Babble Finished?

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It's Me D
Babble Finished?

In the last week or so about half the active threads on Babble seem to have been created for the purpose of spinning off personal feuds into endlessly long and generally uninformative arguments. I've tried to navigate around these threads and find some interesting conversation however its getting scarcer around here.

I've only been actively posting on Babble for about a year and I don't start a lot of threads but I think this is a great board and a place where some unique discussions take place; I haven't been able to find an adequate substitute on the web.

I started this thread because I've become concerned that Babble is finished, that is, as an enlightening forum for discussion of issues. I'm sure this is an overreaction to the recent drama here-about but I wasn't here to see the last time the board got this out of hand.

Anyway, maybe I'm the only one who's considered tonning-down, if not altogether cutting-out, my participation here as a result. If so, this thread will surely be lost amongst a deluge of personal rants in no time.

Scout

Nope it's just a cycle. These whiners are amateurs. Back in the day we could really feud. People get a lot of rope to be asshats around here these days even when it's clear they don't want to learn, or debate just want their entitled opinions endorsed.

 We aren't allowed to  "plonk" anymore. Cry

oldgoat

Actually, these things are cyclical.  We do seem to go through periods of people compulsively picking at eachothers scabs, and it's a bit uncomfortable for everyone, not to mention draining.

 

We shall survive though, D.  I see you've only been here a year, so you've only seen the kind, soft edged, sepia tone Scout, she of the gentle smile and lace crinoline.  Why back in the day...

 

Yeah, plonking, I'd forgotten about that.  It's useful, but people kept "unplonking"

Green Grouch

I'll newbie-bite: what's "plonk" when hit's at 'ome?

N.Beltov N.Beltov's picture

It's an informal shunning that often preceded a banning. A kind of self-moderation by babblers if you like, the purpose of which was to save babblers the annoyance of getting entangled with a troll-like creature.

oldgoat

Hi Green Grouch, and welcome to the circus. 

Way back when, when someone wanted to indicate to another that they were going to ignore them, they would just say *plonk*.  It meant I'm not even going to read your posts any more. 

 

Actually doing that sure works for me, but it never lasted.  They'd be unplonking and scrapping away in no time.  I think that's why the mod of the day told people to stop plonking, as it was just provocative.

It's Me D

I appreciate the responses everyone. Yesterday I was frustrated by the toxic environment on Babble lately but reading the comments here and particularly oldgoat's comment here and excellent comments in some of the most toxic threads I've decided to stick it out. I'm sure things will improve around here! Given enough time.

jacki-mo

I have lurked here for years and recently "joined". I have no explicit evidence by I do feel that there is much less tolerance than in the earlier years. I have seen mods specifically stste that they will not tolerat criticism of Mulslims or Islam, and yet will tolerate just about anything thrown at Christians or Christianity. The same goes for posting by males in the Fem Forum. I expect fellow progressives to be very inclusive of differing opinions and of diversity. What I see here is intolerance, by posters and mods alike. I wonder if this is a pervasive problem in the Left and that is why the NDP will hardly get more than 15%.

I urge everyone to try to look at other's' opinions before dumping on them. There is never a reason on this excellent board to tell a fellow progressive to fuck off. Yet it happens.  Why cant we all work together better? And mods, take it easier please.

It's Me D

jacki-mo: I actually feel the opposite way, regarding broadening acceptable discussion to include right-wing perspectives. I find there is plenty of Islam-bashing and feminist-bashing on the internet already, and I am glad the mods make an effort to restrict that sort of thing here. I just wish they could be quicker to ban some borderline trolls, but thats asking a lot and I think they make a real effort to give posters the benefit of the doubt. The mods have a hard job to do, I think they do it quite well.

What concerned me when I started this thread (and still does) is the rising tendency among long-term babblers to dominate the board with personal fueds. I don't come to babble for soap-opera style drama, and lately there has been more of this than intelligent discussion. However I've been convinced that people are working it out of their systems and that this problem is cyclical and will eventually pass.

Caissa

Groups go through stages of forming, storming, norming and performing. Since the group at babble constantly changes the ethos of Babble can be at different stages and not experience them in a linear fashion.

