Sex workers require better protection

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Babbling_Jenn

Libby Davies has presented a starter for what I think should be the real national debate concerning the Pickton trial [url=http://www.rabble.ca/politics.shtml?sh_itm=30737c89218e535da556f490484aa...

Instead of focusing on the brutal, gruesome details of what happened to these women, Canada should be looking at why it took so long for the police to act.

How undervalued are women in our society -- are poor in our society -- that 70 women went missing over 20 years and no one thought to investigate?

How many of these women would be alive today if police had cared to look for those who had disappeared?

What would we be hearing if society thought that the lives of addicts and sex workers were equal to those of teachers and lawyers?

oldgoat

That's a great arcticle. From what I've been hearing, everyones getting pretty caught up in the more grisly sensational aspects of this case, and talking about the accused.

Whoever committed these crimes is obvously a pretty pathological person, but the real crime is how these women went missing for so long, and how friends and relatives asked for help but were rebuffed. No one with power gave a damn until they were facing public embarrasment.

Sharon

I'd like to have this back on TAT because it is a valuable article and something we should be thinking about and discussing.

Boom Boom Boom Boom's picture

The G&M ran a poll Monday - which is closed now, I think - and the results were interesting:

For the safety of all concerned, should Canada legalize and regulate brothels?

Yes (65%) 27961 votes
No (35%) 14994 votes
Total votes: 42955

Nanuq

Except that legalized brothels don't eliminate the problem. Even in scenic Amsterdam with it's legalized red light districts and government sanctioned prostitutes, there's still a seamy underclass of unregistered prostitutes. All too many addicts aren't in a position to abide by all of the government regulations so they ply their trade in the off streets and run the same risks as prostitutes the world over. Not that you ever hear about them in the travel guides mind you.

Maysie Maysie's picture

I'm glad that the Picton trial is raising issues about safety and prostitution, but I'm concerned about the conflating of the issues of 1. Women who are devalued because they work in the sex trade. This includes not only prostitution but women who work as strippers, etc, in clubs. And 2. The issue of helping women who want to get out of prostitution to do so.

The reality that women who work as prostitutes are not valued is something that the women are, of course, painfully aware of. Davies' comment that current laws and "selective law enforcement" leads to women working the streets being more vulnerable is a fucking understatement.

I'm concerned when these two issues are conflated, as it adds to the mythology of women who are sex trade workers as only victims, and it further marginalizes such women as "those women". The rest of us are presumed to be respectable women, than? Until we too don't meet some patriarchal standard? Bullshit.

What infuriates me about this is that many more women were killed because of police inaction and of societal indifference.

And Nanuq, legalizing prostitution may not solve all the issues facing sex workers, but it sure as shit would solve a lot of them, saving lives in the meantime.

[ 24 January 2007: Message edited by: bigcitygal ]

remind remind's picture

Thanks Sharon, was looking fo this thread last night when making a response to Libby's comments.

What has been interesting to me, that Libby has been the ONLY politician to make a comment, so far. Carol James has not even made a comment.

This is the biggest crime in Canadian history and yet the Premier and the PM have said nothing, to the families, or about the women lost and what a travesty it was. The implications are far reaching and you can bet your boots if that many men were missing,and were presumed killed by 1 woman every politician in Ottawa and BC would've been fighting for the mic. The same could be said if he had been accused of murdering upper class white women.

I was struck dumb by what the Van Police spokesperson said, as shown by Global tonight, "when we finally realized we needed to police even those who were NOT taxpayers". *Paraphrazied a bit but not much. WTF? When they finally realized?

This clearly indicates what BCG was saying about sex trade workers as being devalued as people is fundamental to the problems of saftey and regard in society. Moreover, if to the police, it was because the missing women were NOT tax paying citizens, then perhaps we need to get it legalized ASAP.

But beyond that, where did the police get the idea that only tax payers should be afforded protection?

