Defense of the Nordic Model for dealing with Prostitution (and the right to defend it)

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I'm not sure, quizzical, why you refer to something called 'pro exploitation'.   I haven't ever come across that as a term, so it might be helpful if you define it with a list of who it is supposed to include.     

 

it is always helpful if one is specific when one talks on a subject.  That is why i ask where do you get your information from, because i have provided a number of links that all debunk the majority of abolitionist rhetoric, as well as a number of links that provide research, data and facts related to different models.   None of which think the Swedish model is working.  Not even their own citizens or government and police departments and social services people believe it is doing what the politicians say it was meant to do, nor what they continue to claim it does.    

 

There are new reports about it every year, all of which call it a failed social experiment, or 'not working' or 'didn't reduce anything."   The only references we ever see are 'street prostitution was cut in half".  Wow, big news.    It was 1999 when the law came in, and in 1999 in every city everywhere, there were more street workers than not.    But when the internet got popular and escort advertising sites came around, a LOT of those people simply moved indoors and advertised more discretely.   The drop in street workers in Sweden was related to the new laws, but half the workers simply moved indoors.     Like everywhere else in the world lol.

 

It's always been about out of sight out of mind.  If there weren't street workers, no one would give a damn about trafficking, pimping, exploitation, underage workers, bad clients, good clients, worker's rights, or what they believe sex workers need.    And yet the minority of sex workers, and the general publics' perception of just that one group, is going to determine what happens to all the workers.  200 determine for 2000?   What other business, occupation, or pastime does the minority needs going to impact what the majority had to live with.

fortunate

Timebandit wrote:

Susan, disagreeing with you does not constitute an personal attack.  The fact is, prostitution contributes to the continuation of the rape culture we  live in by commodifying the female body and enabling the male privilege of male-oriented sex on demand. 

I haven't seen any "debunking", just the claim that studies you don't like are "debunked".

To the German example:  You've stated numerous times that sex work should be treated like any other kind of work.  Taxed, regulated, etc.  That appears to be what they've done in Germany.  Can you please explain how this is any different than what you've advocated?  Or does "decriminalization" just mean "I get to do what I want to" without the regulation?  Even if you accept that sex work is a business like any other (it isn't, despite mark alfred's misguided and disingenuous little mansplain upthread), that doesn't seem to provide any kind of long term benefit to anyone.

 

But why does sex, for women, automatically get tagged 'rape culture'.  Which is a fairly new term anyway, but why do sex workers yet again have to suffer for the inability of the general public to understand sex and sexuality?    

re: Germany versus NZ, i don't really understand the difference, but i do know that NZ criminal laws were similar if not exactly the same as Canada's.  They overturned all the same laws and came up with detailed work regulations and conditions of working.  As NZ culture is more like Canadian culture than Germany or Sweden or any other country outside of Australia and the UK, i find it a very agreeable set up.    And it works.   It is the only country I know of where  a sex worker as an employee has won a case of sexual harassment against a brothel owner.      ($25,000, this year)   

Why don't people want that for sex workers here?  OHS regulations forbidding unsafe sex activity, licensing for larger establishments, the right to say no, the ability to seek legal or police intervention without fear of being exposed or harassed by law enforcement.  The ability to work discretely and privately from home without fear of being evicted, as they are in Sweden.  As they are in Norway?    And as they don't seem to be able to do in Germany or the Netherlands?   

fortunate

Timebandit wrote:

Isn't the reasoning for Amsterdam's red light district along the same lines?  And really, other than the language around morality, there are a number of different businesses that people don't want in their residential areas and zone so that they are located elsewhere.

 

 

I would think that is a zoning, municipal issue.  It isn't like they don't know when a massage parlour comes in for a license that is not a registered massage therapy style license what is going on there.    If people have issues with mps in school zones, that is a city council issue, and needs to be brought up, imo.    

Not that what people assume is going on is actually going on, just because it is a sex massage parlour. There aren't drug dealers lurking in the school yard, or condoms thrown in the street, and the manager isn't trying to lure the kiddies in to work for him/her.   It is ridiculous the number of assumptions people make about these places.   

 

fyi, Himel is female.    So 'she' dismisses Farley.  

 

And it isn't opinion pieces, what the links are talking about is researching and studying her work, and coming up with very legit complaints.  Including from someone who was hired by her questioning her ethics, and a member of the association putting together an extremely detailed examination of her 'work'.    When NZ presented their 5 year report, they researched, presented data, and states "there was no increase in the total number of sex workers in NZ".   Farley put together her recap of that report and said "there was an increase in both underage and street workers in NZ".     As her former employee and the association member points out, she is deliberately falsifying the data and presenting that misinformation to her readers.  It enflames her readers, they repeat these lies.  The media picks it up and repeats the lies. Then the politician's pick it up, quoting her report, and repeat the lies.    (my example is just an example, and not based on a real statement that she made, but the intent is there.   She read the report, she put together an article to post on her own site or to be quoted by the media that completely changed the actual report stats, made up a lie, and perpetuated it.  

 

We still see people over and over and over again repeat lies about sex trafficking at sporting events and that the 'average' age of sex workers start at 13.   It isn't even possible for that to be true, but we hear it over and over and over again, and used for the number one reason to shut down the sex trade.   But guess what, it is still illegal for clients to see any sex workers, paid, that are under the age of 18.  So find them and charge them, and nothing else has to change in order for that to happen.  

 

But to tell me, as a sex worker who knows that I can go days seeing over a dozen clients and not once have actual sex with them that this is promoting men's sense of entitlement to sex?  That's ludicrous, and a false statement about what happens here that people who think they know everything know nothing about what we do.  So given that they know nothing about what we do, what we do not do, and what we are willing to do, and what we do when we are unwilling to do something, then maybe they should all back off and stop trying to tell us about what they know nothing about.    

OR they could simply start listening, with their listening ears, to what is actually being said.    

This is what women who wanted to vote used to say.  This is what women who wanted to be the ones to make the final choice in abortions used to say.  This is what women who wanted to be doctors, or lawyers or electricans used to say.  This is what gay men and women who wanted to get married used to say.    This is what people who weren't MF married couples who wanted to adopt children used to say.   

 

This is what human beings from all kinds of situations used to say, until they were blue in the face, until someone finally started to listen and say, hey, i guess the world didn't end just because two men wanted to get married.  NOT only that, but all the kids in the school where one of them taught 5th grade ALSO didn't turn gay overnight and want to have their own same sex marriage.    

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But why does sex, for women, automatically get tagged 'rape culture'.  Which is a fairly new term anyway, but why do sex workers yet again have to suffer for the inability of the general public to understand sex and sexuality?

Sex doesn't automatically equate rape culture, but the perpetuation of male entitlement to sex on demand does - and is a requisite component of the sex industry as it exists now.

I also dispute that the general public doesn't understand sex and sexuality - they just don't see it your way.  Sex is fine.  Commodified sex a la the sex industry isn't. Frankly, transactional sexuality doesn't strike me as overly female friendly. 

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I would think that is a zoning, municipal issue.  It isn't like they don't know when a massage parlour comes in for a license that is not a registered massage therapy style license what is going on there.    If people have issues with mps in school zones, that is a city council issue, and needs to be brought up, imo.    

