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Transracial adoption: China

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Sven
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quote:Originally posted by Makwa:
...ongoing cultural genocide of FN peoples.

Is it cultural genocide or racial genocide--or both?


ChicagoLoopDweller
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"Back to Canada"? "BACK"?!?! What, he left his toothbrush here last time?

And why? He needs to check out the new rides at Canada's Wonderland?"

BCG, this is your post in another thread in reference to the whole Wish thing on CBC...and yet you tell Jingles not to post unless he has something to contribute? Fascinating. How was this post a contribution?


Maysie
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Um, it wasn't. It was silly. Jingles was not. And if you care to read my latest post in that thread, I took responsibility for that comment.

Nice to know how well I'm being policed here, though.


Makwa
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quote:Originally posted by jeff house:
But it would have to be fact-based, not based on a racial ideology. We know where that leads.
I agree. The race based ideology of white supremacy led to the psychological destruction and outright murder of thousands of FN people in the residential schools system, and led to the abduction of thousands of children from their reservations and extended families during the 60's scoop, and the massive psychological, cultural and social damage which resulted.

Atavist
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Thanks for the spelling correction, perfesser. No racism was intended or implied. "Third world shithole" pretty much sums up the place where I was born, as well.

My point was that there are a lot of well-meaning organizations alleviating a lot of pain for a lot of people in this great big world. In some places that fit the description above, despotic and/or uncaribg governments young, orphaned children are often merely left to either starve, steal or sell themselves.

If an organization can alleviate this kind of misery, should they not? If they do, should they then be tarred with the same brush as evil black-market baby brokers?

[ 01 June 2007: Message edited by: Atavist ]


Makwa
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quote:Originally posted by Atavist:
If an organization can alleviate this kind of misery, should they not? If they do, should they then be tarred with the same brush as evil black-market baby brokers?
Perhaps they can be one and the same. Unintended consequenses.

Atavist
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quote:Originally posted by Makwa:
Perhaps they can be one and the same. Unintended consequenses.

You may be right, and I DO understand - consequences are consequences, whether unintended or not.

I find it more than a little weird that while I see a lot of white folks adopting "trans-racially" from South America, Asia and Africa, there don't seem to be so many adopting within race from war-torn spots in Eastern Europe/Western Asia...and I don't really understand WHY.


laine lowe
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quote:Originally posted by Atavist:

I find it more than a little weird that while I see a lot of white folks adopting "trans-racially" from South America, Asia and Africa, there don't seem to be so many adopting within race from war-torn spots in Eastern Europe/Western Asia...and I don't really understand WHY.

I was shocked to discover how fixated "big-hearted" western couples are on procuring healthy babies. Check out the buyer beware attitude on this site (and there are many more like it):

www.russianadoption.org


Atavist
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GAK!

mayakovsky
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"A similar fetishization is likely in place in some cases of transracial romance. But, despite the fact that some transracial romances involve this, I would not argue that there's something necessarily wrong with transracial romances."

Martha, is there a but to this? I am white man in a relationship with a black woman. Sometimes, I think about race in this situation, quite often I don't. Sometimes, often, people remind me.


Maysie
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mayakovsky, Martha, anyone else: You are welcome to continue the discussion of transracial romance and relationships in another thread.

[ 02 June 2007: Message edited by: bigcitygal ]


Martha (but not...
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quote:Originally posted by bigcitygal:
mayakovsky, Martha, anyone else: You are welcome to continue the discussion of transracial romance and relationships in another thread.

For what it's worth, I believe that the topics of transracial adoption and transracial romance are intimately related: they both raise questions of the meaning of "race", they both involve mixed families, they both challenge some people's notions that like belong with like, and so on.


Makwa
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quote:Originally posted by Martha (but not Stewart):For what it's worth, I believe that the topics of transracial adoption and transracial romance are intimately related
Bad analogy. Interracial relationships concern consenting adults, not powerless children. A better anology would be the phenomenon of so called 'mail order brides' from developing nations.

laine lowe
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quote:Originally posted by Makwa:
Bad analogy. Interracial relationships concern consenting adults, not powerless children. A better anology would be the phenomenon of so called 'mail order brides' from developing nations.

Yes. That is a far better analogy. Again poverty underscores that industry as well.