Libby asked for a inquiry 4 years ago now, nothing has happened, why?

remind remind's picture

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[ 24 January 2007: Message edited by: remind ]

Babbling_Jenn

Do we know when exactly police were alerted to the disappearances? I think there should be an inquiry on that immediately after this trial. And some sort of class action suit against the police for this amazing discrimination.

oldgoat

[url=http://www.missingpeople.net/mayor.htm]This goes back to April of 1999.[/url]

At that time, Mayor Phillip Owen, also chair of the Police Board, seemed to have changed his mind under some very public pressure from friends and families.

His previous position was summed up as follows:

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...Owen had given the impression he wasn't in favour of a substantial reward in the cases of the missing women. He had said there was no evidence of a serial killer at work and he wouldn't finance "a location service" for hookers.


This was after the Board had issued a $100,000 reward regarding a series of property offences in a more affluent area.

Palamedes

Even if there is a way around brothels, the majority will still prefer safe environments and prostitutes that are free of disease.

The benefits are tremendous - safer for all, contols the spread of disease - and generates taxes.

Yes, there will be unregulated women/girls who are either diseased/underage/don't follow the rules - but I think the majority would go to brothels if confidentiality could be assured.

At one time, people didn't believe that alcohol could be regulated - that the underground would exist - and you know, if you really wanted to - you could go out and buy some underground stuff a lot cheaper - but you don't see too many people doing it.

Maysie Maysie's picture

Palamedes, I'm a bit concerned with how you've framed some of this.

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Originally posted by Palamedes:
Even if there is a way around brothels, the majority will still prefer safe environments and prostitutes that are free of disease.

Just to be clear, I don't care about the service users, only the service providers. In the case of women working as prostitues with male customers, the women are the ones at risk. That's of course the whole point of this discussion, and why Pickton was allowed to continue his behaviour for what appears to be an extended period of time. This has never been about the customers.

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Yes, there will be unregulated women/girls who are either diseased/underage/don't follow the rules - but I think the majority would go to brothels if confidentiality could be assured.

Again, I'm seriously not giving a shit about customers, and most sex workers insist on safe sex, because it's their bodies after all, and the majority aren't stupid or "in it for the money and will engage in risky behaviour" as you seem to be implying. Calling the women "diseased" is a gigantic assumption (who do you imagine gave them such diseases? Their disease-ridden johns dontcha know.) Please eduate yourself. Starting with Maggies or CORPS (Coalition for the Rights of Prostitutes) are good places to start. I'll fill the links in later.

And, again, I don't give a damn about the confidentiality of the johns, nor is that the main reason that legalization is a good idea.

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At one time, people didn't believe that alcohol could be regulated - that the underground would exist - and you know, if you really wanted to - you could go out and buy some underground stuff a lot cheaper - but you don't see too many people doing it.

That's a good point. See I can be positive too!

Palamedes

Well, you may not care about the johns but reality says otherwise. They are the customers. If the johns do not go to the brothels- then the women will go back on the street.

There has to be reasons why these 'customers' would want to frequent a brothel as opposed to get someone off the street.

And the perception that those in brothels are diseased free vs 'take your chances' on the street is one good reason. Brothels beinglegalized vs. strict enforcement on the street is another good reason.

You can not control the prostitues completely. Underage women, women who don't meet the standards set by the brothel etc - will always turn to the street. However, if you can control the customers - then you remove the opportunity for women to sell themselves on the street.

Tommy_Paine

There are things that could go a long way to help, like legalizing brothels, for one.

But, it's no panacea, as pointed out.

The panacea is to create a society that doesn't celebrate the exploitation of the powerless by the powerful, and revel in the availability of disposable people.

But since we're a few years away from accomplishing this, creating safe work places for all women should help.

sephardic-male

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Originally posted by bigcitygal:
[b]I'm glad that the Picton trial is raising issues about safety and prostitution, but I'm concerned about the conflating of the issues of 1. Women who are devalued because they work in the sex trade. This includes not only prostitution but women who work as strippers, etc, in clubs. And 2. The issue of helping women who want to get out of prostitution to do so.

The reality that women who work as prostitutes are not valued is something that the women are, of course, painfully aware of. Davies' comment that current laws and "selective law enforcement" leads to women working the streets being more vulnerable is a fucking understatement.

