In this post (#98), you are the one obfuscating by presenting the porn industry as "the media available" and disguising its dynamics by calling it "humans expressing their sexuality".
B.-S.
What is in fact happening is that a specific vision of women as objects, esp. racialized women - a vision that "remind" has summarized admirably - and the same goes for men and children in other genres, is constructed by the industry, based on women's and racialized groups' long-standing political oppression, and foisted on us as "sexuality".
That a diverse sexuality often becomes pigeon-holed by that is a consequence, not an explanation of what the industry puts out.