Here is an excerpt from an article that tackles some of these issues. Unfortunately, the complete article is for subscribers only.

quote:Discourses on globalization have largely been examined under the lens of political rather than affective economies. What would be at stake were we to try to render visible the emotional labor that often accompanies the importation of physical labor from the global South to the global North? I approach these questions through an analysis of transnational adoption. Often excluded from critical discussions of nannies, maids, sex workers, nurses, migrant laborers, and mail-order brides in the New Economy, the transnational adoptee nevertheless might be considered a symptomatic member of this gendered constellation. Unlike domestic caretakers, who are exploited for both their wage labor and their affective work, the transnational adoptee performs a different kind of labor...(con't)

Political Economics of Passion: Transnational Adoption and Global Woman


Gir Draxon
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quote:And the way white adoptive parents can put distance between themselves and communities of color.

You'd think that "white" people that don't like "coloured" people would have a few reservations about calling a "coloured" baby their own. Just a thought.

quote:Originally posted by Makwa:
Bad analogy. Interracial relationships concern consenting adults, not powerless children. A better anology would be the phenomenon of so called 'mail order brides' from developing nations.

And what happens in that adult relationship when one of those adults becomes pregnant? A "powerless child" is likely to follow.

I've always thought that the idea behind all this anti-racism and multiculturalism stuff is that people are people regardless of their ancestry, ethnic origin, skin colour, etc. If that's the kind of society we Canadians aspire to (I admit we're far from perfect), why in the hell is this even an issue?

Two adult human beings adopt a baby human being as their own. Where is the problem?


Maysie
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quote:You'd think that "white" people that don't like "coloured" people would have a few reservations about calling a "coloured" baby their own. Just a thought.

No. Many racist white people don't express their "hatred" or "dislike" of people of colour via distance (although, yes, many do. Thank the goddess of cats for small mercies). Exotification, ownership (which leads to or comes from a need to control), and feelings of superiority often motivate how parenting happens in these cases (also in inter-racial relationships, btw). ANd I'm leaving out the beyond idiotic "trendiness" as a motivator, although to be fair, given longish waiting periods, seems less likely in non-celebrities. But I'm open to being proven wrong on that one.

Oh, and there's a huge difference between "coloured people" and "people of colour".

quote:I've always thought that the idea behind all this anti-racism and multiculturalism stuff is that people are people regardless of their ancestry, ethnic origin, skin colour, etc.

That's great that you think that, however, this thinking will not change the fact that here in Canada POC are more likely to live in poverty, are more likely to be stopped/harassed/ beat up/injured/killed by the cops (particularly Black and FN people), more likely to not be represented in education's curriculum, at all levels, more likely to have crappy jobs, die younger, have poorer health, the list goes on. These differences are not due to an inherent inferiority of the communities of colour, they are due to systemic racism that pervades all of Canada, including the violent history (and present) of how Canada was "created" as a nation-state, and how that's maintained.

In this context, "Two adult human beings adopt a baby human as their own" does not exist, and cannot exist until structures of power and inequity are examined, and, ideally, dismantled/destroyed.

[ 03 June 2007: Message edited by: bigcitygal ]


Maysie
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laine lowe, thanks for that link and info about the article. I love David Eng and will try to get my hands on the full text of the article.

Gir Draxon
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quote:Originally posted by bigcitygal:

No. Many racist white people don't express their "hatred" or "dislike" of people of colour via distance (although, yes, many do. Thank the goddess of cats for small mercies). Exotification, ownership (which leads to or comes from a need to control), and feelings of superiority often motivate how parenting happens in these cases (also in inter-racial relationships, btw). ANd I'm leaving out the beyond idiotic "trendiness" as a motivator, although to be fair, given longish waiting periods, seems less likely in non-celebrities. But I'm open to being proven wrong on that one.

I remember one of the team outings we organized at my workplace last year. Some members brought along their significant others and children. Interracial relationships were the norm, and I don't believe any of them were established for reasons of novelty or some twisted sense of superiority. I can't know for sure, of course, but those relationships just seemed normal. I think that the normalcy of those people relating to each other regardless of race is something truly awesome.

quote:Originally posted by bigcitygal:

Oh, and there's a huge difference between "coloured people" and "people of colour".