Not that what people assume is going on is actually going on, just because it is a sex massage parlour. There aren't drug dealers lurking in the school yard, or condoms thrown in the street, and the manager isn't trying to lure the kiddies in to work for him/her.   It is ridiculous the number of assumptions people make about these places.  

Regardless, I was responding to susan's comment about the sinister legal code.  I don't think the expectation that it's fine to conduct a business related to the sex industry in close proximity to a school is very reasonable, do you?

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fyi, Himel is female.    So 'she' dismisses Farley.

Not that it's relevant.  It's still an opinion, albeit a legal one.

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  And it isn't opinion pieces, what the links are talking about is researching and studying her work, and coming up with very legit complaints.  Including from someone who was hired by her questioning her ethics, and a member of the association putting together an extremely detailed examination of her 'work'.    When NZ presented their 5 year report, they researched, presented data, and states "there was no increase in the total number of sex workers in NZ".   Farley put together her recap of that report and said "there was an increase in both underage and street workers in NZ".     As her former employee and the association member points out, she is deliberately falsifying the data and presenting that misinformation to her readers. 

No, you still have opinion and you have some allegations, but they don't appear to be utterly conclusive.  Look, if you take the example of Andrew Wakefield, the antivax doctor - there were allegations that he'd falsified his data, but before anything could be done about it, people had to provide the evidence.  In his case, it was true but it was several years before anyone had conclusive evidence of wrongdoing. 

For me, it's moot.  Fundamentally, sex work is part of an anti-woman culture by its very nature, whether its largely trafficked women or not, whether its undeage women or not, whether its licensed or not. 

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  This is what women who wanted to vote used to say.  This is what women who wanted to be the ones to make the final choice in abortions used to say.  This is what women who wanted to be doctors, or lawyers or electricans used to say.  This is what gay men and women who wanted to get married used to say.    This is what people who weren't MF married couples who wanted to adopt children used to say.

Sorry, what were they saying?  There seems to be a non sequitur here.

These are human rights issues.  What you're talking about is not being unable to change your gender or orientation, but a job - one that is being vociferously defended as a choice.  Apples and oranges.

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  But to tell me, as a sex worker who knows that I can go days seeing over a dozen clients and not once have actual sex with them that this is promoting men's sense of entitlement to sex?  That's ludicrous, and a false statement about what happens here that people who think they know everything know nothing about what we do.

Wow, that bump on my head from the hard landing off the turnip truck sure does smart.

So let me understand your argument:  "I don't always have sex with my clients, so I'm not really selling sex, therefore it's okay for me to sell sex."

?!

By definition, as a sex worker, you are providing sex as a service.  Whether or not the customer follows through every time is irrelevant.  Or maybe you're using the Clinton definition.  It still doesn't change the fundamental objection I have to the entire enterprise.

Maybe the world won't end if you achieve your ends, but I remain convinced that it will be a less safe world for me to send my darling daughters out into.  As it stands, it's a dangerous enough place out there, and this just seems to double down on the worst elements of it for women - our sex is a commodity.  You can't ask me not to object to that. 

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the german criminal code about pimping reads just like the living off the avails privisions just struck down in canada. they are harmful for all the reasons i listed in a previous post.

i am not changing my position, i am still fighting for decriminalization like they have in new zealand...no criminal code provisions related to adult consensual activities.

germany and holland are not decriminalized, they are legalized as we had here in canada.

in terms of schools and churches....

zoning by-laws for businesses will govern where the businesses can operate. in vancouver for example there is a by-law about dancing in windows a la amsterdam. it is prohibited. we will not have brothel districts here either and there is no chance for a sex industry business to be beside a school...

re debunking:

the tri council policy statement governs research involving human beings in canada. none of these researchers work has met the criteria to qualify as ethical research involving human beings. none.

it is not an opinion, its a fact.

i do not cherry pick through data, i have taken the time to understand the rules in this regard and can recognize when the rules have been subverted in order to ahieve a particular goal, in this case abolition.

you can carry on saying how i am back tracking or changing my view/ position or only agreeing with research which suits my goal but anyone who follows my posts knows this is not true.

i have consistently fought for one thing, decrim. municipal by-laws are a seperate issue and communities should work with sex workers to find middle or common ground which resepcts everyone's concerns...as was done in vancouver....

 

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Susan, I didn't say back-tracking, I said you move the goalposts.  And anyone who takes the time to read your posts will have observed a fair amount of goalpost shifting (and cherry picking, for that matter - denial doesn't make it not so).

Now, if you could respond to the substance of what I said (ie:  Germany seems to have embraced the elements you've advocated for in previous posts, so why would we not look at Germany to prognosticate what would happen if that were agreed to those elements?) that would be great.  However, what defense you've given (ie: That's not decriminalization, that's legalization) sounds much like decriminalization doesn't regulate - which is *not* treating the sex industry like other industries.

So pick one:  You either want to be treated like everybody else or you don't.

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excuse me, no other industries have criminal code provisions about them.....unless we are talking about the drug industry or murder industry.....?

the german criminal code provisions surrounding prostitution are the same crap we had here about bawdy houses and living off of the avails. i have never moved the goal posts and you saying i did does not make it true either.

we are in contact with german workers and know very well the price of this legalization, which we also had here in canada and paid the price for.

we want equal treatment, i have always advocated for that and the german frame work answers none of the elements that we are fighting for. i have never advocated to have criminal code provisions for prostitution nor have i ever advocated that sex workers might morally corrupt children and should be hidden away, pushed out of society....or taht we don't need places to work or should not be allowed to pay someone to work for us....

decrim does regulate as shown in new zealand with the prostitution reform act. health and safety standards, access to police protection and freedom from police violence, protection from discriminiatory removal of children from sex working parents...

i know you enjoy twisting the things i say but it doesn't change the truth of my posts....read back for yourself....by-laws and licensing for businesses, standardized ohs materials, working within communities towards respectful dialogue and outcomes around the sex industry, where it can operate and who it can employ....where i have i ever called for a free for all unregulated indurty? nowhere...in spite of your assertions to the contrary

i have never advocated for a german style of legalization, we had it here and people died....it sucked.

so you pick one...are sex workers citizens with rights? or are we not? 

 

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i also think its funny to hear you say ""it seems like you are saying"....since you have known my position for so long but now act as if its changed or its the first time you are hearing it....lol

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Oh, you're citizens with rights.  That's not in dispute.  What isn't a right, though, is your chosen line of work if the majority of people feel that it's detrimental to our culture and society as a whole.  As you know I've maintained from the beginning of the discussion. 

"seems like you're saying"  -  What I'm attempting to do is tease out what you actually mean in all the babble and histrionic hyperbole in your posting style.  I'm attempting to interpret, and you can feel free to tell me where I've misinterpreted - but I'm trying to make clear that this is my interpretation of what you're saying in case that's not what you mean.  I am attempting to show you some respect, so don't shit on me for it or I won't bother. 

I don't think you should assume that I remember every detail of your position on anything as I am only on babble periodically and in the meantime have a lot of other information flowing through my head and hands unrelated to this issue.  I may or may not remember your specifics.

