Except paladin, there has been no impediment to that conversation. No one told to shut up. No refusal to meet arguments. But if people are going to act like there has been, well I think it is fair to ask what is more important, our white feelings, or what happens to non white people, and women who don't have the option of up and leaving discrimination like we leave conversations we don't like. Too hard? Well maybe we should dispense with the imagined slights until they have actually occurred.
You are repeatedly ignoring arguments every time you talk about "our white feelings" or "slights." Nobody is talking about being slighted, dawg. You are exactly the problem we are talking about.