Sexual identity is not cosmetic -- at least, I don't think so. And there are lots of ways to find yourself controlled -- enslaved, if you like -- to others. The bourgeois proprieties do that to many of us every day in ways big and small, and fighting those whenever we can is some of the most basic political work we can do.
Anyway, I think I've said all I can to this topic, and besides, we're about to be EPU'd because of thread length. RTTG, I hope that you continue to contribute here. My heart goes with anyone who is travelling towards a vision of liberty.