I'm concerned when these two issues are conflated, as it adds to the mythology of women who are sex trade workers as only victims, and it further marginalizes such women as "those women". The rest of us are presumed to be respectable women, than? Until we too don't meet some patriarchal standard? Bullshit.

What infuriates me about this is that many more women were killed because of police inaction and of societal indifference.

And Nanuq, legalizing prostitution may not solve all the issues facing sex workers, but it sure as shit would solve a lot of them, saving lives in the meantime.

[ 24 January 2007: Message edited by: bigcitygal ][/b]


prostitution is already legal in Canada. soliciting in publicand procuring are illegal

trippie

so when the police implied that these woman were not tax payers did that mean that they never bought anything?

Taht they never paid GST?

SubHuman

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Originally posted by bigcitygal:
[b]...Maggies or CORPS (Coalition for the Rights of Prostitutes) are good places to start. I'll fill the links in later...[/b]

Not much on the [url=http://www.maggiestoronto.ca/]maggiestoronto.ca[/url] website at present. I think Stella ([url=http://www.chezstella.org/stella/?q=en/medias]ChezStella.org[/url]) is a similar organization based in Montreal.

The vast majority of the sex trade in Canada operates behind closed doors, not on the street. Criminal Code sections regarding common bawdy-houses and living on the avails of prostitution make most of the business officially illegal, yet it is largely ignored by the authorities, who are paradoxically unwilling to consider reforming the outdated laws they rarely enforce. See "[url=http://missingpeople.net/how_cities_'license'_off-street_hookers-june_16,_2002.htm]How cities 'license' off-street hookers[/url]" by Dan Gardner of The Ottawa Citizen.

The result is thousands of sex workers who are not protected by the same laws and regulations as other workers in more officially legal occupations.

[url=http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/1/story.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=3509357]New Zealand[/url] and [url=http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/1723583.stm]much of Australia[/url] have already reformed their similarly outdated laws and decriminalized brothels, providing relevant examples for Canada to follow.

SubHuman

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Originally posted by Babbling_Jenn:
[b]...should be looking at why it took so long for the police to act.
...70 women went missing over 20 years and no one thought to investigate?..[/b]

This recent [url=http://www.ctv.ca/servlet/ArticleNews/story/CTVNews/20070324/sex_workers... story[/url] mentions that 7 years ago a not-for-profit facility, which included a room sex workers could use (for a fee), was opened by activist Jamie Lee Hamilton. A [url=http://24.85.225.7/PACE2/docs/pdf/House_Rules_Vancouver_Magazine-April_2... Vancouver magazine story[/url] went into more detail.

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Amid prostitutes' belief that a serial killer was stalking the Downtown Eastside, in 1999 Hamilton opened Pandora's Box, a storefront at the edge of the "Low Track" prostitute stroll. The place was a registered charity, advertising "safe room rentals" -- from zero to $15 a day, no questions asked.
Within a few months... She was arrested.

Yet the article points out other well-known brothels in Vancouver have been operating for years. Susan Davis named some of them when [url=http://cmte.parl.gc.ca/cmte/CommitteePublication.aspx?COM=0&SourceId=127... spoke to the parliamentary subcommittee[/url]. In the magazine article, the VPD vice squad guy weakly defends this highly questionable selective law enforcement by claiming the tolerated brothels earn so much money that they could easily afford to pay any fines.

Could the situation involve something more directly dishonest than apathy, incompetence, and negligence? In addition to causing more harm than good, the outdated laws can support a corrupt system, as was found in more than one part of Australia before their laws were reformed.
[url=http://www.news.com.au/couriermail/extras/oq/book10lewis.html]link[/url]

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The inquiry and (police commissioner) Lewis's subsequent trial showed he had been deeply involved in protection of illegal brothels and had taken more than $600,000...

[url=http://www.geocities.com/gregskables/archive/2002a.html]link[/url]

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The first thing that happened when you were at the Vice Squad, was you were taken round to collect what he called 'taxes' and 'fees' from working girls and brothels.

Makwa Makwa's picture

I think much of this discussion is ignoring or not considering a strong motivator of many marginalizaed street-involved people, including sex trade workers, which is proscribed substance dependency. Until the society regognizes the needs of the substance dependent, and makes honest steps to assist using harm reduction models, secure residential housing, safe spaces for users and eventual legalization, people will be forced into marginalized positions where they can be victimized.