I recognize that you're not advocating specifically for German-style legalization, but it contains many of the specific elements that you've asked for.  Frankly, it sounds like a lot of hair-splitting to me, and there's some conjecture, apparently, around the strength of argument around New Zealand's answer to the issues around sex work.  And I don't think we had quite the same thing as Germany has.  So really, you're not making a lot of sense, unless what you're saying is that we should remove all rules and just let the universe unfold as it will.

In which case - being treated unlike any other industry in the country.  Where was that "we want equal treatment" again?  Because you're asking to have your cake and eat it, too.

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new zealand is not unregulated.....did you even read my post? i think its pretty clear....

hair splitting which costs people their lives...if its not a subject you care to understand or read up on, then why bother to enage me about it? 

i listed all the reasons the german approach is bad, i also described how it is very simlar to what the SCC just struck down i listed how we would like to see prostitution regulated...but you chose to either not read or simply ignore what i wrote....

we don't want legalization, it is what we had before and it sucked, many people died...

we want decriminalization and protection under the criminal code from human trafficking, rape, murder...as other canadians enjoy....

we want protection of labor law and agree that businesses should be licensed and regulated at the municipal or provincial level...

like they have in new zealand....

quizzical

was helping my daughter today with a canadians socials project and we came across this:

 

"The world has never been partial to the thinking woman---the wise ones have always foreseen danger. Long years ago when women asked for an education, the world cried out that it would never do. If a woman learned to read it would distract them from the real  business of life which was to make home happy for some good man. If women learned to read there seemed to be a possibility the some day some good man might come home and find his wife reading, and the dinner not ready---and nothing could be imagined more horrible thann that!!!That seems to be the haunting fear of mankind---that the advancement of women will sometime, someway, someplace interfere with some man's comfort." Nellie McClung

commodifying women's vagina's is a huge step backwards as it signifys women still aren't supposed to interfere with a man's "comfort". 'cause in today's world  we all know a man's comfort is sex where ever and whenever he wants.

quizzical

https://fbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/t1/1798188_794455...

fantastic example of where our focus as women is supposed to be according to this male dominated society

fortunate

Timebandit wrote:

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But why does sex, for women, automatically get tagged 'rape culture'.  Which is a fairly new term anyway, but why do sex workers yet again have to suffer for the inability of the general public to understand sex and sexuality?

Sex doesn't automatically equate rape culture, but the perpetuation of male entitlement to sex on demand does - and is a requisite component of the sex industry as it exists now.

I also dispute that the general public doesn't understand sex and sexuality - they just don't see it your way.  Sex is fine.  Commodified sex a la the sex industry isn't. Frankly, transactional sexuality doesn't strike me as overly female friendly. 

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I would think that is a zoning, municipal issue.  It isn't like they don't know when a massage parlour comes in for a license that is not a registered massage therapy style license what is going on there.    If people have issues with mps in school zones, that is a city council issue, and needs to be brought up, imo.    

Not that what people assume is going on is actually going on, just because it is a sex massage parlour. There aren't drug dealers lurking in the school yard, or condoms thrown in the street, and the manager isn't trying to lure the kiddies in to work for him/her.   It is ridiculous the number of assumptions people make about these places.  

Regardless, I was responding to susan's comment about the sinister legal code.  I don't think the expectation that it's fine to conduct a business related to the sex industry in close proximity to a school is very reasonable, do you?

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fyi, Himel is female.    So 'she' dismisses Farley.

Not that it's relevant.  It's still an opinion, albeit a legal one.

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  And it isn't opinion pieces, what the links are talking about is researching and studying her work, and coming up with very legit complaints.  Including from someone who was hired by her questioning her ethics, and a member of the association putting together an extremely detailed examination of her 'work'.    When NZ presented their 5 year report, they researched, presented data, and states "there was no increase in the total number of sex workers in NZ".   Farley put together her recap of that report and said "there was an increase in both underage and street workers in NZ".     As her former employee and the association member points out, she is deliberately falsifying the data and presenting that misinformation to her readers. 

No, you still have opinion and you have some allegations, but they don't appear to be utterly conclusive.  Look, if you take the example of Andrew Wakefield, the antivax doctor - there were allegations that he'd falsified his data, but before anything could be done about it, people had to provide the evidence.  In his case, it was true but it was several years before anyone had conclusive evidence of wrongdoing. 

For me, it's moot.  Fundamentally, sex work is part of an anti-woman culture by its very nature, whether its largely trafficked women or not, whether its undeage women or not, whether its licensed or not. 

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  This is what women who wanted to vote used to say.  This is what women who wanted to be the ones to make the final choice in abortions used to say.  This is what women who wanted to be doctors, or lawyers or electricans used to say.  This is what gay men and women who wanted to get married used to say.    This is what people who weren't MF married couples who wanted to adopt children used to say.

Sorry, what were they saying?  There seems to be a non sequitur here.

These are human rights issues.  What you're talking about is not being unable to change your gender or orientation, but a job - one that is being vociferously defended as a choice.  Apples and oranges.

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  But to tell me, as a sex worker who knows that I can go days seeing over a dozen clients and not once have actual sex with them that this is promoting men's sense of entitlement to sex?  That's ludicrous, and a false statement about what happens here that people who think they know everything know nothing about what we do.

Wow, that bump on my head from the hard landing off the turnip truck sure does smart.

So let me understand your argument:  "I don't always have sex with my clients, so I'm not really selling sex, therefore it's okay for me to sell sex."

?!

By definition, as a sex worker, you are providing sex as a service.  Whether or not the customer follows through every time is irrelevant.  Or maybe you're using the Clinton definition.  It still doesn't change the fundamental objection I have to the entire enterprise.

Maybe the world won't end if you achieve your ends, but I remain convinced that it will be a less safe world for me to send my darling daughters out into.  As it stands, it's a dangerous enough place out there, and this just seems to double down on the worst elements of it for women - our sex is a commodity.  You can't ask me not to object to that. 

 

 

lol, you remind me of pondering.  By separating paragraphs, it makes it possible for you to take one paragraph and behave as tho it stands alone without making sense.  But it followed another, and together they make a point that is obviously missed.

I find that the abolitionists if presented with a fact, try to claim it as my personal opinion, even tho I am quoting someone else or only describing what is in the link.   That is fine, but please don't claim that it isn't a fact just because you failed to read the links.   If you do not read the links, please don't post an opinion about what you think is in them.   

You don't want your daughter to grow up to be a sex worker.  That's great, good for you.   Maybe she will have a different idea, and now she will be afraid to tell you, and suffer the stigma common to many sex workers: denying what they do for fear of judgement an ostracization from friends and family members.   

I think  you know exactly what I meant by 'sex'.    I think you are smart enough to know that when people here are describing in great detail about how all sex workers lay on their backs while getting penetrated by men, that when I mention specifically that scenario is what 'most' people think sex work is, you knew what I was talking about.  Coming back now and claiming that oh, gee it also means a massage by a fully clothed worker who may or may not give a happy ending is misleading.   I had enough respect for you and other members of this site to spell it out, please don't disrespect me by pretending you 'always' meant that the common misconception about what sex workers do is includes anything other than actual intercourse.   I've seen the comments, and so have you.    