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I have seen mods specifically stste that they will not tolerat criticism of Mulslims or Islam, and yet will tolerate just about anything thrown at Christians or Christianity.

Can you back that statement up with some evidence?

Tommy_Paine

"Can you back that statement up with some evidence?"

(chuckles)

Yeah, it's cyclical.  Once it even resulted in the great babble schism.

And I remember back to the wild west days, the early days, the all or nothing days.

Boy, they were fun.  Even Michelle and I used to get into it, though never in too nasty a way.  Which was saying something, considering how artfully nasty I could be back then.

I'm not sure why, I just don't get as testy as I used to.  Maybe it's a been there, done that kind of thing.  Or maybe I'm more growed up.  I think taking a babble hiatus from time to time helps.

As for the bitter arguments between usual combatants,  the "Bear Joke" might prove instructive.  It's long.  Please, um,  bear with me.

One day, a hunter was on top of a ridge, and across the valley, on the other ridge, he spots the biggest bear he's ever seen.  So, he levels his rifle, accounts for windage, puts the cross hairs of the scope right on the bear's heart, and shoots.

He races across the valley, runs up the other ridge to where he's sure he saw the gargantuan bear drop,  only to find empty ground.  Mystified, the hunter is looking for a blood trail, only to feel a heavy paw on his shoulder.  Turning around, he finds himself face to face with the bear, who says, (as bears do in jokes)  "Who are you to come into my home, and shoot at me?" To which the hunter could only manage an inarticulate stammer.  "I think," said the bear,  "I need to teach you a lesson." Where upon the bear committed an offence against the hunter, an offence the nature of wich the hunter could share with not a soul, but nurtured it's burning shame and humiliation until the next hunting season.

The next year,  the vengence filled hunter returned with a machine gun, and proceeded to hunt the bear.  And, he found the bear in a clearing, munching on raspberries.  He emptied an entire magazine into the bear, then another. And another.  Crying and laughing with joy, the hunter waited for the smoke to clear.... only to see empty ground where the bear once was.

And sure enough, he felt the heavy paw of the bear on his shoulder.  And sure enough, the indignity of the previous year was once again visited upon the hapless hunter.

And, all the long months until the next hunting season, the now crazed hunter hatched the ultimate plot.

He returned to the bear's favorite place, hollowed out a stump, and filled it with dynamite.  C4 is more effective, but dynamite is funnier.  Then he put a bushel of raspberries on the stump, and waited for the bear.

Which appeared, and while the bear was wolfing, or perhaps bearing down on the meal, the hunter pushed the plunger, vapourizing the stump, a good bit of the ridge and the bear.

Or so it seemed.  Upon inspecting the blast zone for little bear bits, the hunter felt the big heavy paw of the bear on his shoulder yet again.  But this time, the bear had a wierd look on his face and said to the hunter:

"You don't come here for the huntin' do ya boy?" 

 

 

jacki-mo

As I said I cannot recall specific threads due to pre-mature memory loss.

D: I am not advocating allowing Muslim bashing. I am advocating consistency: don't allow Christian bashing either.  Also, I do feel that right wing opinions should be allowed and debated. The Left and Right can learn from each other. If we can show defects in right-wing arguments we may educate some. What is the value in preaching to the choir?

In short I would like to see a more Anarchistic approach to debating.

Tommy_Paine

 

I think a place like babble is needed.  But, a different message board where left and right can meet to debate would be a great thing.

It's Me D

Yes Tommy, I agree; and thanks for the bear story Smile

There are other boards for cross-spectrum political debates. As for anarchistic moderation there are also discussion boards where the only content removed by the moderators is illegal content (like child porn), other than illegal content anything goes. Babble provides another kind of discussion board, one that is in my estimation unique.

remind remind's picture

Tommy, it is not as if there are not any, as there is, such as Maple leaf forums, 50Plus, and any assorted CBC G&M, and other media response boards.

Also, the left has been showing right wing defects in thinking for 9 years now, and how is that working?

 

jacki-mo

Remind:  True what you say about right wing defects. But who have the left been showing them to? Maybe not the right people or maybe not in the right way? I dunno.

It's Me D

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I like Michelle's suggestion of benighn neglect.