Tommy_Paine

...and behind the substance abuse is likely some kind of physical and or emotional abuse.

Where are the abusers and the indifferent leadership getting their cues from that this is okay to shrug off?

I think they get it from us, ultimately.

This is no longer theoretical for me. I have become involved with someone struggling with substance abuse issues, psychological issues, and yes there were periodic episodes of sex trade work, and a childhood history of sexual abuse.

It's easy to be articulate about this when it's theoretical. I'm not sure I should be trying to articulate now. When I really give this some thought, my emotions get on this strange knife edge where I'm simultaneously engraged and on the verge of helpless tears. I think it's a dangerous way to feel.

Theoretically, I can think of this law or that law to enact or repeal, but things are not going to change that way. Ever. Despite a number of good and decent people like Libby Davies, our government is by and large there to perpetuate the exploitation of the weak by the strong.

You know what? Maybe when I have my thoughts together, maybe when I've learned a bit more, I can add something coherent.

I'm going to leave this for now.

Michelle

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Originally posted by Makwa:
[b]I think much of this discussion is ignoring or not considering a strong motivator of many marginalizaed street-involved people, including sex trade workers, which is proscribed substance dependency. Until the society regognizes the needs of the substance dependent, and makes honest steps to assist using harm reduction models, secure residential housing, safe spaces for users and eventual legalization, people will be forced into marginalized positions where they can be victimized.[/b]

Worth repeating.

This also pisses me off:

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Yet the article points out other well-known brothels in Vancouver have been operating for years. Susan Davis named some of them when she spoke to the parliamentary subcommittee. In the magazine article, the VPD vice squad guy weakly defends this highly questionable selective law enforcement by claiming the tolerated brothels earn so much money that they could easily afford to pay any fines.

Well, he's probably right. So, perhaps there's SOMETHING WRONG WITH THE SYSTEM, huh? The pimps and madams getting rich on prostitutes' backs can afford the fines, but marginalized or poor women working alone get victimized by the system. Gee, what could be wrong with these laws?

Tommy, I think it's more dangerous to not feel anything than to feel too much.

Tommy_Paine

I think I have gotten a grip.

I have been rightfully accused here, from time to time, of the awful sin of reductionism-- like it was a bad thing. But let me reduce this subject matter, and then, hopefully at the end I will tie it into Picton.

But where to start?

It is viewed, I think, that there isn't enough support for those who have spiralled down due to trauma, mental illness or substance abuse.

But, that's not true.

There's a whole powerful infrastructure that supports these people-- but it's to support their decent into invisibility.

Every town of any size has it's "cracktown". You might pass through during business hours, and you get that feel that you are in a "bad" part of town. What are your cues? Street walkers? Guys selling crack or meth like the newsboys of old, crying out "Crack here! get your crack!".

Of course not.

You can tell by the sudden preponderance of Pay Day Loan places and Pawn Shops.

Before a kid sells him or herself on the street, they make a stop at those places. They'll support the downward skid, 'cause there's money to be made by loaning money at a billion percent interest, and there is money to be made on junk stolen from you and I.

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I remember when massage parlours started opening in London, back when Dianne Hasket was mayor, and Meagan Walker was a councillor. What strange political bedfellows they were, tripping over each other to protect the women who worked there. Although both insisted it wasn't about controlling sex, it was an astonishing leap into the Provincial juristiction of health and safety-- that never extended to women workers in non sexual work. Another consideration was the "associated crime" that comes with massage parlours.

But what about the associated crime that is ?supported by pawn shops and pay day loan places?

The Haskets of the world worship the God of Mammon. And the Walkers want to be the alpha female who decides what women get to have sex and how.

And these are the best of the bunch when it comes to help for these people.

Of course, there comes a time when the usurers at the pay day loan places have been tapped out, and the pawn shops have to be carefull about the stuff you bring them.

So, it's time to sell yourself. Now there's a movement afoot to try to stop this by arresting the johns. But it's not really a big threat. The problem here is that we live in a society that really doesn't think too badly about someone that would exploit someone addicted to drugs for sex. In my book it's rape-- consent being rather foggy in this circumstance. We call them johns when coward and rapist is a more fitting title.

