Are Inuit men sexual predators?

If I reminise about having sex when I was, lets say 16, is it the same as me thinking about two people who are presently 16 having sex.

If I think about two 40 year olds first encounter at the age of 16, is it the same as thinking about the first encounter of two people who are presently 16.

To put it a bit more bluntly - Is fantisizing about Alan Rickman or Patrick Swayzie having sex at 16 the same as fantasizing about Meades having sex at 16.

I know that the latter would be gross for a person my age, but what I am trying to find out is whether doing the former is OK or not or is categorized as doing the same thing.

For the record Meades, I have never had a fantasy about you, never plan to, and hope that you stay clear away from any adult who has. You are just the only one here that I could use to make the point blunt enough so that I could get a straight answer on it.

quote:To put it a bit more bluntly - Is fantisizing about Alan Rickman or Patrick Swayzie having sex at 16 the same as fantasizing about Meades having sex at 16.

Seems to me that putting your 16 year old "in the past" is just a little bit of jerrymandering to allow you to fantasize about 16 year olds and not feel like you're fantasizing about 16 year olds. That said, thought is always free, and there are plenty of worse things one could fantasize about.

(This, btw, is entirely different from remembering your own experiences at 16.)

What happened was that I started looking at that scene with Marg and Petunia and figured that it was Petunia that used magic rather than Harry so she was probably lying about not being a witch. Then I looked at Vernon being a real jerk and started figuring what would have had to go bad in her life to end up with that jerk. Then I decide that she attended Hogswart, dated Snape (Alan Rickman), dated Tom Riddle to make Snape jealous, things got dangerous and she escaped into the muggle world (violence against witches/wizards tended to be targeted and against muggles random). I started fantasing about Petunia and Snape getting back together as adults - nothing really bad just involving partial morphs and gillyweed that's all. And then I started thinking what kind of people they were and thinking that they would have had to have had a first time.

I used to fantasize about my first time a long afterwards but not really anyone elses. When I used to think of my first time, I didn't really focus on how old we were, but I knew how old we were.

Then I came here because I started figuring that I was getting in way over my head and might be crossing some kind of boundary, but I didn't know for sure. I do now.

The reason I started reading the fanflics was because I needed a break from the war and everything, which is why I haven't been around much.

Thanks for the patience. And thanks for the reality check.

[ 11 April 2003: Message edited by: vaudree ]

It's not silly. It is whether I went a bit too far and stepped over the line, which I think I did.

Just because this thread started at the other extreme where you are talking hard core pediphile who believe nothing is over the line.

The possiblilty that pediphilia is associated primarily with any particular group I think was refuted pretty early in that thread. End of what I have to say.

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