I was intrigued reading that too, along with the posts from senior babblers (not in actual age but in online presence) regarding the changes here over the years (and things like plonking). Afterall what Michelle appeared to suggest, the community taking responsibility for enforcing its own norms, is what I'd prefer in a real world setting; I'm not one for reliance on the authorities, and that shouldn't change just because Babble's authorities are a lot more respectable and personable than most...

martin dufresne

Anyone who wants to "debate" the right doesn't have very far to look IMO... Why eschew a space where ideas and testimony can go further just to accommodate the opposition...

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I agree martin.

Michelle

I am interested in the discussion we're having, and as moderators we're obviously trying to figure out what would make this place a more positive experience for everyone (including us). 

I wonder if anyone else is noticing what I am, about the different visions people have for the forum itself, and the modertors' roles within it.  Because what I'm seeing are a lot of viewpoints that are diametrically opposed to each other, so we have a lot to think about.

Some of us want the moderating to be more strict when it comes to content, but less strict when it comes to personal attacks and civility.  Others of us want the opposite - much more lenient on content, much more strict on personal attacks and civility.  Some of us want to see much less banning and suspending of accounts - only in the most extreme circumstances.  Others of us want to see the moderators act much more quickly to ban or suspend accounts.  

And finally, I feel that many of us want to see much stricter moderating when it comes to people and arguments that disagree with them, and much more lenient moderating when it comes to people and viewpoints we agree with.   

So that's the moderating dilemma we're faced with, and I'm not sure how to resolve it.  My personal preference is leaning towards being more lenient on content (to a certain point - where the line is drawn is another debate, of course, since the line always has to be drawn somewhere, unless we want the site filled with spam, porn, and neo-nazis playing bait-the-lefty), and trying to encourage a much more civil tone when it comes to personal attacks and hostility.  

Ever since I can remember on babble, there has always been a debate between people who think that too much insistence on civility creates a less authentic environment where people can't be passionate and can't throw off bourgeois conventions, and those who think that insisting on civility makes this board a much more inviting place and less intimidating to newbies or people who might be a little more timid than those of us who bluster and bicker our way through our days on babble.

I lean towards the latter view now - I didn't always.  I think, for instance, that it would be very difficult for someone who, say, is a survivor of domestic abuse to feel comfortable in an environment where people are fighting and name-calling and being hostile all the time.  I think it might be pretty intimidating for someone whose first language isn't English to join in when they see people immediately assuming the worst about each other's posts instead of trying to clarify first and see whether there was a misunderstanding.  I think it also might be pretty intimidating for people who lean left but maybe haven't been exposed to ideas that we take for granted here to join in and ask questions, learn, and grow.  I think I would be fed to the wolves now if the me in 2001 were to jump forward in time and join babble now - I've learned an awful lot in 7 years, and accepted a lot of viewpoints I hadn't even considered before.

Caissa

I like Michelle's suggestion of benign neglect. Whenever she wants to practice it she can come hang in the treehouse. It would be a bit of a Summerhillian experiment.

Michelle

martin dufresne wrote:
Anyone who wants to "debate" the right doesn't have very far to look IMO... Why eschew a space where ideas and testimony can go further just to accommodate the opposition...

I would answer: because people learn from it and become allies.  No, it's not going to change the world.  Let's face it, nothing we write here is going to change the entire world (although I do think that babble, and places like it, are extremely important activist tools because it raises consciousness and creates a space where people can go beyond mainstream media spin).  But being respectful and putting forward our ideas and accepting questions (even challenging ones, even from people who disagree) could change a few minds.  As I said above, I've changed my mind on a lot of things just from what I've learned here at babble.  And that often happened through me asking ignorant questions, making occasionally ignorant arguments, and being challenged about my common-sense assumptions.

There are a whole lot of well-meaning people who don't agree with us on a lot of stuff, and they're even left-leaning.  Shouldn't we engage people in conversation if we want to convince them of the ideas that are important to us?

Tommy_Paine

 

Maybe a cool experiment would be to have those of us who have been at babble for over a year or two to "ban" ourselves for a week or two, simultaneously together, once or twice a year or even quarterly, and let new people or lurkers develop their own voice without our rareified insights getting in the way?

 

Tommy_Paine

 

Or hey, a daily post limit for us old farts?