But you and I, we keep our mouths shut, don't we?

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Did you know that London's detox is right in the same building as community outreach programs? The Salvation Army on Wellington road. That's right, mix the users with those on the first step to taking charge of themselves again.

Why not just put a rock in the bedside table of those in detox? It will shorten the turn over and make a positive effect on the cash flow.

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I was at London's psych hospital last night, visiting a friend. London, you may know, has a brand new World Class hospital complex at Wellington and Commissioners. So big and so new, the top administrator earns nearly 700,000 a year.

But, that's not where my friend is. My friend is at the "old Vic" on South street. An old, dreary building that was deemed obsolete.

Except for psychiatric patients, who are not slated to move over to the New Vic untill someime in 2010. Maybe.

See, by the time people end up in psychiatric care , they have usually hit rock bottom. So, there's no additional private medical insurance for them, just OHIP.

Crazy people just aren't profitable, I guess.

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So all these parts, as I like to say, paint a picture. And it's a picture of systematic exploitation for profit of ill people. And, I haven't even mentioned the new wave of socially acceptable drug dealing-- percs and oxycontin, and the methadone clinic.

You may think that Picton is the face of evil in all this. But I don't. I think the face of evil wears a nice business suit. It talks the lingo of helping, it went to university to study medicine, it's the grandmother who processes loans at usurous rates on disability cheques.

Picton? A neophyte when it comes to evil.

Amelia Mori

Originally Posted by Makwa: I think much of this discussion is ignoring or not considering a strong motivator of many marginalizaed street-involved people, including sex trade workers, which is proscribed substance dependency. Until the society regognizes the needs of the substance dependent, and makes honest steps to assist using harm reduction models, secure residential housing, safe spaces for users and eventual legalization, people will be forced into marginalized positions where they can be victimized.

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I agree with Makwa that substance dependency is a strong motivator for sex trade workers and that many of the steps, such as secure residential housing would be positive, choice-giving steps. However, I do not agree that the eventual legalization of prostitution is an honest step, nor do I believe that it will protect sex trade workers from victimization.

Aligned with Makwa, there are many reasons why women enter the sex trade, usually desperation and lack of options being the main motivators. Prostitution is pleasure seeking of men regardless if it is exploitative and violates a women's bodily integrity. The legalization of this act would only support the victimization of women systemic within prostitution. It would also create less options for women, not more. Then, men and the government could expand the subordination of women legally: a huge financial fantasy for them. Women who have turned to prostitution out of desperation could be told that it is a legitimate business and why would they want to turn their backs on a good paying job? (As an aside: I'm frightened to think of the implications this would have for women who apply for welfare.)

In today's society Rousseau's theory that laws reflect essentially moral and unchangeable laws of nature or Nietzche's ideas that laws should give the will to power are not entirely in effect, but one cannot deny that to the average person in society the law provides boundaries and carries strong moral implications. What are we telling ourselves if we legalize prostitution. That the buying of one human for the pleasure of another is equal, fair or just? That legalizing this exploitation is empowering to the women?

The sex trade workers do need better protection. No one can argue with that. The intertia of the police with the missing Vancouver women has sent a message to all of us. I worry that it is saying that these women are easy prey. I also fear that the following solution proposal of legalization not only says that women are easy prey, but that it is a man's right to prey on them. These are ideas that are not just, fair, equal or empowering to anyone.

If we legalize prostitution and use the Pickton case as an example of why they need protection, the irony has to make you laugh. We are using the death of these women to stoke the fire so more women can be consumed?? I don't get it...

Catchfire Catchfire's picture

That's a great first post, Amelia. Welcome to babble!

You make some great points, but I would be careful about conflating the law with morality. If anything, the law tends to flatten complicated moral questions. If someone finds a law questionable, they can often evade it by stating: "well, it's against the law." What we should understand when discussing the law is that it is a powerful fiction, not a code of ethics or regulations. There is no greater act of imagination than the declarative statement: "Thou shall not steal."

