here is a story that might relate from "democracynow.org"
Mississippi School Cancels Prom over Lesbian Student
And in Mississippi, a county school board has canceled an upcoming high school prom rather than allowing a lesbian student to bring her partner as her date. Constance McMillen, an eighteen-year-old senior at Itawamba Agricultural High School, has challenged a school policy barring her from bringing her girlfriend and also wearing a tuxedo to her April 2nd prom. In canceling the prom, the school board urged the community to hold a private prom not under its oversight. The American Civil Liberties Union has asked the school board to reverse its decision or face legal action. Upon hearing the news, McMillen said, “The message they are sending is that if they have to let gay people go to prom that they are not going to have one.”
note one of the ways they justified this was she was going to wear a tuxedo. again, if they couldn't make decisions to exclude people on the basis of what is an accepted form of living or dressing, this kind of crap wouldn't happen. if a gay woman, or a woman in a tux is offensive, too bad it's her choice. that's what freedom is supposed to be!