Please simply address the actual question, in other words, rather than double talk.  

 

The other, isolated paragraphs as well, you and I both know you know exactly what I mean there.   I find that anyone who not only refuses to listen to sex workers and what they want and need, and then dismissives them as tho they are incapable or incompetent is nothing more than the same type of person who was at the forefront of denying women's vote, right to access abortion, and gay marriage.   

Whether a city is incapable of figuring out how to zone for massage parlours is irrelevant to me.  It should be irrelevant to everyone. They are indoor workers where their business is conducted indoors.   I don't see a big outcry about the locations of tattoo parlours, but there should be.   You have to be 18 to get one, and everybody seems to want one.    You don't see everyone wanting to be a massage parlour attendant, or client.    

 Do you see a lot of massage parlours in school zones, or are they actually in commercial zoning areas?   Are there a lot of schools set up in commercial or industrial zoned areas?   of course not, so why are we discussing how much we don't want one in a school zone.   MY point was that it is assumed that the presence of one is going to harm children, and that is a presumptuous assumption.    People with those concerns have a really low opinion of sex workers, and those kinds of people with that kind of bias and hatred are NOT the kind of people I want involved with deciding what is good for sex workers.   

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quizzical wrote:

was helping my daughter today with a canadians socials project and we came across this:

 

"The world has never been partial to the thinking woman---the wise ones have always foreseen danger. Long years ago when women asked for an education, the world cried out that it would never do. If a woman learned to read it would distract them from the real  business of life which was to make home happy for some good man. If women learned to read there seemed to be a possibility the some day some good man might come home and find his wife reading, and the dinner not ready---and nothing could be imagined more horrible thann that!!!That seems to be the haunting fear of mankind---that the advancement of women will sometime, someway, someplace interfere with some man's comfort." Nellie McClung

commodifying women's vagina's is a huge step backwards as it signifys women still aren't supposed to interfere with a man's "comfort". 'cause in today's world  we all know a man's comfort is sex where ever and whenever he wants.

 

 

See I read that completely differently.   I read that men in general don't want women to decide for themselves what to do with their bodies.  I see women who want to stop other women from providing sex work as complicit with these men who want to control women's bodies.   I see that women who provide sex work have enough control and enough money to be able to say no to any man they don't want, and furthermore, to never have to be dependent on one man to pay her way through life.

And that is why the many different factions of male dominated society have often tried to stop women from doing this work, and along with them the prohibitionist women who also do not like the idea that there are women out there willing to spend time with men, which leads to them not being able to control whether that man stays home or not.    

Sex workers don't need men to pay their way, that has always been the crux of the problem that men have with this business.   The majority of men do not use the services of sex workers.     The ones that don't, well they are out there trying to shut it down, because, like reading, it is dangerous to them to see women in control of their own income and destiny, plus the idea of promiscuity scares them as well.   The number one concern of many men when it comes to sex is the idea that they may fail in bed, or that they are not capable of pleasing women, and then no woman will stay with them.   The idea of any woman with a great deal of sexual experience is daunting to them, really.   

 

on the topic of sex work, there are some, a very very very few, men (usually younger and new to this) who think that because a woman puts up an ad and has a price it means they are entitled to see her.     And there are people like yourself, and others, who also believe that.    And both of these groups are wrong.    The men like that, who call up sex workers, get turned down and start whining about asking why not, get shot down again.   Because I can say no, i say no all the time, life is too short to deal with someone who doesn't feel like this is an honour and a gift they are being given.  I don't know many sex workers who don't do the same thing.    No one has to say yes all the time, unless they are coerced, and that is still against the law, so deal with that, and deal with them, and leave the rest of us alone.   

Laws and law enforcement and government regulations can't deal with the arrogance of youth and sense of entitlement, but I can, and so can the majority of experienced sex workers.  They are put in their place swiftly and without mercy, and the next time they pick up the phone, you bet they'll think twice about it.    

plus there are international bad date lists, their numbers go out into the big wide world of the internet.  They can't hide.

 

The media tells you, and them, that we are weak.  That we can't say no.  That we are vulnerable and at risk.   We are not.  It's time you started listening to sex workers, and stop pretending to care about what they want and need, and stop trying to fix them.  Because they aren't broken.    

quizzical

fortunate wrote:
   Sex workers don't need men to pay their way,

do actually read what you write? lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo best read ever!!!!!!

 

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The media tells you, and them, that we are weak.  That we can't say no.  That we are vulnerable and at risk.   We are not.  It's time you started listening to sex workers, and stop pretending to care about what they want and need, and stop trying to fix them.  Because they aren't broken.    

most women, yes MOST go into prostitution because of financial hardship and they've no other choice,  then there's the significant amounts of FN's also and they ARE NOT you.

the smaller minority are maybe like you

btw i think your living in a dream world or trying to sell people one.

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i love how you always belittle the words of members of my community.... not that i think you will ever be respectful in one of these conversations. i gave up on that a long time ago.

you once again state an opinion, that we are the elite few escorts who do not reflect the truth as you see it about sex work. 

you have done no research, you have not engaged with indoor sex workers, you have not seen any sources which support your opinion. there is no source to support what you are saying, such information does not exist in the realm of acedemia....

so, you completely dismiss and insult a sex worker who is a long standing community member and who is very connected to her community, fortunate. she engages with hundreds of workers from across the globe and has accumulated lived experience through her own work over time....

but she is dillusional, she is laughable, she is a joke to you....

unbelievable.....

Mórríghain

fortunate wrote:

... Sex workers don't need men to pay their way, that has always been the crux of the problem that men have with this business.... 

This comment may be true from a philosophical point of view (I'm no philosopher) but is not this statement akin to a shopkeeper saying she doesn't need customers in order for her business to succeed? If the above statement is indeed true no one working in the biz should suffer if/when the Nordic model is brought to Canada.

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yup because the swedish law is only about purchasing...right? wrong.....

evictions, seizing of sex workers children, arrest of our families and loved ones as a way to "discourage" prostitution...nothing to fear at all....

To prevent the use of apartments and rooms for prostitution and pandering there are several provisions for criminal sanctions and confiscation. These include the Penal Code Chapter 6 § 12.2, the Land Code (1970:994) Chapter 12. § 42.1.9 and the Condominium Act (1991:614) Chapter 7. § 18.8 (2003:31). These provisions also mean that a landlord or tenant is required to terminate the tenancy if premises are used for prostitution and tenant-owners are required to move out of an apartment used for prostitution.

and of course there's this....

http://www.plri.org/sites/plri.org/files/Impact%20of%20Swedish%20law_0.pdf

Unintentional effects  

There are several reported unintended, negative effects of the Sex Purchase Act, concerning both sex workers and their clients. The effects have been reported in academic papers and research, the documents which form the basis for this report, as well as numerous articles in the media. Sex workers have also spoken on these matters in media, on internet forums, on their blogs and in their books. 92 Most tend to be critical of the ban, but here are some who say that it is positive since it “protects” the woman but criminalizes the customer, and that it might be an incentive to leave prostitution.93