I find the question of legalizing prostitution far too difficult and I do not have enough facts at my disposal to make a decision. I prefer to leave it to feminists and sex-work experts. But a law legalizing prostitution by no means endorses it (does legalizing pornography endorse [i]Hustler[/i]?) While your concerns are apt and probing, I think that prostitution's relationship with the law, especially in the context of legalization, would invite a great deal more nuance than simply engendering sex work as a "good paying job."

SubHuman

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Originally posted by Amelia Mori:
[b]...I'm frightened to think of the implications this would have for women who apply for welfare...[/b]

If you're referring to the ridiculous story from a couple of years ago regarding a German woman supposedly being denied benefits for refusing to work in a brothel, it simply was not true. See the [url=http://www.snopes.com/media/notnews/brothel.asp]explanation of this urban legend on snopes.com[/url].

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Originally posted by Catchfire:
[b]...I do not have enough facts at my disposal to make a decision. I prefer to leave it to feminists and sex-work experts...[/b]

The 'experts' everyone seems intent on ignoring are the actual sex workers. They are the ones [url=http://www.chezstella.org/stella/?q=en/medias]demanding decriminalization[/url] and organizing the [url=http://spoc.ca/]court challenge[/url] to the laws. Or see the posts by former sex worker "tarot" in [url=http://www.rabble.ca/babble/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=24&t=000850]this babble thread[/url]. The prohibitionists absurdly oppose those they claim to be protecting. Some may laugh or cringe at the suggestion that this is an issue of labour rights, but that's exactly what it is to thousands of sex workers in Canada who work independently, or are employed by "massage parlours" or "escort agencies".

Michelle

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Originally posted by SubHuman:
[b]The 'experts' everyone seems intent on ignoring are the actual sex workers. They are the ones [url=http://www.chezstella.org/stella/?q=en/medias]demanding decriminalization[/url] and organizing the [url=http://spoc.ca/]court challenge[/url] to the laws. Or see the posts by former sex worker "tarot" in [url=http://www.rabble.ca/babble/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=24&t=000850]this babble thread[/url].[/b]

Exactly! Thanks for this.

Also, re: the argument that if prostitution is legalized, women will be forced to take jobs as prostitutes because when they apply for welfare, their caseworkers will point to job vacancies in the prostitution market and ask why they aren't doing them...

Well, right now there are all sorts of sex industry jobs that ARE legal. Like phone sex, stripping, acting in porn films (I've never understood why it's legal to solicit someone to fuck in front of a camera for pay, but not legal to solicit someone to fuck in a hotel room for pay), etc. Have there been a rash of cases where social workers have been telling their clients, "I'm sorry, but I'm cutting you off welfare because there are constantly ads in NOW Magazine for phone sex operators but you're not applying for them"? Don't think so.

[ 08 May 2007: Message edited by: Michelle ]

Maysie Maysie's picture

Hi Subhuman. I agree with your post. I haven't responded recently as I feel I would just be repeating myself from my posts way upthread.

Sex work is work, and is inherently a labour issue. Thanks for making that point.

remind remind's picture

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Originally posted by Tommy_Paine:
[b]So all these parts, as I like to say, paint a picture. And it's a picture of systematic exploitation for profit of ill people.[/b]

Well, this situation goes beyond sex workers, and though I had a lengthy response, I decided not to deflect away, even a little.

There are 2 separate issues occuring here. The one of drug dependancy, that leads one to chose work actions that one would otherwise not choose, in another circumstance. And actual sex workers, that fully practise their trade, based upon personal choices and goals.

Truly, the 2 must be separated, when building a system that will better protect sex trade workers. But yet the first step for both is making prostitution formally legal, and then registering it as a trade with Industry Canada, and thereby bringing it under all labour standards, government rules.

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[b]And, I haven't even mentioned the new wave of socially acceptable drug dealing-- percs and oxycontin, and the methadone clinic.[/b]

Though appreciating everything you have said, it really should be discussed in its own thread. It is worthy of its own discussion. But this thread really is about sex trade workers, not systemic issues that cross all lines and fields of endeavor.

