I don't think I've been personally attacked and I don't think I've done it, with one exception I can recall, but who knows?
I know of one directed at me.
See, but this is what I mean. I think I probably know the instance that you're referring to, al-Q; if I'm right, there was one time when (as you said) you had been drinking and it was late and you decided to post the extended lyrics to a violently sexist and racist old sea shanty. I asked if you had any sober second thoughts about those references, and subsequently oldgoat stepped in and deleted them. Is that the time you mean? Because if so, I'm really confused why you would remember that as a personal attack. It was nothing against you personally, it was about the humiliating and demeaning effect on women and POC, or specifically me I guess, of having that language and those ideas up on this site. I actually really like you, and especially your screen name, if that counts for anything.
I'm just concerned that this whole "personal attacker!" meme will end up being another way for folks to forestall legitimate commentary by smearing those who point out this type of problem or who otherwise disagree with them.
I'd be much happier with a resolution that called for everyone to try to be nice to each other. That would be more contextual. And it would offer up excellent opportunities for the kinds of intervention proposed earlier by Snert.