When it comes to clients, it seems they are less willing to assist as witnesses in cases in which profiteers who exploit the sexual labor of others are prosecuted, since they now find themselves guilty of a crime. Clients are exposed to blackmail and robbery, and the stigma associated with buying sex means people often have to leave their jobs and positions, even on a mere suspicion.94 The most common and perhaps most serious complaint regarding sex workers themselves is that they experienced an increased stigmatization after the introduction of the Sex Purchase Act. Some also state that the ban is a violation of their human rights, and many say that they don’t feel fairly or respectfully treated:

"they are not regarded as fully worthy members of society. Sex workers object to the fact that they were not consulted in the making of the law. Since sex workers feel they are not able to influence their legal or societal situation, they feel powerless. And since the ban builds on the idea that women who sell sex are victims, weak and exploited, many claim that the law propagates stereotypical notions about sex workers. The National Board of Health and Welfare report that due to the ban sex workers feel less trust in social authorities, police and the legal system, and half of the respondents in the RFSL "

 

 

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It is also difficult to discern any clear trend of development: has the extent of prostitution increased or decreased? We cannot give any unambiguous answer to that question. At most, we can discern that street prostitution is slowly returning, after swiftly disappearing in the wake of the law against purchasing sexual services. But as said, that refers to street prostitution, which is the most obvious manifestation. With regard to increases and decreases in other areas of prostitution – the “hidden prostitution” – we are even less able to make any statements.

The National Board for Health and Welfare - sweden

When it comes to indoor prostitution in which contact is made at restaurants, hotels, sex clubs or massage parlors, the available information on the extent to which this occurs is limited. We have not been able to find any in-depth studies of these forms of prostitution in the past decade. 

The 2010 official evaluation - government of sweden

Mórríghain

Susan, I think you misunderstood my previous post. Prostitution is a business, not a calling, a lifestyle choice, therapy for amateurs, or anything else. Tis just a business. Customers are essential for a business to survive; for a sex worker to say prostitutes don't need men to pay their way (hiring them) is ludicrous unless I'm missing a philosophical angle. Now if fortunate had said women don't need men to pay their way I would've agreed.

As I understand the Nordic model it criminalizes the purchase of sexual services therefore the approach, at its heart, attacks the customers – everything else is ancillary. However if prostitutes really don't need customers – men – then the Nordic model is no big – this is sarcasm.

I get the impression that you think I support the Nordic model—I don't. I think the only logical approach to Canada's prostitution issue is to remove all the redundant prostitution-related laws from the Criminal Code... all of them, not just the three dumped by the Supreme Court. True decriminaliztion will not happen. Unfortunately most, if not all, of our laws written since the beginning of the 20th century are not based on reason or logic. Perhaps none of them ever were.

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no, i know you don't support the nordic model....

fortunate is refering to the finacial indepence which comes from doing sex work and that we are not reliant on a man (husband) to pay our bills. 

you are right all businesses rely on customers, but in the butcher shop i own for example, if someone is particularly difiicult or is rude to me, i tell them to get bent...same thing with the customers of my sex work business.

this is not the same as being in a relationship with a man and being finacially dependent on that man.

this narrow's a person's choices and makes leaving an abuser difficult. finacial indepence is empowering for sex workers, we determine, who we will see and when and what we will do...its defined by us...not the client.

this i believe is what fortunate was refering to in her post about not being reliant on a man....

Mórríghain

If this sub-discussion is about financial freedom that can come with women working for themselves, regardless of what that work is, then yes, I agree with you and fortunate.

I imagine there are still men (and a few women) who believe a woman's place is tending to the hearth and home; I suspect these same people have a problem with all aspects of the sex industry and would particularly like to see prostitution abolished. Barring that, they'll get behind the Nordic model believing that when the customers are driven off the biz will disappear or go deeper underground. My guess... there are many of these folk in the Conservative Party of Canada and Peter MacKay knows it—he may even be one.

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ha!! i have often thought a really good placard would be " hey harper!! stop screwing sex workers with tax payer dollars!!"

but yes, the loudest protesters are usually involved...."thou dost protest too much!!"

fortunate

Mórríghain wrote:

fortunate wrote:

... Sex workers don't need men to pay their way, that has always been the crux of the problem that men have with this business.... 

This comment may be true from a philosophical point of view (I'm no philosopher) but is not this statement akin to a shopkeeper saying she doesn't need customers in order for her business to succeed? If the above statement is indeed true no one working in the biz should suffer if/when the Nordic model is brought to Canada.

 

No this would be like the shop keeper saying she doesn't need a man to support her, pay for her food and housing, because she makes her own income.    A client who pays for services is not the same thing as a spouse just as customers are not the same thing as a spouse.   

I think i was being quite clear about referring to a relationship situation of one man controlling the life and circumstances of one woman (or in the case of poly marriages, more than one woman?)  In any case, where the woman is dependent on the income of the man, or she is homeless and starving, and in exchange she sacrifices her own goals and dreams because she has no other options in her life.  

fortunate

quizzical wrote:

fortunate wrote:
   Sex workers don't need men to pay their way,

do actually read what you write? lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo best read ever!!!!!!

 

Quote:
The media tells you, and them, that we are weak.  That we can't say no.  That we are vulnerable and at risk.   We are not.  It's time you started listening to sex workers, and stop pretending to care about what they want and need, and stop trying to fix them.  Because they aren't broken.    

most women, yes MOST go into prostitution because of financial hardship and they've no other choice,  then there's the significant amounts of FN's also and they ARE NOT you.

the smaller minority are maybe like you

btw i think your living in a dream world or trying to sell people one.

 

 

Yes, most women do sex work for the income.    Just as most retail workers go to work for the income, due to them being in financial hardship.  Or fast food work, or construction work or,  do I really need to spell this out?  If you are not born wealthy, chances are you are in financial hardship and need to go to work.  

Do you seriously not understand the stats of sex workers, even tho repeated a 1000 times?    10% of the total is not representative of the total.   The street workers, that 10%, are HEAVILY skewed towards an entire set of marginalized and at risk people.  But they will never be the majority of sex workers, who work indoors, independently, not coerced, and not at risk.    And not FN, and not teenage runaways, and not with substance abuse issues.    I mean all this is documented, and even discussed in parlimant hearings a few years ago.  people study this stuff, even the advocacty groups like PIVOT and those working with the street workers recognize and acknowledge that street workers are not all workers.

 

They need 80% of the help altho they represent less than 20% of the population.  I don't think any indoor worker, the vast majority would want to take away any of the help that is out there for them.  But I sure don't want to see tax dollars redirected away from providing real help for them due to a chance in laws that means police need more funds to stop clients from visiting massage parlours.    That is a total waste of resources.    

fortunate

Mórríghain wrote:

I think the only logical approach to Canada's prostitution issue is to remove all the redundant prostitution-related laws from the Criminal Code... all of them, not just the three dumped by the Supreme Court. True decriminaliztion will not happen. Unfortunately most, if not all, of our laws written since the beginning of the 20th century are not based on reason or logic. Perhaps none of them ever were.

