her comments because she was disagreed with? Can I lend you my irony meter for a mo, I think yours might be malfunctioning.

Slumberjack

To try and get the conversation back on track from being so rudely knocked off track with nonsensical accusations that some competition between various forms of mutilation has been going on here, mostly it's infants who are maimed by this practice.  The time is long overdue to make the practice illegal until the individual is old enough to decide for themselves.

Timebandit Timebandit's picture

And you'd get no argument from me on that account, SJ. However, I think the bar on childishness hit the floor when rhubarb started deleting posts, so no need to accuse lagatta of it.

Slumberjack

Timebandit wrote:
SJ, you're accusing lagatta of being childish in a thread where another poster has removed all her comments because she was disagreed with? Can I lend you my irony meter for a mo, I think yours might be malfunctioning.

Who made the accusation that the problem of FGM is being cast in a lesser light to the problem of male circumcision?  Who maintained this point of view?  Something that had not occurred, which was discussion and comparison to FGM, was said to have occured by lagatta.  I call it bullshit, and it was a needless attack by her.  The removal of comments I attribute to the second guessing of what is permissible to discuss under the divisive circumstances that were introduced to this thread by lagatta.

Slumberjack

Timebandit, please read lagatta's first and second posts in this thread, and try to determine the source of her complaints from what had been previously said in this thread up to the point of her 'intervention.'

Timebandit Timebandit's picture

And I call bullshit right back, SJ. Sineed and lagatta both made some strong points. I can't point to rhubarb's double-down responses because she's pulled a pouty-poo and removed 'em. But honestly, the claims and connotations warranted some response.

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