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[b]You may think that Picton is the face of evil in all this. But I don't. I think the face of evil wears a nice business suit. It talks the lingo of helping, it went to university to study medicine, it's the grandmother who processes loans at usurous rates on disability cheques.[/b]

It is too reduced actually, and because of this, you are painting with way too broad of a brush.

Mini Cooper

I'll admit to using the services of a prostitute, but it wasn't in Canada. It was not very pleasureable, and in fact I wish I had just kept the $20 and jacked off into a kleenex, but lesson learned. Sex is not worth doing if you have to pay money for it. That is all.

Scott Piatkowski Scott Piatkowski's picture

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Originally posted by Mini Cooper:
[b]I'll admit to using the services of a prostitute, but it wasn't in Canada. It was not very pleasureable, and in fact I wish I had just kept the $20 and jacked off into a kleenex, but lesson learned. Sex is not worth doing if you have to pay money for it. That is all.[/b]

So, you're a "Girl" born in 1990 and you've travelled out of the country to use the services of a prostitute?

Mini Cooper

Uh, no.....I have a penis. Do you?

N.Beltov N.Beltov's picture

Gaw-lee. That was a quick edit for a newcomer.

Erik Redburn

"Uh, no.....I have a penis. Do you?"

But if you had real balls you might find better ways to waste others time. Bugger off creep.

[ 08 May 2007: Message edited by: EriKtheHalfaRed ]

Mini Cooper

Please explain how I am wasting your time. No one is forcing you to read my posts. And yet you do. Almost as if you can't resist them...

Erik Redburn

If someone tells you to bug off twice you take that as a sign of mutual interest? There's a grownup discussion here that requres a certain adult sensitivity. On the off-chance that you really are under the age of fourteen and doing this as a dumb prank, I'll just go straight to the mods after all. Someone's got to do it I guess.

Mini Cooper

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Originally posted by EriKtheHalfaRed:
[b]If someone tells you to bug off twice you take that as a sign of mutual interest? There's a grownup discussion here that requres a certain adult sensitivity. On the off-chance that you really are under the age of fourteen and doing this as a dumb prank, I'll just go straight to the mods after all. Someone's got to do it I guess.[/b]

Gonna tell on me, huh? Real manly! Bet you were a real teacher's suckhole in school, huh?

Catchfire Catchfire's picture

Boy, I hope you're having fun, mack.

Mini Cooper

This is fucking the funniest thing EVER!!! We're just laffing our ASSES off at you fuckers thinking all serious and shit LOL You fuckers on this lame ass board suck ass hair LOL We're all gonna get accounts here under different IPs and really have some fun!!! Wankers!!! LOL LOL LOL

Erik Redburn

You and your imaginary friends again? Mods alerted now, time to get back to reality again.

Tommy_Paine

Remind,

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But yet the first step for both is making prostitution formally legal, and then registering it as a trade with Industry Canada, and thereby bringing it under all labour standards, government rules.

Which shows we are in agreement, if we reference my post from Jan. 25.

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Though appreciating everything you have said, it really should be discussed in its own thread. It is worthy of its own discussion. But this thread really is about sex trade workers, not systemic issues that cross all lines and fields of endeavor.

I would agree, except that I don't think you can separate this issue, or addiction issues from prostitution.


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It is too reduced actually, and because of this, you are painting with way too broad of a brush.

Well, on this we will disagree. We excuse too much for the pursuit of mammon. We have collectively bought into a big lie.

remind remind's picture

It would seem that some are seriously intimidated by babble, or at the very least, very upset with types/topics of discussion happening.

Oh wait, But then of course we have that new poll showing CPC dropping below the Liberals, so this is most likely the norm, that we used to experience, before the CPC got their bare minority, and would fluctate badly in the polls.

As really, why would this thread topic upset "them" so much, or were they trying to gain attention fast?

Tommy_Paine

Or, as is likely the case, a random drive-by by a frootloop.

Not worth the notice.

oldgoat

Mini cooper and his mini mind are gone.

Hey Michelle, looks like I got home first! [img]tongue.gif" border="0[/img]

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Michelle

Yeah, we went out out and had a few drinks. Too bad. I'll bet I could've come up with a great one-liner after a couple of Strongbows. Oh well!