What is stalking on the internet?

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N.Beltov N.Beltov's picture
What is stalking on the internet?

 

N.Beltov N.Beltov's picture

I'm wondering if I've been victimized in this way. How do I know?

Maysie Maysie's picture

My glib answer is if it's happened to you, you know it. It's unpleasant and works like IRL harassment.

For the not-so-glib answer I need to ask a whole bunch of questions:

For where you are anonymous:
*Do you use the same "handle" wherever you go, including chat rooms, discussion boards, blog comments, anywhere else like that, so that you are identifiable?
*Have you found someone deliberately speaking to you/addressing you, whether positively or negatively, in ways that you find unwelcome?
* Do they persist (either in the moment or over time) when you ask them to stop?

For when you are not anonymous:
* Is this someone you know IRL who knows your email address, etc?
* Is their attention, positive or negative, unwelcome for you?
* Have you tried to block this person and they keep trying to find ways to contact you through email/Facebook/Myspace/etc?
* Do they persist when you ask them to stop?

* Is this someone you don't know IRL, but who somehow knows you?
* Do they look for you on listserves, etc. and comment when you post to them, etc?
* Do they persist when you ask them to stop?

This is as thorough as I can be to answer your question, and of course I don't expect a response to the questions, think of them like a checklist. If you need other resources let me know and I'll post them.

Maysie Maysie's picture

N. Beltov, a meta-question: is this about rabble/babble? If not I think it should be moved to babblers helping babblers.

N.Beltov N.Beltov's picture

Thanks. "babblers helping babblers" is fine and might, in any case, be useful for others.

Maysie Maysie's picture

Okay, moving it.

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