It might improve both debating and writin' skills, and put a high price on silly bickering.

 

Papal Bull

Tommy_Paine wrote:

 

Or hey, a daily post limit for us old farts?

 

 

I'm cool with that, I just pop up to make irreverent posts, anyways. =D

Tommy_Paine

Or maybe a demand that everyone must attempt to say something humourous at least in one out of every three posts.  I'm constantly guilty of attempted humour.

Agravated attempted humour.

 

Caissa

I'm a fan of civility. I think incivility can too often be used as a weapon.

I do think a little more debate would be healthy on Babble.

I'm sure everyone is happy to hear that you couldn't pay me enough to moderate.

remind remind's picture

But Michelle, what you say is in opposition, you say you have learned over 7 years in this very same "hostile" environment (see scout's and old goat's comments about not  much being different). But you now believe that others like you were, can't? You former thought processes were not accommodated, they were strongly challenged and you say you learned. 

There has bee a consistent shift rightwards at babble over the last 2 years that is now causing tensions for those who do not believe the right and right wing thinkig should be accommodated here. Many many have left because of this shift rightwards. It keeps up and this will be a right wingboard too.

I think frmrsoldier's word's should stand here:

"Read my quote from Harper above.

These clowns can't even see the logical conclusions at the end of their sentences, never mind any other higher order reasoning."

 

Snert Snert's picture

Not to be an armchair QB, but one thing that might help would be some reasonable working definitions for some of the trigger words that seem to set off meta-discussions and meta-meta-discussions.

I found it interesting and unfortunate, though not really shocking, that an attempt to clarify the term "Zionist" quickly devolved into a cockfight.  That word gets used more often around than some articles of punctuation, and yet at any moment, it means whatever anyone wishes it to mean.  Unsurprisingly, this seems to promote arguing!

Other words that could use some mutually-agreed-upon clarity:  troll, neo-con, feminist (adjective form, not the noun), pro-labour and just for good measure, fascist.

Might not end all the quarrelling, but at least people could quarrel about actual issues, not semantics. 

 

 

Tommy_Paine

"But you now believe that others like you were, can't? You former thought processes were not accommodated, they were strongly challenged and you say you learned."

True, but one has to remember that back in 2001, everyone was pretty much on the same footing, and babble hadn't found it's culture at that time. It was much more condusive to the kind of sticking your neck out kind of learning Michelle's talking about than what things are today.

You should have seen me do that in the feminist forum.  But I learned a lot through doing that, untill you see the shell shocked, broken puddle of a man you see before you.

 

 

 

 

Laughing

 

It's Me D

Love that attitude Tommy Wink Seriously though, its nice to smile around here from time to time.

As for the learning environment I feel I've learned a lot here too, both as a lurker and since I started posting. This has been in the last couple years so obviously the environment wasn't too hostile. I'm here to learn however, which was certainly the point of lurking; I'm not sure how many of babble's newest members (since the relaunch) would say the same. On the other hand there have been a number of new members who I think are valuable additions to Babble. Its very hard to determine why someone is here, and without that, almost impossible to accomodate learning (as opposed to accomodating trolling). Needless to say I have no easy answer! 

Caissa

Most studies of learning would suggest it happens better in a relaxed environment than in a hostile one. That does beg the question though "Is Babble's purpose primarily as a place for people to learn?"

Tommy_Paine

 

I would rather hope it was a place to have fun.  Learning is fun, as I discovered after I graduated high school.

 

remind remind's picture

Very good question Caissa. And I would say both yes, and no. I have learned a great deal here about; the conflicts in the Middle East, historical happenings which appear to be still impacting politics and social underpinnings today, behind the scenes political happenings, news before it becomes news and how to make news happen and a myriad of other things. However, I think it is a by-product of participation and most often not a deliberate activity of setting out to learn, hostile environment, or no hostile environment.

When I joined back in 2004, I found it very classist, and very hostile to those who were determined not to be part of the class configuration. Today, I find this "class' component much less so. However, I find it to be more hostile in other areas. IMV, it has been just a matter of the hostile component changing parameters, or positions.

But yet like Michelle, and Tommy, I have learned,  a great deal, and perhaps would not have, if people were not so "emphatic" in their positions. And, I have even learned from some of those with whom I have had strong personality classes with.