 

I think what i have always objected to the laws overturned by the SCC is due to the fact that they are not that old.  They've only been around since the mid 80s.  But people treat them like they've always been in place, and not just that, but they have effectively been dealing with 'pimps' or whatever for a hundred years.   That isn't exactly true, in fact there  are few if any actual 'pimps' charged ever.  Is this because they are impossible to find, or because they simply do not exist in the way the general public believes they exist.    Charges have effectively been placed against the spouses of sex workers from time to time, but other than that, it takes an actual mini illegal brothel set up in a house or condo to get those charges laid against anyone, and usually but not always, it is asian migrant workers involved, who get sent home.    

I don't believe there has ever been a bawdy house charge against a single sex worker working alone since the laws came into being.  Instead the laws are used as they were always intended to be used: against the nuisance of street work.   

The city of Vancouver also put up a bylaw not that long ago that helped reduce street beggars in certain areas.  They would give them fines of all things.  Nothing says go away better than giving someone who is begging for loonies on a street corner a $50 fine for loitering on that street corner.   

quizzical

Timebandit wrote:
 It's the big picture that I can't get past, the aggregate of what acceptance of a level of commodification means in terms of how our culture views and treats women.  I just can't find the positive in it.

there isn't one.

Gustave

fortunate wrote:
Not that it's relevant.  It's still an opinion, albeit a legal one.

Court "opinions" tend to be valued more then ordinary citizens' opinions. They are binding. You may disagree with some, I do occasionally, based on your "opinions". In this particular case, I find Himel's appreciation of Farley's testimony quite convincing. She said Farley's role was to provide scientific evidence, not advocacy. Evidence of her being an advocate more than a scientific was given to the courts: her testimony was shown to be contrary to her own 'scientific' evidence in regards with at least 2 topics: the age of entry (she testified a lower medium age than her 'research' actually found) and the comparison of security between indoor and outdoor (she testified a comparable danger while her own research concludes indoor is more secure). That was not an "opinion", is was a blatant demonstration of her advocacy, something she was asked not to do in court.

Pondering wrote:
"White, well-educated and economically privileged" women, feminist or otherwise, have a responsibility to listen to NWAC which was established by Aboriginal women in 1974.

I feel the responsabily to listen to the NWAC, but not the responsability to come to the same conclusions. I have worked closely with Aboriginal communities of nomadic traditions in Québec for nearly 20 years. Prostitution is indeed something you rarely find in the reserves. It is something that comes maily with migrations to the cities, a phenomenon much less frequent here than in the West of Canada. Globally, I don't see it as a big issue in this province. I see no way prohibition of prostitution will help alleviate the misery that push Aboriginals out of their communities and the misery they face through their migration to the cities. 

lagatta wrote:
 Where I live, there are a lot of brothels, mostly "massage parlours" (salons de massage) set up in school zones, as it is densely populated and most are on busy streets where there are also kids going to schools.

Kids walking in front of massage parlors in Montréal have no idea what goes on inside. The immense majority of massage parlors in Montréal have no exterior signs suggesting any link to sexual services. Some idiots have decided to break the unwritten rule in the last few years with neon lights and xxx signs all over the showcases. This is a problem easily solved with sound municipal regulation. The fact is that massage parlors have caused no significant problems in this city in the the last three decades. Police spokesmen will tell you that they receive very few citizens complaints.

Timebandit wrote:
Sex doesn't automatically equate rape culture, but the perpetuation of male entitlement to sex on demand does - and is a requisite component of the sex industry as it exists now.

I just don't understand how one can equate prostitution to any men entitlement to sex. There's a massage therapist a few blocks away from my home. Does that mean I'm entitled to his services?

Timebandit wrote:
I also dispute that the general public doesn't understand sex and sexuality - they just don't see it your way.  Sex is fine.  Commodified sex a la the sex industry isn't. Frankly, transactional sexuality doesn't strike me as overly female friendly. 

So you understand sex and sexuality? Good for you. I don't. And I certainly hope I'll never understand it any day before I die.

 

About the "Nordic model". We can argue about the ideology driving it. Some think sex should not be a commodity. Some say sex has always been a commodity in all societies, predominatly through the institutions dictating the rules for mating.

I agree our society is different in that it has equality of rights for women and men written in its constitution. But that does not give any answer to the question whether or not sex is is a commodity.

My impression, over all, is that you can't legislate sex.

Still, I have a problem with the "Nordic model". They say they want want to protect sex workers. It's a lie. They protect sex workers if they agree to stop sex work. It's a condition. They don't protect sex workers who continue. They make their condition worst. They did not admit that in the beginning. They do today. It's the price to pay as they say. It's the basic hipocrisy of that model. Sweden rejects any idea of harm reduction.

Has anyone seen swedish statistics on the number of sex workers helped out of the trade by the public services in the last decade and a half? Any longitudinal study of them? What happenned to them? Do they stay out of the trade or do they come back? Have their economic situation improved? Don't we need those statistics? After all, I don't care if Stockholm has less street workers. I care more about what happenned to them. Some may have stopped. Fine. But have their situation improved?

fortunate

^^^  very nicely said.    

 

re: Farley, I think what the objection to her (in a peer review at least (by many fwiw)) is that she presents fiction as fact, backed up only by her advocacy and PhD but not any source data or evidence.     The examples you give are good ones regarding that. 

 

You make good points about massage parlours as well.    I find when people can't complain about the fact that brothels are not popping up next to elementary schools, they revert back to complaints about massage parlours which are also not next door to day care or high schools either.     And even if they were, the assumption that clients going to a massage parlour to see a willing mp attendant are like rabid dogs that can't tell the difference between a grown women INSIDE the mp and a toddler across the road and behind a fence.    

 

One would make a case that the law is most definitely not protecting women from violence, if that was it intention, if this story is considered    

http://www.thelocal.se/20140305/sweden-out-top-in-eu-domestic-violence-l...

 

(one striking story is about a sex worker called Jasmine, who was killed by her ex spouse, not a client.   And she is not alone, like many women who are not sex workers, they are more at risk, just like any other woman out there by their exes or male partners than any client, or random stranger)

 

 

I support decriminalization but I also respect the idea that all societies have the right to democratically decide what products are sold in the market place. The problem is that prohibition has never worked. If prohibition does not work a society must decide how to respond to the continued sale of the product/activity. Thus we agree people should not be sold and we have antislavery laws. However there is no agreement on adult sex. Thus regulation seems appropriate.

fortunate

There is a good rabble blog by Dented Blue Mercedes that reminds us that we aren't selling people, we are selling services.   No one pays for a sex worker then takes her home and keeps her.   Only time and services are paid for, only those are received, and then both go their separate ways.    To equate it to slavery or selling a complete person is one of the tools used by abolitionists to mislead the public.    And as you say, shartel, there are already laws on the books to prevent any actual slavery violations, as well there are laws against purchasing services of under 18 year olds, and on and on.  

 

I like the idea of regulation, a la New Zealand.    it's a reasonable approach for reasonable people.  The biggest complaint from the general public (in the documentary Buying Sex) seems to be that decrim and regulation did not eliminate street work (and the accompanying trash that comes with street workers/clients not throwing garbage in trash cans).    It seems to me that that nuisance could easily be addressed by putting public trash cans in the areas that street workers tend to go ?    Rather than complaining that the whole decrim/reg is a complete failure because it didn't eliminate street workers lol

Gustave

Regulation à la New Zealand is close to no regulation. Coercive pimping and minors are prohibited just lke everywhere else in the world. Otherwise, there are only 2 rules: condom use for intercourse is prescribed (something that should be included in the Canadian reform) and a special permit is necessary for brothel with more than 5 workers. That's it. Municipalities retain quite a lot of power but they can't rule out prostitution completely.