Yeah, yeah. As a person of white I should know that. I would have picked up on that if I actually proofread my posts that closely. But I don't.

quote:Originally posted by bigcitygal:
That's great that you think that, however, this thinking will not change the fact that here in Canada POC are more likely to live in poverty, are more likely to be stopped/harassed/ beat up/injured/killed by the cops (particularly Black and FN people), more likely to not be represented in education's curriculum, at all levels, more likely to have crappy jobs, die younger, have poorer health, the list goes on. These differences are not due to an inherent inferiority of the communities of colour, they are due to systemic racism that pervades all of Canada, including the violent history (and present) of how Canada was "created" as a nation-state, and how that's maintained.

In this context, "Two adult human beings adopt a baby human as their own" does not exist, and cannot exist until structures of power and inequity are examined, and, ideally, dismantled/destroyed.

[ 03 June 2007: Message edited by: bigcitygal ]

You're right, we haven't reached perfection in the elimination of racism yet. I don't think we need to before we can look at a family where one spouse is black, one is white, and their child(ren) somewhere in between and not say or think anything unusual about it. And if we can do that, there are few other things in the way of two Canadians (of any colour) who want to adopt a baby from somewhere else.

Now I know there are a lot of other issues surrounding foreign adoption (or domestic interracial and intercultural adoption), but this thread has focused on the racial element and that is what I am addressing here.


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quote:Originally posted by Gir Draxon:

You're right, we haven't reached perfection in the elimination of racism yet. I don't think we need to before we can look at a family where one spouse is black, one is white, and their child(ren) somewhere in between and not say or think anything unusual about it.

I dont think we were saying anything negative about interacial couples, the focus here is on Tranracial adoption.


And if we can do that, there are few other things in the way of two Canadians (of any colour) who want to adopt a baby from somewhere else.

If you are white, you potentially have the luxury of not having to think about issues of race. Unfortunately for the rest of us, who are continually assulted by the racist society that we live in, we have to think of these things. If we choose to ignore the reality of the racism and white supremacy in this country, our children die ( physically, mentally and emotionally). Ignoring it does not make it go away.


quote:Originally posted by Gir Draxon:

Now I know there are a lot of other issues surrounding foreign adoption (or domestic interracial and intercultural adoption), but this thread has focused on the racial element and that is what I am addressing here.

Reminder .. This is an Anit-racism forum .. We are here to discuss issues of race and racism, from an anti-racism perspective. So please don't be surprised.


Sven
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quote:
Oh, and there's a huge difference between "coloured people" and "people of colour".

I've always that the phrase "people of color" was a bit tortured.

"Fast cars" become "cars of fast" or "elderly men" become "men of elderly". There's gotta be a better term. Besides, "white" is composed of all colors, no? [img]tongue.gif" border="0[/img]

The NAACP, I suppose, should change its name to NAAPC!!


Sven
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quote:
here in Canada POC are more likely to live in poverty, are more likely to be stopped/harassed/ beat up/injured/killed by the cops (particularly Black and FN people), more likely to not be represented in education's curriculum, at all levels, more likely to have crappy jobs, die younger, have poorer health, the list goes on.

Is this true for POCs of Asian ancestry? I'm not sure that the statistics support that.


Phonz
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quote:Originally posted by Sven:
I've always that the phrase "people of color" was a bit tortured.

Perhaps. But until a POC gives me a better term to use, I think that's the best we've got. "Coloured people" sounds like something Archie Bunker would say.


Sven
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quote:Originally posted by Phonz:
Perhaps. But until a POC gives me a better term to use, I think that's the best we've got.

I have no objection to the term, other than it just sounds a bit affected.


Phonz
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quote:Originally posted by Sven:
I have no objection to the term, other than it just sounds a bit affected.

I sort of agree with you and mostly it (my agreement) springs from listening to too many jackasses saying "xxx ... excuse me ... yyy ... excuse me ... zzz." Does the entire group have to be contained within one term? How about African-Canadian, Indo-Canadian, etc.?