As for the most studies of learning, I would have to see citings of that, as schools are really not the most relaxed environments in any level. Also, social change has not occured from "relaxed" environments, it has occured from tensions arising like a coiled spring, releasing its tension. And at the nub of this, is the fact that rabble/babble is the voice of those who are working towards social change and we as a people cannot afford to be relaxed about it, and perhaps that spills over here.

 

 

 

Caissa

I'm not going to search for studies but learning/performance is a bell curve. If degree of tension is on the x access and performance is on the y access best performance takes place with an optimal amout of stress. Too little stress and there is no reason to get out of bed in the morning, too much stress and the yhockey player misses the wide open net even with lots of time to pot the puck.

 So by relaxed I'm discussing an optimal amount of stress. Of course, stress should not be confused with disstress.

Cueball Cueball's picture

The one thing that I really learned on this web site was a completely different way to look at race and racism, in terms of the Holocaust in Europe and the ethnic cleansing of the Native people of the Americas and other aspects of the "colonial period" of imperialism. This largely due to Makwa and his insistance that this view be forwarded as a legitimate analysis, base in the idea that Hitler's imperial concept was essentially an attempt to reproduce the European imperial mode in Eastern Europe.

Previous to that point, I had always been convinced there was something unique about Hitler's project. I had always had a sense of this, and the evidence was there, obviously, but Makwa really put it together in a way that clarified this point.

It's Me D

remind wrote:
However, I think it is a by-product of participation and most often not a deliberate activity of setting out to learn, hostile environment, or no hostile environment.

I don't think I agree with this statement. I've learned more through participation here than I did when I was just lurking, however without the lurking I'd probably have foundered right off the bat; sometimes just listening is the best form of participation. I deliberately set out to learn from my participation here, frankly anyone who is here to talk and not listen/learn, isn't likely making much of a contirbution to the Babble community. An unwillingness to listen and learn, and a boundless enthusiasm to talk (pontificate?), is a combination thats contributing to the proliferation of toxic threads, imo.

Caissa

Remind wrote: Isn't everything a bell curve? ;)

 

Nah, Calculus courses tend to be bimodal.Wink

remind remind's picture

Isn't everything a bell curve? ;)

Yes, I concur with what you say caissa, as the reality is as stress grows, the ability to think rationally decreases, on the inverse bell curve. Hence the success of fear mongering blocking peoples ability to think clearly.

 ETA

Its me d, don't think we said anything didn't from each other,  other than the wording/terminology being different.

It's Me D

remind wrote:
Its me d, don't think we said anything didn't from each other,  other than the wording/terminology being different.

Well thats good, we have a pretty good record when it comes to agreeing I think, I'd hate to spoil it Smile

 

PS: In my lurking years there were a few Babblers whose quality posts convinced me to sign up, even though they were almost never in agreement with each other; you were one.

remind remind's picture

ohhh...why thank you!

remind remind's picture

And caissa, isn't calculus something you get on your teeth? ;) :D

Sven Sven's picture

Okay.  I haven't read much in this thread but was directed here from this now-closed thread (which I did read): [url=http://rabble.ca/babble/rabble-reactions/more-personal-attacks][color=bl... personal attacks ..."[/u][/color][/url].

I think there are at least a couple of things from that thread that are worth repeating:

Jacob Two-Two wrote:

I do have some advice in case anyone cares to hear it.

I've been here practically since the place started and there have been plenty of times that I've gotten fed up with it. Y'know what I did? I stopped coming for a while. I would suggest that if something that is happening on babble is hurting your feelings then you are probably too dependent on it. Make your point, say your piece, then let it go. There's a big world out there and if you don't find the quality of feminist discussion here is meeting your standards, then go find some real-life feminists to talk to.

All you can do with a place like babble is take what you can get from it. The stuff you can't get from it you have to stop expecting to take, and if you ever get to the point where you're no longer getting anything then you have to stop coming. I've seen other long-time posters reach this point and was sad to see them go, but supported their decision. I've occasionally been close to that myself, but so far I'm still here. The reason I'm still here is that my expectations are much more realistic now.

and

Michelle wrote:

The one thing I really wish everyone (including me) could take to heart is the rule about personal attacks.  I'll bet the tone here would improve immensely if we could all just refrain from personal attacks on each other, even when we're really angry, even when we really disagree, even when we feel like we're perfectly justified (we all feel we're perfectly justified, after all).