It was not expected that street prostitution would disapear, but diminish with the Prostitution Reform Act. It did not change. The only way to control street prostitution is through comprehensive approaches negociated locally between police, sex workers organisations and public health officials. Tensions will remain, whatever the regulations imposed by the federal, provincial of local governement. You got to deal with it, just like you got to deal with homelessness and all the "diviances" coomon in large cities.

quizzical

Gustave wrote:
Regulation à la New Zealand is close to no regulation.......

It was not expected that street prostitution would disapear, but diminish with the Prostitution Reform Act. It did not change.

 

sounds about right. no regulations would suit the lobby from what i've read here.

and if street prostitution, which they say is the most unsafe and needs to go inside, doesn't change what's the point?

imv it hasn't changed because men want access whenever they want it with no inconvience to themselves. are the abusers going to go in doors where they could be monitored? answer NO.

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will the abusers disappear because of criminalization of adult consesual activities? no. violence against swedish sex workers has gone up in some areas since implementation of the sex purchase ban....

and its not "no regulations" if you read the post there are some regulations....

Gustave

quizzical wrote:
no regulations would suit the lobby from what i've read here.

A lobby consisting of sex workers organisation defending their work security and a few civil rights activists. Anything wrong with that? 

quizzical wrote:
 if street prostitution, which they say is the most unsafe and needs to go inside, doesn't change what's the point?

The inicidence of street prostitution did not change, there's no less no more. The point is to have it safer. Street prostitution is a phenomenon that tends to decline on the the long run in richer societies. It's almost gone in Montréal with less then a few hundreds street worker, no more than 10% of all sex workers. Of course, decriminalisation will profit more to the 90% indoor sex workers. But that will, by no way, be gained on the back of street sex workers.

quizzical wrote:
 imv it hasn't changed because men want access whenever they want it with no inconvience to themselves. 

Should I conclude that you are in favor of the prohibition of marriage?

Correct me if I am wrong but I have not seen many men intervene in this debate. By far the most important interveners in favor of decriminalization are sex workers organizations.

quizzical

by far there's more men commenting on this topic than women and now we've you too! this is the feminist forum though so some men are more respectful of the space i guess try the sex workers forum if you want other male input.

ya, i don't believe in marriage too much. but it has nothing to do with this topic. unless we're going to start advocating for money to change hands each time there's a sexual act including in marriage. i can see judges and governments asking men who are leaving their wives how often they 'got it' from them and then say once the # is known " you owe your soon to be ex-wife an extra ? in deferred wages or lack of payment for services rendered. :D

i'm a lobby of mainly FN women who believe the re-commodification of women  is a no go is there anything wrong with it?

Gustave

Please point out where I was unrespectful.

Commodification of woman. That's an intriguing concept. You mean, like slaves? Someone you own? Some type of modern day slavery? Like the men and women forced to do a job by using physical constraint or the threat to use such constraint in agriculture, in home care, in shops and in sex work? That's horrible and unanimously condemned by everybody: left, right, white, natives, feminists, masculinists, name it. There is no debate going on about that. Sex workers unanimously condemn it. No one is fighting for a proposal of women commodification. Sex is a commodity, or can be a commodity, whether you like it or not. Some women decide to sell that commodity, whethear you like it or not. Law will not change that.You may try to "educate" them to adopt you value system. It's fine. I have no problem with that. But some will tell you they don't share your values on sex. Now are you telling me you want to force your values on them? That if they want to continue selling sex you are going to come across THEIR way by cutting off their supply?

I'l tell you what the paradoxe is about prohibitionnists. The say they want to protect women. It's a lie. They simply don't like prostitution and people, men AND women involved in it. Sex workers are fighting to improve their security. That's a no no for prohibitionists. They are against ANY improvement of sex workers security. They are fighting for deterioration of of sex workers security. It's a fight against sex workers driven by moral values on sex.

By the way, not all FN women share the idea of prohibition. Some are really concerned in protecting FN sex workers conditions.

quizzical

like chattal  only now only our vaginas would be worth anything

i think the feminists around here don't like the man explaining in the feminist forum. i differ i don't like it anywhere

fortunate

Gustave wrote:

Regulation à la New Zealand is close to no regulation. Coercive pimping and minors are prohibited just lke everywhere else in the world. Otherwise, there are only 2 rules: condom use for intercourse is prescribed (something that should be included in the Canadian reform) and a special permit is necessary for brothel with more than 5 workers. That's it. Municipalities retain quite a lot of power but they can't rule out prostitution completely.

It was not expected that street prostitution would disapear, but diminish with the Prostitution Reform Act. It did not change. The only way to control street prostitution is through comprehensive approaches negociated locally between police, sex workers organisations and public health officials. Tensions will remain, whatever the regulations imposed by the federal, provincial of local governement. You got to deal with it, just like you got to deal with homelessness and all the "diviances" coomon in large cities.

 

 

They could probably control street work with municipal loitering bylaws and no stopping zones, etc, which i think they do.    

 

Barriers are required for all contact, including oral sex (both sides), so it goes into OHS policies that nothing without a condom, including a bj, is permitted.    That is definitely a policy that needs to be part of any regulation requirements.   Its a health and safety worker issue, to me.    

fortunate

quizzical wrote:

Gustave wrote:
Regulation à la New Zealand is close to no regulation.......

It was not expected that street prostitution would disapear, but diminish with the Prostitution Reform Act. It did not change.

 

sounds about right. no regulations would suit the lobby from what i've read here.

and if street prostitution, which they say is the most unsafe and needs to go inside, doesn't change what's the point?

imv it hasn't changed because men want access whenever they want it with no inconvience to themselves. are the abusers going to go in doors where they could be monitored? answer NO.

 

The point is obvious:  street work in any country accounts for only a fraction of all sex work.    Reform in NZ, like any other country, was meant to improve working conditions for all workers.  It improve conditions for street workers as well.  it was only the assumption and presumption of the general public that the reform would eliminate street work.     It was never the actual intention of the reform to do anything more than reform the unfair working conditions sex workers who were doing something legal had to endure.   

 

Most agree that no sex worker sells their body parts.  afaik, that would entail the customer walking away with that body part after it being purchased.  It is a false statement of hysterical feminists to use that kind of terminology, and is much of the reason why many people are now leaning towards decriminalization of sex work.   The sky is falling rhetoric of the abolitionists, along with the debunked claims and stats, have led to statements like those to be discredited.   Not long behind is a move and a general consensus on any media produced polling that the overwhelming majority of Canadians want less legislation for sex workers, not more.  