Phonz
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As for transracial adoption, I think this woman has nailed it:

"The implication being that anything is better than growing up in Africa, even having Madonna as a mother. I was adopted from an orphanage in Eritrea at six ..."

www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/story/0,,1888996,00.html - 23k


Phonz
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A very poignant quote from the above article:

"It's arrogant to assume the only way to deal with poverty in the developing world is for westerners to adopt a few "lucky" children. Adoption can be a wonderful thing, but when it comes to inter-country adoption it's easy to confuse what the parents want (a nice shiny, new baby) with what's best for the child. Inter-country adoption might seem well-intentioned but when white people from rich countries adopt black children from poor countries it smacks of missionary-like behaviour."


kropotkin1951
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quote:Originally posted by Sven:

Is this true for POCs of Asian ancestry? I'm not sure that the statistics support that.

Georgia Straight Article


quote: Krishna Pendakur, an SFU assistant professor of economics, told the Georgia Straight that his studies have shown that if these two people go to work, the one with minority roots would likely earn less than the white worker.

But that is not all. If average incomes among different Canadian-born minority groups are compared, African-Canadians and those with South Asian origins earn less than those with lighter skins, namely Canadians of Chinese and Arab–West Asian ancestries.

“That correlation is there,” Pendakur said.

Pendakur pointed out that such a correlation is “actually even stronger” if you consider his findings that not even all white Canadians are equal. He noted that there are income disparities among the white population depending on their European ancestry. “All the southern European ethnic groups in Canada also have lower incomes,” he said, explaining that white Canadians of British and French origins earn more on average than Canadians who have Portuguese, Spanish, Italian, Greek, and Balkan roots.

Pendakur is a codirector of Metropolis B.C., a policy-research institute focusing on immigration and diversity issues.

...

In his slide presentation, Pendakur showed that—based on 2001 federal census figures—visible-minority male workers earned 14 percent less than white male workers across Canada, while their female counterparts had four percent less earnings than white female workers (with both studies controlled for age, education, family type, and city of residence).

African-Canadians fared the worst. Males and females in this category earned 16 percent and 12 percent less respectively. Canadian-born workers of South Asian descent were slightly better off, with earnings below 16 percent and six percent less for males and females, respectively, compared to white Canadians.

Pendakur’s presentation showed that Chinese- and Arab–West Asian-origin people earned about the same as white Canadian workers.


Gir Draxon
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quote:Originally posted by AfroHealer:
If you are white, you potentially have the luxury of not having to think about issues of race. Unfortunately for the rest of us, who are continually assulted by the racist society that we live in, we have to think of these things. If we choose to ignore the reality of the racism and white supremacy in this country, our children die ( physically, mentally and emotionally). Ignoring it does not make it go away.

No, ignoring racism where it exists does not make it go away. But I don't want to feed racial issues either, and that's why I disagree with making a huge fuss over racial aspect of international adoption.

quote:Originally posted by AfroHealer:

Reminder .. This is an Anit-racism forum .. We are here to discuss issues of race and racism, from an anti-racism perspective. So please don't be surprised.

What I meant was that there are social and cultural issues tied to international adoption that I didn't address because they apply regardless of race.


DrConway
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Ever since the phenomenon of celebrities rushing out and picking up children like Pokemon cards hit my radar screen I've given more thought than I previously did to international adoption, and I've got to say - the way celebrities seem to act is only the tip of the iceberg, IMO, as a glimpse into the way the adopting parents often just don't think about what they're doing to the communities they're taking children from.

It's one thing if a woman giving childbirth consents to an adoption, and is within the same social and cultural milieu as the adopting family (e.g. in the same city or town, or at least in the same geographic region). It's another altogether to transplant a child half-way across the globe into a society that still hasn't fully dealt with existing underlying racist and/or sexist structures (for example, in the USA or Canada, a minority child being raised by white parents gets all the privilege and all the crap, so it is probably a very confusing time growing up).

Frankly transnational adoption like this is a stupid idea and ought to be treated with a great deal more care and handling than it seems to currently get.


scooter
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quote:Originally posted by DrConway:
It's another altogether to transplant a child half-way across the globe into a society that still hasn't fully dealt with existing underlying racist and/or sexist structures..

Another excellant reason to keep the races pure. [img]rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]

[white|black|asian] power
[white|black|asian] power
...

I hear this sort of crap all the time because I'm involved in the trans-racial relationship.


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