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melovesproles

I've learned a lot on babble and it is often the threads where people disagree the most passionately that are the most educational. I know sometimes they can get ruined by personal bickering and grudges but generally, I don't think babble is terminally toxic and that a lot of that just comes with the medium, that said I could see how it is probably much more frustrating for moderators who have to sift and judge the parts which most of us have the luxury of scrolling past. But I would advise a bit of caution about going too heavy on enforcing civility, I think it becomes murky territory. Its just so easy to imagine slights on the internet and to take everything the worst possible way. By making this the primary criteria for banning and moderation risks making 'personal attacks' even more important and central to the discussion(meta-arguments about who started what, how this statement is more insulting than intended, the unfairness of sympathizing with one jilted party over another)instead of making them disappear, which I think is probably not likely to happen.

Boom Boom Boom Boom's picture

remind wrote:
And caissa, isn't calculus something you get on your teeth? ;) :D

I thought calculus was that white stuff they put on gravel roads to keep the dust down in the summer, like they do here every year.

Sven Sven's picture

melovesproles wrote:

I've learned a lot on babble and it is often the threads where people disagree the most passionately that are the most educational. 

I completely agree with that.  Discussions where everyone basically agrees on something are insipid.

In my family, we have knock-down drag-out verbal discussions about politics, religion and all of the other subjects families should avoid.  But, we all enjoy it and, over the years, I have learned much from those argumen...er, "conversations"!

Same with babble.

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Papal Bull

When I came to Babble, nigh on 5 yars ago, I was a bright eyed little 17 year old who was introduced to this board through another member and a current moderator. Ah, the good old days? I mean, I hopped right in and my eyes were opened to a lot of ideas and I found a lot of good information here that has really helped shape a lot of my world view. Oddly, a few people have commented in that strange RL Land that I have drifted neither right nor left, but away from politics. I'm actually inclined to agree with this. And this has really hampered my ways of participating on babble. However, if I make an off topic, off kilter bit of humour, I can still remain a member of the board, contribute in my own absurd way, and not have an early onset of cardiac trouble from stressing out over the little things. Of course, I'm fairly certain that this position is fairly unique to this thread's participants.

Ze

I've learned a lot from babble and there's some great people posting great stuff here. I wish certain things were moderated differently and it's frustrating at times, but I can't think of a board that isn't. I wouldn't wish the thankless job of moderating here on anyone.

Normally I'd avoid this sort of thread like a huge smelly plague. But just one thought.... The word "civility" strikes me as risky. I'd like to see people free to say fuck, that fuckin Harper is a fuckin louse, cuz he is. Not very civil. But "civility" is one of those words that gets used by those with power to shut up those without it who want to get passionate and express an honest feeling. It always makes me think of cops beating someone up, and then mainstream society going tut-tut when the victim gets angry and points out systemic oppression. Oh no, that's not civil! Maybe the word just pushes buttons for me. On the other hand, people here maybe could be kinder to one another, there sure seems to be a lot of anger that never gets disipated, and builds up til it explodes. 

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"One law for the lion and the ox is oppression" - Blake

Slumberjack

I believe it was a moderator that once said that people might not be as inclined to hack away at eachother if they actually met face to face.  There tends to be more of a capacity for letting bygones be bygones when the tone of a person's voice can soften the words being used, or at least put them it into a better context.  A couple of weeks ago, my partner told me of an old Persian saying.  It had to do with family squabbles in general, so it doesn't quite pertain to what transpires here sometimes, but perhaps it does have some relevance.  Family members may quarrel sometimes, almost to the point of tearing into each other's flesh, but despite those occurrences, it is important that the bones be left undisturbed.

Refuge Refuge's picture

Tommy_Paine wrote:

Or maybe a demand that everyone must attempt to say something humourous at least in one out of every three posts.  I'm constantly guilty of attempted humour.

Agravated attempted humour.

 

I suck at online humour. Can I PM you if I need a zinger Tommy?

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