 

Example A:   http://www.cbc.ca/day6/blog/2014/03/06/rethinking-prostitution-doc-and-talk/

 

Interesting research on the language of the abolitionists:   http://myweb.dal.ca/mgoodyea/Documents/Sex%20work%20-%20General/The%20mythology%20of%20prostitution%20-%20advocacy%20research%20and%20public%20policy%20Weitzer%202010%20Sex%20Res%20Soc%20Pol%207%2015-29.pdf

 

Jeffreys(1997) has written, “Antiprostitution campaigners use the term prostituted women instead of prostitutes. This is a deliberate political decision and is meant to symbolize the lack of choice women have over being used in prostitution”(p. 330). In the oppression paradigm, individual agency is deemed impossible. The logic for this argument is sometimes stated in a dubious manner: “To the extent that any woman is assumed to have freely chosen prostitution, then it follows that enjoyment of domination and rape are in her nature”(Farley and Kelly 2000, p. 54).

Sensationalism is abundant in this body of literature. Anecdotal horror stories are a staple of these writings, and clearly are designed to arouse readers' indignation. Reports,websites, and journal articles in the prohibitionist vein feature quotes from women who have had horrible experiences,which are presented as typical.

Moreover, the authors themselves frequently write in an alarming manner. For instance, Farley (2006) has written, “When women are turned into objects that men masturbate into, profound psychological harm results for the person who is acting as receptacle” (p. 107). With this kind of language, Farleyherself appears to objectify the women.

 Another example of such sensationalism is Farley's declaration that “prostitution,pornography, and trafficking meet or exceed legal definitions of torture” (p. 114). The tone of such writings is a radical departure from that of conventional scholarly writings. Labeling prostitution as paid rape, workers as prostituted women or survivors, and customers as predators and sexo ffenders has shock value. The oppression paradigm superimposes these emotionally laden constructs on the actors in a universalistic manner.

Such categorical terminology obscures the empirically documented relationships between workers and customers, which are complex and varied. Moreover, many customers and workers themselves reject these derogatory labels. In a study of 294 street prostitutes in Miami, for instance, almost all of them “prefer the terms sex worker and working woman and refer to themselves as such” (Kurtz et al. 2004, p. 359). Others call themselves escorts or providers. In contrast to the demonization of clients prevalent in oppression literature, a unique comparative study (Monto and McRee 2005) found few differences between prostitutes' customers and a nationally representative sample of American men.

lagatta

"Hysterical feminists"?  That kind of language has no place in a progressive forum.

I agree with Lagatta

quizzical

fortunate wrote:
quizzical wrote:
Gustave wrote:
Regulation à la New Zealand is close to no regulation.......

It was not expected that street prostitution would disapear, but diminish with the Prostitution Reform Act. It did not change.

 

sounds about right. no regulations would suit the lobby from what i've read here.

and if street prostitution, which they say is the most unsafe and needs to go inside, doesn't change what's the point?

imv it hasn't changed because men want access whenever they want it with no inconvience to themselves. are the abusers going to go in doors where they could be monitored? answer NO.

The point is obvious:  street work in any country accounts for only a fraction of all sex work.    Reform in NZ, like any other country, was meant to improve working conditions for all workers.  It improve conditions for street workers as well.  it was only the assumption and presumption of the general public that the reform would eliminate street work.     It was never the actual intention of the reform to do anything more than reform the unfair working conditions sex workers who were doing something legal had to endure.

  

oh....then what has susan davis been spouting off about then...she's been carrying on saying the opposite...believe me i know . she basically called us murders and supporters of murders as think of the poor sex workers on the street and how could we do this to them. now you're painting a very different picture than she has and did.

its's not impoved things for street workers in NZ nor anywhere in the world.

as for your links about "abolitionist language"  and nasty comments how about we talk and put links up about procurring chatter like yours.

 

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hysterical feminists

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edt forgot to take some of the junk out

fortunate

Apologies for those who object to using a term referring to a person using 'sensationalist' language when writing or talking about sex work and sex workers.     As someone who has been called privileged, enslaved, delusional, etc, you get the point lol.   Someone who pokes the bear in this case is likely to get bitten.   grrrls talk back.    I know, we sex workers are supposed to be feeble minded and complient, right?   

 

Here is something for gustave and shartel, very recent article in the Ottawa Citizen by Sandra Ka Hon Chu,  the co-director of research and advocacy at the Canadian HIV/AIDS Legal Network and  Catherine Healy, national co-ordinator of the New Zealand Prostitutes’ Collective.

http://www.ottawacitizen.com/opinion/Zealand+work+model/9623498/story.html

Prior to the Prostitution Reform Act, New Zealand’s prostitution laws were very similar to ours. Prostitution itself was not criminalized, but virtually all activities associated with it were, such as soliciting in public, living on the avails, operating a brothel and procuring. Adopted to safeguard sex workers’ human rights, the 2003 law changed everything.

Sex workers in New Zealand are now covered by labour laws to promote their welfare and occupational health and safety, and refusal to work as a sex worker does not affect entitlements to unemployment insurance. Proponents of public health recognize that these laws enable frank displays of safer sex information in sex-work venues. Indeed, studies show high levels of condom use and a very low rate of HIV among New Zealand’s sex workers.

In the decade since its passage, the Prostitution Reform Act has not resulted in any growth of the sex industry or increase in number of sex workers, nor has the sky fallen. The Prostitution Law Review Committee, headed by a former police commissioner and charged with reviewing the law’s operation after its enactment, also found that there has been a marked improvement in employment conditions and a decrease in violence against sex workers.

As the Committee concluded, this was possible chiefly because the 2003 law empowered sex workers by removing the illegality of their work. Sex workers and the police appreciate these laws that foster better relationships and create an environment wherein sex workers can more readily report crimes committed against them. Sex workers, including those who work on the street, in managed brothels, alone or with their peers from home, feel more able to refuse clients or a particular sexual practice, a strong indication that decriminalization of prostitution enhances their autonomy and safety.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gustave

quizzical wrote:
oh....then what has susan davis been spouting off about then...she's been carrying on saying the opposite...believe me i know . she basically called us murders and supporters of murders as think of the poor sex workers on the street and how could we do this to them. now you're painting a very different picture than she has and did.

Not that I know her but from what I read from her, she is not saying the opposite. Your post does not explain how what she says is different. I would not call your response hysteric, far from me, but certainly strongly emotional.

 

quizzical wrote:
its's not impoved things for street workers in NZ nor anywhere in the world.

You seem to know quite a lot about street prostitution in New Zealand. Most of what I read, including the text pasted by fortunate, suggests a slight improvement of security for street walkers, due in part to a change in the police culture. But you say it's not the case. Do you mind sharing with us what you know about it?

quizzical

lol gustav ya think i've never before come across passive aggressiveness? take your "hysteric"........oh right ya didn't use it lmao.....

 

 

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i never called you a murderer....you however calaled me the "pro exploitation" lobby...

there is no refuting the connection between abolitionist actions against the sex industry and the decreasing safety of sex workers....that is not calling you a murderer....

 

quizzical

there's no debating sex work objectifies women and where legalized and decriminalized violence against all women has increased.....except it seems NZ......if you want to believe the years old propaganda from the government....other agencies say different though and yep the links are all over this thread if people want to look.

"decreasing safety" was not the words you used.

Gustave

quizzical, do you think sex objectifies women?

quizzical

the industrialization of us does

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